question for the guys of netphoria. - Page 2

Lie · 12-02-2003, 01:15 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ******
decency is relative.

So is penis size. Why this matters is beyond me.

Fattening Ass · 12-02-2003, 02:04 AM

i think i would be irritated. But it isn't anything to be retarded over for days.

wangcomputers · 03:45 AM

the rules for conduct seem to be different between genders. I don't thing it's necessarily sexist inequality.
As much as we'd like to believe otherwise, it's clear that males and females are attracted and repulsed by different things; females often attracted to confidence and males often attracted to someone who they view as being immaculate.

It's inherent for males to be possessory and competitive. This is often reflected in their egos and the need to feel that they’ve earnt the privilege of viewing their girlfriends in a certain manner.
To have his girlfriend show herself to just anyone doesn’t really have anything to do with 'insecurity', but it could affect his respect for her. Basically it gives the image that she's easy.

But if i was female, i don’t think i'd mind so much if my boyfriend was showing his genitals, because in our society and also in the natural world, there is an inherent aversion to female promiscuity/flamboyance. In all species, females are usually regarded as the ‘trophies’ that rival males right for and the rules of social conduct have adopted and reinforced that perspective.
I suppose it's the same thing when you compare labels as "stud" and "slut". There is just greater emphasis on females behaving a certain way.

But having said all that, she was drunk and the guy should probably take that into consideration before over-reacting like he did.

Rider · 12-02-2003, 04:03 AM

It depends alot on the situation. I can see my self not getting upset at all or totally getting pissed about. Think depends on how carried away she got with it.

kiwi · 12-02-2003, 04:56 AM

I'd be a bit miffed, but.....it's nothing to split up about or something.

Dead · 12-02-2003, 05:15 AM

I would be pissed and leave the party.

scouse_dave · 12-02-2003, 07:37 AM

i would be pissed off, simple as that...

i also agree with most of what wangy said

RopeyLopey · 12-02-2003, 07:56 AM

I would be pissed off and I wouldn't probably call her the next day, either. Like what would you say to her? I think the guy just wants her to realize she's done something wrong - she'll acknowledge it and then they can go on again. On the other hand, it wouldn't impress me very much, too, if she'll try to call me TWICE the very next day. Just let him alone now, he'll calm down while he'd think you had enough time to realize your mistake.

But still I guess there will be some doubts left in his head. Like -
yeah, she may be drunk. But is this an excuse? She did that once, so why she couldn't possibly do it next time again? So she should maybe let him know somehow she's aware that what she's done was wrong - that she acknowledges her mistake.

I agree with dancomputers as well.

BeautifulLoser · 12-02-2003, 09:52 AM

I'd do what he did too. I'd not call her for a day or two, then probably either call her or tell her to her face that she was acting like a fuckwit.

There's nothing i hate worse than a girl that feels the need to flash people and act obnoxious as fuck when she gets drunk. I get the urge to grab a baseball bat and have at it.

cap'n jazz · 12-02-2003, 10:08 AM

I WOULD POKE THE BITCH IN THE EYE! LOL!

Nimrod's Son · 12-02-2003, 11:23 AM

I would be pissed at first, but I wouldn't stop talking to her unless I was just using her for sex and was looking for a reason to dump her.

Orchestra · 12-02-2003, 12:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by ******
he didn't freak out. he stopped talking to her. that's exactly what i would have done, and considering they were only going out for a few weeks, i wouldn't think of it as any huge loss.

I think it would actually bother me.
I mean, it would make me feel like just another spectator when I'm supposidly with someone to be someone special to them.

bonsor · 12-02-2003, 12:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BeautifulLoser
I'd do what he did too. I'd not call her for a day or two, then probably either call her or tell her to her face that she was acting like a fuckwit.

There's nothing i hate worse than a girl that feels the need to flash people and act obnoxious as fuck when she gets drunk. I get the urge to grab a baseball bat and have at it.

i like you

12-02-2003, 03:38 AM	#33
wangcomputers Apocalyptic Poster Location: UK Posts: 4,058	the rules for conduct seem to be different between genders. I don't thing it's necessarily sexist inequality. As much as we'd like to believe otherwise, it's clear that males and females are attracted and repulsed by different things; females often attracted to confidence and males often attracted to someone who they view as being immaculate. It's inherent for males to be possessory and competitive. This is often reflected in their egos and the need to feel that they’ve earnt the privilege of viewing their girlfriends in a certain manner. To have his girlfriend show herself to just anyone doesn’t really have anything to do with 'insecurity', but it could affect his respect for her. Basically it gives the image that she's easy. But if i was female, i don’t think i'd mind so much if my boyfriend was showing his genitals, because in our society and also in the natural world, there is an inherent aversion to female promiscuity/flamboyance. In all species, females are usually regarded as the ‘trophies’ that rival males right for and the rules of social conduct have adopted and reinforced that perspective. I suppose it's the same thing when you compare labels as "stud" and "slut". There is just greater emphasis on females behaving a certain way. But having said all that, she was drunk and the guy should probably take that into consideration before over-reacting like he did. Last edited by wangcomputers : 12-02-2003 at 03:45 AM.

12-02-2003, 11:23 AM	#41
Nimrod's Son Master of Karate and Friendship Location: in your butt Posts: 72,943	I would be pissed at first, but I wouldn't stop talking to her unless I was just using her for sex and was looking for a reason to dump her. __________________ - Nimrod's Son: Problem Solver!

12-02-2003, 02:04 AM	#32
Fattening Ass Just Hook it to My Veins! Location: Planet Nintendu 64 Posts: 30,825	i think i would be irritated. But it isn't anything to be retarded over for days.

12-02-2003, 04:03 AM	#34
Rider Minion of Satan Location: I was born a snake handler, and I'll die a snake handler Posts: 9,505	It depends alot on the situation. I can see my self not getting upset at all or totally getting pissed about. Think depends on how carried away she got with it.

12-02-2003, 04:56 AM	#35
kiwi Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 2,197	I'd be a bit miffed, but.....it's nothing to split up about or something.

12-02-2003, 05:15 AM	#36
Dead Deaddy is your daddy! Location: Veronica Mars played with my Wii. Posts: 39,187	I would be pissed and leave the party.

12-02-2003, 07:37 AM	#37
scouse_dave Minion of Satan Location: Manchester Posts: 5,089	i would be pissed off, simple as that... i also agree with most of what wangy said

12-02-2003, 07:56 AM	#38
RopeyLopey Braindead Posts: 15,483	I would be pissed off and I wouldn't probably call her the next day, either. Like what would you say to her? I think the guy just wants her to realize she's done something wrong - she'll acknowledge it and then they can go on again. On the other hand, it wouldn't impress me very much, too, if she'll try to call me TWICE the very next day. Just let him alone now, he'll calm down while he'd think you had enough time to realize your mistake. But still I guess there will be some doubts left in his head. Like - yeah, she may be drunk. But is this an excuse? She did that once, so why she couldn't possibly do it next time again? So she should maybe let him know somehow she's aware that what she's done was wrong - that she acknowledges her mistake. I agree with dancomputers as well.

12-02-2003, 09:52 AM	#39
BeautifulLoser Socialphobic Location: Middle of somewhere Posts: 13,755	I'd do what he did too. I'd not call her for a day or two, then probably either call her or tell her to her face that she was acting like a fuckwit. There's nothing i hate worse than a girl that feels the need to flash people and act obnoxious as fuck when she gets drunk. I get the urge to grab a baseball bat and have at it.

12-02-2003, 10:08 AM	#40
cap'n jazz Socialphobic Location: FUCKING HELL Posts: 11,689	I WOULD POKE THE BITCH IN THE EYE! LOL!