When people don't return text messages - Page 3

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 10:41 PM

People have different passions. I really fucking love Rock music and culture.

If I just wanted to sleep with this girl it wouldn't matter. But it's not like that. I want to keep talking about music and I want to go to concerts with her.

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by ohnoitsbonnie

Who are you guys? *scratches head*

Have you been living under a rock?

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Elphenor

People have different passions. I really fucking love Rock music and culture.

If I just wanted to sleep with this girl it wouldn't matter. But it's not like that. I want to keep talking about music and I want to go to concerts with her.

If that's what you want: You should just find some cute girl that knows NOTHING about music. That's the funnest. Having the experience of showing her the most groundbreaking stuff for the FIRST time and then discussing what she thought about it with her. Taking some clueless girl to her first awesome concert is also an immensely satisfying experience.

I don't know why you're so bent outta shape about finding some broad who likes similar bands that you do. Seems pretty close minded man.

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by fuzzyroes

Step off, Elphy. If you actually grew a sack and maybe actually PHONED this gal and TALKED to her you may have had a better shot at building the relationship that you so clearly desired. But if you think that any women gives a shit about some guy texting them about ancient bands then your dreaming. She was humoring you man. Get over it already and stop yer bitching.

You're an idiot.

And young people don't call much anymore because it's a hassle for everyone. It has nothing to do with your weird assumption that "nerds can only text because calling is scary".
I got this girl's number by directly asking for it.

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 10:51 PM

You asked for her number.....great. But instead of picking up the phone and firmly making a strong impression while having a conversation with her you decided to pursue the situation with your tail between your legs and sent her an "SMS text message".

Is it any wonder why she's not bothering with you? She probably thinks yer a nerd. Just pick up the phone and try to make a direct plan with her for crying out loud.

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by fuzzyroes

If that's what you want: You should just find some cute girl that knows NOTHING about music. That's the funnest. Having the experience of showing her the most groundbreaking stuff for the FIRST time and then discussing what she thought about it with her. Taking some clueless girl to her first awesome concert is also an immensely satisfying experience.

I don't know why you're so bent outta shape about finding some broad who likes similar bands that you do. Seems pretty close minded man.

Why would you want to talk to someone who knows nothing about what you like to talk about?

Trotskilicious · 09-01-2014, 10:53 PM

Groundbreaking stuff like nofx

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 10:54 PM

I mean of fucking course you don't understand the importance of music when you listen to shit like NOFX

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Elphenor

I mean of fucking course you don't understand the importance of music when you listen to shit like NOFX

Riiiiiiiiiiiighhhhhhhhhhhht. Cause you can only understand the importance of music if you listen to the Smiths and Joy Division... Super original "bro"...

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Elphenor

Why would you want to talk to someone who knows nothing about what you like to talk about?

Because theres A LOT more in life than your personal musical enjoyment you fuck head.

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:03 PM

It's not just personal entertainment. I don't know how to explain that to you

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:05 PM

It's like calling someone's religion a hobbey

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 11:08 PM

You've got a lot to learn young grasshopper.

I can't poke fun at you though. I was ultimately the same way when I was 20.

Don't put too much importance in this kind of thing though. Trust me, you WILL grow out of it and might regret some of your romantic decisions later on.

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 11:09 PM

Everythings all in good fun. But when you ditch some awesome girl for someone you think is rad because of their musical tastes you'll likely regret it later on.

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 11:10 PM

I'm telling you though. It's much funner finding some awesome girl who knows NOTHING about music. You have that awesome experience of sharing SO many awesome bands with her for the very first time! That's what it's all about man

butthurt · 09-01-2014, 11:11 PM

Are you sure she is still alive? Phone dropped in toilet? Abducted? Grounded?

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:12 PM

Bro, you really don't get it.

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:14 PM

I have no idea what happened. It's likely she's just busy.

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 11:15 PM

Why don't you just phone her and be like heeeeeey what's up!? So how about the Pixies show? You still down?

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:18 PM

The last thing I want to do is bug someone who doesn't want to talk to me.

And she works random schedules. She's likely to be working or in class when I call. (This is why texts are preferable for young people)

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:21 PM

Pretty much what I do in all these situations is pretend it doesn't bother me. Gotta hide the fact that I'm not as busy as I should be.

Fake Plastic Trees

vixnix · 09-01-2014, 11:25 PM

oh but don't take her to a pixies show because I've heard they're terrible now

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:31 PM

We were gonna see NIN but we missed them. So I was like how about Pixies? And she was like "Yeah, for sure"
And she was like are they playing The House of Blues? And I was like no they are playing this other venue
And she was like this is going to be my first time going there.

I WAS GOING TO GET TO GO SEE PIXIES WITH A PRETTY GIRL.

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:33 PM

The concept of doing something I enjoy with someone I enjoy being around is really foriegn to me even it seems pretty normal.

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Elphenor

We were gonna see NIN but we missed them. So I was like how about Pixies? And she was like "Yeah, for sure"
And she was like are they playing The House of Blues? And I was like no they are playing this other venue
And she was like this is going to be my first time going there.

I WAS GOING TO GET TO GO SEE PIXIES WITH A PRETTY GIRL.

Ouch man... She blew you off once already? And then you asked her to the Pixies and she said "yeah for sure"... She's not interested at all man. "Yeah for sure" after ditching you once already is basically a big, fat NO.

I think she's probably just reached her breaking point with you texting her so she's just trying to send a message by ignoring you. Sorry Holmes

fuzzyroes · 09-01-2014, 11:40 PM

Besides if she liked you enough to go see the Pixies with you, she would likely be interested in getting to hang out with you sometime, days before the show as well.

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:49 PM

Lolol.

No we missed them in that we were both like "Hey isn't NIN coming here" but it turned they already were here last week.

yo soy el mejor · 09-01-2014, 11:52 PM

are you a junior in high school?

reprise85 · 09-01-2014, 11:53 PM

fuzzy you sound like an old man. you dont know how 20 year olds communicate. people dont talk on the phone. it doesnt mean he's a 'nerd' or that the 'broad' lost interest. its just not as common anymore.

i mean she might be blowing elph off, i dont know. but seriously you sound like a grandpa

elph she will get back to you if/when she wants to. i would let it go for now.

Elphenor · 09-01-2014, 11:54 PM

I looked it up and was like "Oh fuck looks like we missed t****
But hey, Pixies next month

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09-01-2014, 10:41 PM	#61
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	People have different passions. I really fucking love Rock music and culture. If I just wanted to sleep with this girl it wouldn't matter. But it's not like that. I want to keep talking about music and I want to go to concerts with her.

09-01-2014, 10:51 PM	#65
fuzzyroes Banned Posts: 21,216	You asked for her number.....great. But instead of picking up the phone and firmly making a strong impression while having a conversation with her you decided to pursue the situation with your tail between your legs and sent her an "SMS text message". Is it any wonder why she's not bothering with you? She probably thinks yer a nerd. Just pick up the phone and try to make a direct plan with her for crying out loud.

09-01-2014, 10:53 PM	#67
Trotskilicious Banned Location: I believe in the transcendental qualities of friendship. Posts: 39,602	Groundbreaking stuff like nofx

09-01-2014, 10:54 PM	#68
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	I mean of fucking course you don't understand the importance of music when you listen to shit like NOFX

09-01-2014, 11:03 PM	#71
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	It's not just personal entertainment. I don't know how to explain that to you

09-01-2014, 11:05 PM	#72
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	It's like calling someone's religion a hobbey

09-01-2014, 11:08 PM	#73
fuzzyroes Banned Posts: 21,216	You've got a lot to learn young grasshopper. I can't poke fun at you though. I was ultimately the same way when I was 20. Don't put too much importance in this kind of thing though. Trust me, you WILL grow out of it and might regret some of your romantic decisions later on.

09-01-2014, 11:09 PM	#74
fuzzyroes Banned Posts: 21,216	Everythings all in good fun. But when you ditch some awesome girl for someone you think is rad because of their musical tastes you'll likely regret it later on.

09-01-2014, 11:10 PM	#75
fuzzyroes Banned Posts: 21,216	I'm telling you though. It's much funner finding some awesome girl who knows NOTHING about music. You have that awesome experience of sharing SO many awesome bands with her for the very first time! That's what it's all about man

09-01-2014, 11:12 PM	#77
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	Bro, you really don't get it.

09-01-2014, 11:14 PM	#78
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	I have no idea what happened. It's likely she's just busy.

09-01-2014, 11:15 PM	#79
fuzzyroes Banned Posts: 21,216	Why don't you just phone her and be like heeeeeey what's up!? So how about the Pixies show? You still down?

09-01-2014, 11:18 PM	#80
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	The last thing I want to do is bug someone who doesn't want to talk to me. And she works random schedules. She's likely to be working or in class when I call. (This is why texts are preferable for young people)

09-01-2014, 11:21 PM	#81
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	Pretty much what I do in all these situations is pretend it doesn't bother me. Gotta hide the fact that I'm not as busy as I should be. Fake Plastic Trees

09-01-2014, 11:25 PM	#82
vixnix Socialphobic Location: we are champions, bathed in the heat of a thousand flame wars in the grim future of the internet there is only netphoria Posts: 12,035	oh but don't take her to a pixies show because I've heard they're terrible now

09-01-2014, 11:31 PM	#83
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	We were gonna see NIN but we missed them. So I was like how about Pixies? And she was like "Yeah, for sure" And she was like are they playing The House of Blues? And I was like no they are playing this other venue And she was like this is going to be my first time going there. I WAS GOING TO GET TO GO SEE PIXIES WITH A PRETTY GIRL.

09-01-2014, 11:33 PM	#84
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	The concept of doing something I enjoy with someone I enjoy being around is really foriegn to me even it seems pretty normal.

09-01-2014, 11:40 PM	#86
fuzzyroes Banned Posts: 21,216	Besides if she liked you enough to go see the Pixies with you, she would likely be interested in getting to hang out with you sometime, days before the show as well.

09-01-2014, 11:49 PM	#87
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	Lolol. No we missed them in that we were both like "Hey isn't NIN coming here" but it turned they already were here last week.

09-01-2014, 11:52 PM	#88
yo soy el mejor Banned Location: all over the Internet Posts: 43,693	are you a junior in high school?

09-01-2014, 11:53 PM	#89
reprise85 BOTTLEG ILLEGAL Location: I'm faced with so many changes that I just might change my face Posts: 31,891	fuzzy you sound like an old man. you dont know how 20 year olds communicate. people dont talk on the phone. it doesnt mean he's a 'nerd' or that the 'broad' lost interest. its just not as common anymore. i mean she might be blowing elph off, i dont know. but seriously you sound like a grandpa elph she will get back to you if/when she wants to. i would let it go for now.

09-01-2014, 11:54 PM	#90
Elphenor Braindead Location: Shivers Posts: 16,139	I looked it up and was like "Oh fuck looks like we missed t**** But hey, Pixies next month