Saturday nights here blowwww

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by slunken

hey eulogy - what's new in life?

you were about two hours late!

not much though. just chugging along. you?

[slunken]

trying to live a more focused and determined life.

[Eulogy]

sounds coll

[slunken]

conversely i'm trying real hard to be mellow all the time and not get so worked up about things.

[slunken]

it's the duality, man

[slunken]

officially switched to gin gimlets too. shared bourbon with my dad earlier last week and it just didn't taste right anymore

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by slunken

officially switched to gin gimlets too. shared bourbon with my dad earlier last week and it just didn't taste right anymore

i'll probably have more bourbon as it gets colder outside.

i don't really mind gin gimlets with mediocre gin though, which makes it a lot cheaper. 'cause usually when i buy burboun i get something good.

[slunken]

i don't know much about gin so i just get tangquerey or however you spell it

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by slunken

i don't know much about gin so i just get tangquerey or however you spell it

tanqueray is delicious but it's a little pricey

i can handle gimlets with new amsterdam and seagrams. when i want to take a step up i'll usually do beefeater. but beefeater, tanqueray, plymouth, and hendrick's are all really good.

[slunken]

it's only 20 bucks a bottle at my local store. i'll look for hendricks - heard of that before.

[Eulogy]

why do i keep staying in on saturdays

i think thursdays are the new fridays and fridays are the new saturdays so that makes saturday the new sunday? i dunno.

hopefully some of you can entertain me tonight though.

[ilikeplanets]

Eulogy, you're usually pretty realistic. Here's my deal: I've been with my boyfriend for three months this Wednesday. I am definitely in love with him, he amazes me constantly and I can't imagine life without him. But is it too soon to tell him so? He is only 19, and I don't want to wreck our relationship by being too forward. And it will be so hard on me if he doesn't feel the same....he is generally so nonchalant that I can't gauge what his reaction will be. I just know I definitely feel that way about him. Does he deserve to know no matter what he feels, or should I wait for him to say something first? I rarely get this worked up over someone, so that's why I think I could use advice. Maybe this will kill a few minutes of your time..

[Eulogy]

Originally Posted by ilikeplanets

Eulogy, you're usually pretty realistic. Here's my deal: I've been with my boyfriend for three months this Wednesday. I am definitely in love with him, he amazes me constantly and I can't imagine life without him. But is it too soon to tell him so? He is only 19, and I don't want to wreck our relationship by being too forward. And it will be so hard on me if he doesn't feel the same....he is generally so nonchalant that I can't gauge what his reaction will be. I just know I definitely feel that way about him. Does he deserve to know no matter what he feels, or should I wait for him to say something first? I rarely get this worked up over someone, so that's why I think I could use advice. Maybe this will kill a few minutes of your time..

Well first I think you might be exaggerating your own feelings if it's only been three months. And chances are he doesn't feel the same yet. It's only been three months!

You don't necessarily need to wait for him to go first, but it probably is too soon for you to be that forward with him. It would probably scare him off.

And if you don't think you can handle not having all your feelings reciprocated right away, then definitely just wait.

So I would wait a little while. And try to get to the point where you feel like you can tell him without having a lukewarm response crush you. People work at different paces. You're better off not creating an issue out of it, imo.

Glad you're with someone you're really into though!

[ilikeplanets]

Thanks for the response, it's definitely some much-needed male input. All my female friends are telling me to say it, even with a disclaimer like "I don't expect you to respond, but this is how I feel and you deserve to know..." but I don't think I want to put him in such a demanding position. Ugh but it is so tough to see him without screaming how I feel....

[Eulogy]

he doesn't "deserve to know." that's silly. just make out with him whenever you feel the urge to say it or something.

[Sonic Johnny]

You guys need to do some deeper bonding before you're at that level. Introduce him to your friends, maybe ask him to join netphoria...

[ilikeplanets]

Join netphoria? I want this relationship to be successful, not disastrous....