i went to a party tonight and saw two guys dancing...

[mpp]

...one of the guys is in my class at law school (and an acquaintance of mine...nice guy) and the other guy was his boyfriend

they're both very good looking gentlemen and both good guys

but it made me feel very weirded out...does this make me a bad person?

[pastor]

Your feelings are perfectly justified. I myself can't believe that they're starting to slither their way into law practice.

[twice]

ha.

[Mayfuck]

I stopped being weirded out by two guys doing anything together a loooong time ago.

[mpp]

i mean i always say hey i'm a good person b/c i love all people but then i see two guys grinding and i'm like wow that's gross

[mpp]

Originally posted by Mayfuck
I stopped being weirded out by two guys doing anything together a loooong time ago.

LA much?

[pastor]

Originally posted by mpp
i mean i always say hey i'm a good person b/c i love all people but then i see two guys grinding and i'm like wow that's gross

So, wait. Let me get this straight. He's actually enrolled in the class? He's not just sitting in and pretending that he's a student? Are you sure of this?

That's fucking sick.

[mpp]

yeah he's a law faggot

good guy

[Mayfuck]

Originally posted by mpp


LA much?

It just stopped grossing me out after adolescence. There were quite a few gays in my high school, which had a suprisingly tolerant student body. And one of my best and closest friends since the ninth grade is gay. And any where else I've been they've blended in just like any minority would. LA much? I don't know, it's not like this in every other city? The only big metrpolii I've been to are San Diego, San Francisco, Las Vegas, Miami, Washington and New York. All super gay cities now that I think of it. Sweet!

[pastor]

Originally posted by mpp
yeah he's a law faggot

good guy

To answer your thread question, no you are not a bad person for being shocked. Especially if they were dancing badly.

Ah, who am I kidding? Gays don't dance badly.

[Axis of Action]

I think if you're simply 'weirded' out by it (but can eventually get used to it), it's just an initial reaction to something that you're not used to - you're not gay, so it's not something you may be overly familiar with. Getting used to it shouldn't take long, it's perfectly fine, but it's not you. It's essentially culture shock.

However, if you're weirded out, then feeling violent or angry, then yes, there's something wrong.

[spa ced]

My current enrollment in Legal Aspects of the Music Industry has me pondering becoming a Music Lawyer...
I have some experience in the field. I've worked in a Law Office...

[lawson]

Originally posted by mpp
i mean i always say hey i'm a good person b/c i love all people but then i see two guys grinding and i'm like wow that's gross

because it is fucking gross. unfortunately thats what many of them think when they see a guy and girl grinding. well hell that's what i think cause grinding is fucking gross but anyway

[Axis of Action]

Originally posted by spa ced
My current enrollment in Legal Aspects of the Music Industry has me pondering becoming a Music Lawyer...
I have some experience in the field. I've worked in a Law Office...

Music Lawyer as in... working for the RIAA? Or what? Explain plz. Some of us aren't legally inclined.

[spa ced]

Originally posted by Sehki


Music Lawyer as in... working for the RIAA? Or what? Explain plz. Some of us aren't legally inclined.

I'd basically be mediating the contract between bands and record companies.

[meow]

have you ever seen big daddy?

aren't there gay lawyers in that?

[lawson]

Originally posted by meow
have you ever seen big daddy?

aren't there gay lawyers in that?

yes, truely a ground breaking film

[pink_ribbon_scars]

Originally posted by Sehki
I think if you're simply 'weirded' out by it (but can eventually get used to it), it's just an initial reaction to something that you're not used to - you're not gay, so it's not something you may be overly familiar with. Getting used to it shouldn't take long, it's perfectly fine, but it's not you. It's essentially culture shock.

However, if you're weirded out, then feeling violent or angry, then yes, there's something wrong.

Above is how I would probably justify it. I'm never grossed out by gays, but I still get a kick out of living in a gay neighborhood, and that seems just about as bad as being weirded out by two guys grinding. I just heard that my "neighborhood" is 35% gay, and I'm not sure how they defined neighborhood, but if they defined it like I think they did, that means the area around my apartment is about 75% gay. That's pretty fucking gay. EVERYTIME I go outside I see gays. Usually paired up holding hands, running together, in the grocery together, etc, and I am never ever bothered by it, but I notice them and put them in a separate category from myself. I often think gay couples are "cute" but I rarely think hetero relationships are "cute," especially random ones that I see on the street. I feel like thinking they're cute marginalizes them somehow. They are different from me in ways, but I'd like to stop classifying people and just get on with life.

You'll survive the gays, JM!