do any of you ever feel like you're supposed to kill yourself? - Page 6

vixnix · 11-30-2012, 01:26 AM

If that is your goal remember to show yourself compassion if you don't achieve it <3

reprise85 · 11-30-2012, 01:52 AM

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Originally Posted by vixnix

Which is why goal setting is so important, so in those moments when you are tempted to give in, you can think of what it is you're aiming for or working towards, and make that choice to ride out the discomfort and do something else.

Self compassion is a huge thing too. You have to have more compassion for yourself ilp. Have compassion for the ilp who was so hurt she stopped nourishing her body so that the hunger would drown out everything else. When you make a mistake or lose a day to those recurring thoughts, tell yourself it's ok and you are working on it.

These are my guidelines which I am giving to you at no cost!
- set goals
- discover self compassion

no offense, but you sound like a bad self help book

i dont really disagree with you but someone in the midst of addiction, even someone who is ending it, isn't thinking like this and ime it just frustrated me when people said shit like this

vixnix · 11-30-2012, 02:35 AM

No offense but...haha

I'm an addict in recovery, an abuse survivor and I just tried to distill 15 years of therapy into two instructions for ilp because she seems unable or not ready to go into therapy herself.

Also, let her speak for herself. If you have something to say, just say it. And don't bother tacking the offense, but...on the front if it.

pavementtune · 11-30-2012, 04:26 AM

Someone should have closed this thread right after Starla's post.

vixnix · 11-30-2012, 04:50 AM

reprise85 · 11-30-2012, 10:02 PM

slunken · 11-30-2012, 10:04 PM

reprise85 · 11-30-2012, 10:04 PM

sorry vixnix, i didnt mean to be a bitch

reprise85 · 11-30-2012, 10:06 PM

its funny, all the stuff we all talk about on here and this is what people have grabbed onto as something "crazy" "get real" etc

i guess some things should be left in therapy

slunken · 11-30-2012, 10:33 PM

i'm already dead

vixnix · 12-01-2012, 02:33 AM

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Originally Posted by reprise85

its funny, all the stuff we all talk about on here and this is what people have grabbed onto as something "crazy" "get real" etc

i guess some things should be left in therapy

Yeah it kinda seems that way doesn't it. Oh well too late. At least people believe you're a real person!

You were right to be a bitch, probably. I did sound like a bad self help book. That's what I'm working on now but 10 years ago a wouldn't have listened to any of that.

noyen · 12-01-2012, 02:43 AM

bitches one upping.

noyen · 12-01-2012, 02:44 AM

i really do mean to be an asshole.

noyen · 12-01-2012, 02:47 AM

i have lived. i have opinions. i know the way. deftones ate amazing.

Trotskilicious · 12-01-2012, 05:16 AM

there is a toilet at the end of the rainbow

reprise85 · 12-01-2012, 05:29 AM

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Originally Posted by vixnix

Yeah it kinda seems that way doesn't it. Oh well too late. At least people believe you're a real person!

You were right to be a bitch, probably. I did sound like a bad self help book. That's what I'm working on now but 10 years ago a wouldn't have listened to any of that.

are you sure you're not really my dissociated personality? redbreegull thinks so, in his professional opinion.

vixnix · 12-01-2012, 07:46 AM

that would sure be something. I have that level of residual psychosis where I can just about imagine that it's true. It's kind of like that movie Identity. I loved that movie.

Starla · 12-01-2012, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by reprise85

are you sure you're not really my dissociated personality? redbreegull thinks so, in his professional opinion.

Where did he say it was you? Apparently I missed that. I thought he was talking about pavement and vix.

reprise85 · 12-01-2012, 01:52 PM

he didn't, i just assume he meant me because i talk about dissociation a lot. maybe i'm just a narcissist. me me me

pavementtune · 12-01-2012, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Starla

Where did he say it was you? Apparently I missed that. I thought he was talking about pavement and vix.

That must be it, because we studied similar subjects.

11-30-2012, 04:50 AM	#155
vixnix Socialphobic Location: we are champions, bathed in the heat of a thousand flame wars in the grim future of the internet there is only netphoria Posts: 12,035	Yep.

11-30-2012, 10:02 PM	#156
reprise85 BOTTLEG ILLEGAL Location: I'm faced with so many changes that I just might change my face Posts: 31,883	yeah

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11-30-2012, 01:26 AM	#151
vixnix Socialphobic Location: we are champions, bathed in the heat of a thousand flame wars in the grim future of the internet there is only netphoria Posts: 12,035	If that is your goal remember to show yourself compassion if you don't achieve it <3

11-30-2012, 02:35 AM	#153
vixnix Socialphobic Location: we are champions, bathed in the heat of a thousand flame wars in the grim future of the internet there is only netphoria Posts: 12,035	No offense but...haha I'm an addict in recovery, an abuse survivor and I just tried to distill 15 years of therapy into two instructions for ilp because she seems unable or not ready to go into therapy herself. Also, let her speak for herself. If you have something to say, just say it. And don't bother tacking the offense, but...on the front if it.

11-30-2012, 04:26 AM	#154
pavementtune ************** Location: I'm a quitter. I come from a long line of quitters. It's amazing I'm here at all. Posts: 8,689	Someone should have closed this thread right after Starla's post.

11-30-2012, 10:04 PM	#158
reprise85 BOTTLEG ILLEGAL Location: I'm faced with so many changes that I just might change my face Posts: 31,883	sorry vixnix, i didnt mean to be a bitch

11-30-2012, 10:06 PM	#159
reprise85 BOTTLEG ILLEGAL Location: I'm faced with so many changes that I just might change my face Posts: 31,883	its funny, all the stuff we all talk about on here and this is what people have grabbed onto as something "crazy" "get real" etc i guess some things should be left in therapy

11-30-2012, 10:33 PM	#160
slunken Virgo Posts: 39,745	i'm already dead

12-01-2012, 02:43 AM	#162
noyen Immortal Posts: 26,816	bitches one upping.

12-01-2012, 02:44 AM	#163
noyen Immortal Posts: 26,816	i really do mean to be an asshole.

12-01-2012, 02:47 AM	#164
noyen Immortal Posts: 26,816	i have lived. i have opinions. i know the way. deftones ate amazing.

12-01-2012, 05:16 AM	#165
Trotskilicious Banned Location: I believe in the transcendental qualities of friendship. Posts: 39,602	there is a toilet at the end of the rainbow

12-01-2012, 07:46 AM	#167
vixnix Socialphobic Location: we are champions, bathed in the heat of a thousand flame wars in the grim future of the internet there is only netphoria Posts: 12,035	that would sure be something. I have that level of residual psychosis where I can just about imagine that it's true. It's kind of like that movie Identity. I loved that movie.

12-01-2012, 01:52 PM	#169
reprise85 BOTTLEG ILLEGAL Location: I'm faced with so many changes that I just might change my face Posts: 31,883	he didn't, i just assume he meant me because i talk about dissociation a lot. maybe i'm just a narcissist. me me me