do all you fuckers who dont have and know you will never have kids

[reprise85]

del nevermind

[Eulogy]

no, never.

[reprise85]

oh god the trick or treating has started. first knock on the door. my room is right next to the front door even though it doesn't connect to my part of the house.

[Eulogy]

i don't think we have gotten/will get any? a friend who lives a little over a mile away lives in area that they blocked traffic from in order to let kids trick or treat.

nuhhhhh uh. glad that's not happening here.

[sppunk]

No never.

I fucking hate Halloween too.

[reprise85]

yeah fuck halloween

[pale_princess]

got 5 trick or treaters.
also, never.

[reprise85]

basically i asked in a whiny way if anyone wishes their circumstances were different and they would/could/whatever have kids or if they can and just dont want to if they ever do want to

like i mean i'm probably fertile and could get someone to fuck me but i can't really take care of a kid in any kind of near responsible way so i count that as "can't"

[killtrocity]

THIS IS ICE

[Trotskilicious]

halloween is dumb

wasn't there some thread last year where everyone was crying because trotsky hates halloween

[null123]

i'm don't know what this thread is about, but i'll hopefully have kids someday, but it wouldn't be very practical until i'm at least 29-30. and i love halloween. some years I dress up, this year I'm passing out glow stick jewelry and stickers. hth

[sppunk]

Out of curiosity, why do you peg 29-30 as the practical years?

[null123]

because i think i'll have a good job then and be totally done with my education

[Order 66]

virtually all my friends have kids now and its hit me pretty hard. i thought i could deal but lately reality has kind of seeped in. like yesterday i was at a party and i was just sitting there quiet while everybody else talked "grown up stuff" as it pertained to surburbia, good school areas, ect... i expect this to happen more and more

its kind of tempting to just 'go with the flow' and pursue a family life.. i would like to be a dad *in the abstact* ... but ultimately my head says no and my gut follows. i think being kidless is the way to go for me but on the other hand i don't want to be the creepy middle age dude in his porsche .. hopefully ill find a middle ground

[Trotskilicious]

i'll never have kids because i am terrible and nobody likes me

[Trotskilicious]

i'm creepy just because of my face

[Trotskilicious]

i should commit suicide

[Future Boy]

I didnt want kids, but now I dont know. I've gotten so worried about my little nephews when they get sick I think if it happened to my own kids Id have a breakdown or something.

[Future Boy]

fucking nephews, the little bastards made me feel!

[null123]

hehe

[reprise85]

i'm just starting college now (at 28). i had one extremely fucked up relationship from 14-19 y/o that basically has rendered me incapable of getting close to other people. and i have severe mental illness which is controlled but has a lot of upkeep. and take medicines that will likely kill me earlier than most people. and the downsides for stopping these things is worse than continuing them. and i'll be in therapy for a long time but that wouldn't stop me from having a kid, if i was mentally well enough to have one without fucking it up with my neurosis.

so basically i'm fucked and can't have kids.

and i didn't even want kids

and i don't want kids

but just seeing them and knowing i just am not capable is pretty fucked up you know what i mean

i'm super excited about school and i totally believe i'll go far in my field and be very occupied with it, and maybe i'll even be capable of a romantic long term relationship eventually. but kids aren't going to happen, let's be real.

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by Future Boy

fucking nephews, the little bastards made me feel!

aww future boy got the feels

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by Order 66

virtually all my friends have kids now and its hit me pretty hard. i thought i could deal but lately reality has kind of seeped in. like yesterday i was at a party and i was just sitting there quiet while everybody else talked "grown up stuff" as it pertained to surburbia, good school areas, ect... i expect this to happen more and more

its kind of tempting to just 'go with the flow' and pursue a family life.. i would like to be a dad *in the abstact* ... but ultimately my head says no and my gut follows. i think being kidless is the way to go for me but on the other hand i don't want to be the creepy middle age dude in his porsche .. hopefully ill find a middle ground

also what do we do when all of our family dies and there's no next generation.

like i wouldn't have a kid to not be lonely but that's sort of a big deal isn't it. to have no family? i have a sister and she has a long term-ish boyfriend now. maybe they'll have kids and i can be the crazy aunt.

i dont really have a lot of friends, the one i do have doesnt have kids but we're not really close anymore. all of my acquaintances and people i work with my age have kids

[MyOneAndOnly]

i'm never having kids.

i did hand out candy tonight, though. we've been here 7 years and this was the first time we did. I got sick of it after about 30 minutes. Now i have a pile of candy I'll never eat

[soniclovenoize]

lol @ all of u

[reprise85]

protip: only open one bag at a time and returned unopened bags of candy to the store.

[null123]

Originally Posted by reprise85

i'm just starting college now (at 28). i had one extremely fucked up relationship from 14-19 y/o that basically has rendered me incapable of getting close to other people. and i have severe mental illness which is controlled but has a lot of upkeep. and take medicines that will likely kill me earlier than most people. and the downsides for stopping these things is worse than continuing them. and i'll be in therapy for a long time but that wouldn't stop me from having a kid, if i was mentally well enough to have one without fucking it up with my neurosis.

so basically i'm fucked and can't have kids.

and i didn't even want kids

and i don't want kids

but just seeing them and knowing i just am not capable is pretty fucked up you know what i mean

i'm super excited about school and i totally believe i'll go far in my field and be very occupied with it, and maybe i'll even be capable of a romantic long term relationship eventually. but kids aren't going to happen, let's be real.

the idea that you of all people shouldn't have kids is hard for me to grasp because you're such a patient and empathetic person, I think you'd be a great parent. only you know what would be right for you of course, but I hope you're not being too critical of yourself, especially considering all you've accomplished for yourself in such a short time. who knows what the experience of college etc and then next few years could do for you? if you don't want kids then that's another thing, but based on what you wrote I wouldn't say it's impossible for you to do if you wanted eventually

[noyen]

my girlfriend told me she is pregnant tonight. i'm excited to have a ton more kids. my little satanist. my little anarchist. my little ponyplay transgendered goth industrial wiccan baby.

[noyen]

we practice kink, have trantric sex, listen to sting and 10,000 maniacs and are freegans with dietary restrictions.

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by Charmbag

the idea that you of all people shouldn't have kids is hard for me to grasp because you're such a patient and empathetic person, I think you'd be a great parent. only you know what would be right for you of course, but I hope you're not being too critical of yourself, especially considering all you've accomplished for yourself in such a short time. who knows what the experience of college etc and then next few years could do for you? if you don't want kids then that's another thing, but based on what you wrote I wouldn't say it's impossible for you to do if you wanted eventually

thank you for saying that. i really don't think it will work out for me but i'm open to change. i mean, getting a cat was a big deal for me. it was good for me but also was a sign that i am confident i won't be going into a mental hospital again (btw it's been more than 3 years now, wtf). so i guess that changed and i never thought it would. i just feel like i'm going to run out of time i guess