breaking up with people after years of dating

[SlingeroGuitaro]

My gf is a train wreck of bi-polar wtf's. She refuses to seek help and everytime she swings down she decides she wants to break up. We've lived together for 4 years and will just randomly say 'this isn't working, I want you to leave" but never has a reason as to why. 20 minutes later she's perfectly happy.

[SlingeroGuitaro]

What the fuck was that shit?

[Trotskilicious]

i mean you already said it, it's bi-polar disorder, but it's frustrating and confusing that she won't get therapy for it...

[duovamp]

Have you tried hitting her?

[reprise85]

Originally Posted by SlingeroGuitaro

My gf is a train wreck of bi-polar wtf's. She refuses to seek help and everytime she swings down she decides she wants to break up. We've lived together for 4 years and will just randomly say 'this isn't working, I want you to leave" but never has a reason as to why. 20 minutes later she's perfectly happy.

oh man. sounds stressful.

[wHATcOLOR]

Originally Posted by KrazeeStacee

Yeah this is a shame...it just turns into a cycle. Relationships take a lot of work and most of that work starts after the whole "honeymoon" period. It just comes down to whether or not you're both willing to put in the time and have patience, understanding and grow together.

That all sounded very Hallmark, but it's true!

wow, that was very insightful. how did you gain such a unique insight into the human condition

[KrazeeStacee]

Have you been doing this for the last 4 years or have you just been patiently waiting for my return?