Friends who fuck

Mason R Butler · 06-01-2003, 10:35 PM

There, talk about this. Mooney's thread is lame.

Human Replica Droid · 06-01-2003, 10:37 PM

Know where I can find some?

SPZero · 06-01-2003, 10:38 PM

ahhhh... friends with benefits

crescentfresh · 06-01-2003, 10:38 PM

works out just fine for a while, until someone wants more.

And someone will always eventually want more.

Mooney · 06-01-2003, 10:43 PM

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Originally posted by I Hate Music
Mooney's thread is lame.

i concur, wholeheartedly. i can't see myself ever having casual sex. well there is this one friend of mine i can see myself nailing. she's even told me that she wants to, she just won't devirginize me. so once i'm no longer a virgin, i can see myself maybe nailing her once. but i can't see her becomming a fuck friend.

meow · 06-01-2003, 11:18 PM

i have a friend i would like to have mad monkey sex with

but we both have significant others so it would never happen.

MercuryChild · 06-01-2003, 11:19 PM

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Originally posted by Mooney

she just won't devirginize me.

Why? I never understood why so many people have a problem with fucking a virgin. It gives me a smile knowing that I've been their first.

TheJoker · 06-01-2003, 11:20 PM

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Originally posted by Mooney

i concur, wholeheartedly. i can't see myself ever having casual sex. well there is this one friend of mine i can see myself nailing. she's even told me that she wants to, she just won't devirginize me. so once i'm no longer a virgin, i can see myself maybe nailing her once. but i can't see her becomming a fuck friend.

lie and said you already did.

Mooney · 06-01-2003, 11:25 PM

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Originally posted by MercuryChild

Why? I never understood why so many people have a problem with fucking a virgin. It gives me a smile knowing that I've been their first.

i think all three or four people she has been with were virgins, and she wants my first time to be special or something.. i don't know, i'm not gonna try and understand a female.

meow · 06-01-2003, 11:39 PM

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Originally posted by Mooney

she's even told me that she wants to, she just won't devirginize me.

she doesn't want you remembering sex with her for the rest of your life in case its crappy

you compare everyone with your first fuck.

thats a huge responsibility!

meow · 06-01-2003, 11:40 PM

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Originally posted by TheJoker

lie and said you already did.

Never Nohen · 06-01-2003, 11:51 PM

*shrug* That's one of my rules too. I won't sleep with virgins. I just, yeah, feel like a person's first time should be something special that they experience with someone they're in love with. I don't want to sleep with some boy as just a casual playmate, and then have him go out the next month and meet the love of his life and regret not being able to lose his virginity to her. I know that's how I would've felt if I'd slept with the guy I dated before August. I really would've regretted it.

There are extenuating circumstances and stuff, of course. And a lot of people have told me that it doesn't work that way for guys. But it's still something I worry about.

EverlastingGlaze · 06-01-2003, 11:53 PM

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Originally posted by meow
i have a friend i would like to have mad monkey sex with

but we both have significant others so it would never happen.

WTF

Orchestra · 06-02-2003, 12:04 AM

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Originally posted by Never_Nohen
.

I have gained respect for you

dusty · 06-02-2003, 01:14 AM

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Originally posted by crescentfresh
works out just fine for a while, until someone wants more.

And someone will always eventually want more.

and we call those people LAME.
but, in any relationship that you can ever have someone always wants more.
when you are in highschool and you date someone they want sex before you or vice versa. and then, when you start having sex they want a deeper commitment than you, or vice versa (ie: living together). and then it becomes a discussion about marraige. and then it turns into kids. and the next thing you know someone is asking you if you will put them in your will, and if you will leave them your money and pretty soon they will want to be burried next to you when all you really want is to be burried alone in a quiet place or possibly just to be cremated and have your ashes thrown on the ground.
sorry. :erm.

TheJoker · 06-02-2003, 01:19 AM

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Originally posted by Orchestra

I have gained respect for you

hey, i said that too

dusty · 06-02-2003, 01:20 AM

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Originally posted by Orchestra

I have gained respect for [never nohen]

i have too. i think we should make an appreciation post.

guz · 06-02-2003, 01:27 AM

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Originally posted by crescentfresh
works out just fine for a while, until someone wants more.

And someone will always eventually want more.

back in the day, i'd agree with this. but it's not always like that, especially the older & more mature you/they are.

Never Nohen · 06-02-2003, 02:00 AM

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Originally posted by Orchestra

I have gained respect for you

I'm...not sure I know who you are. :\ But thank you, regardless.

twice · 06-02-2003, 02:02 AM

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Originally posted by EverlastingGlaze

WTF

owch. sorry. i feel for you.

Krafty · 06-02-2003, 02:23 AM

In my mind friends who fuck are a little more than friends. For me to even kiss someone I have to care about them a lot and in a slightly different way than I do the majority of my friends. I can never imagining fucking a friend because I really don't have much of a desire to sleep with anyone who I'm not okay with the worst case scenerio: having a child.

guz · 06-02-2003, 02:27 AM

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Originally posted by Krafty
I can never imagining fucking a friend because I really don't have much of a desire to sleep with anyone who I'm not okay with the worst case scenerio: having a child.

so you abstain from sex until you -can- see yourself having a child with someone?

Krafty · 06-02-2003, 02:42 AM

Yes. No matter what you do, there's always a risk and its such a big responsibility and put yourself in such a vulnerable position that there's no way I could ever sleep with someone when that would not be okay. I'm not saying that I've wanted to have a child with anyone I've slept with, but I could have handled and it would have been okay. Its just a huge deal to me for some reason, a much greater commitment and higher level of intimacy than it is for most of my friends.

guz · 06-02-2003, 02:44 AM

no one night stands for you.

Krafty · 06-02-2003, 02:48 AM

Right. And I support my friends in all of their crazy sexual endeavors but I just couldn't do it.

Fattening Ass · 06-02-2003, 02:52 AM

fuckin' friends.

BlueStar · 06-02-2003, 04:10 AM

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Originally posted by Mooney
i can't see myself ever having casual sex.

I wouldn't describe friends with benefits as casual sex. It's someone you know, someone that you are at least somewhat attracted for, someone that you have some sort of feelings for, etc., etc. Fucking a random stranger is casual sex.

With every relationship, someone's feelings are always stronger than the other person's. Equal feelings are a pretty rare thing. So, yeah, eventually, any friends with benefits situation is bound to end badly.

Nimrod's Son · 06-02-2003, 11:28 AM

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Originally posted by Never_Nohen
*shrug* That's one of my rules too. I won't sleep with virgins. I just, yeah, feel like a person's first time should be something special that they experience with someone they're in love with. I don't want to sleep with some boy as just a casual playmate, and then have him go out the next month and meet the love of his life and regret not being able to lose his virginity to her. I know that's how I would've felt if I'd slept with the guy I dated before August. I really would've regretted it.

There are extenuating circumstances and stuff, of course. And a lot of people have told me that it doesn't work that way for guys. But it's still something I worry about.

I had a buddy in college who couldn't ever get laid once he told people he was a virgin because everyone he tried to hook up with, like you said, won't sleep with virgins. They all wanted his first experience to be "special and magical with leprechauns and unicorns" or "with another virgin." He went two years trying to score and then eventually did with some random chick he met at a party just to get it over with.

I think it's kinda lame for someone else to dictate when and where someone else should lose their virginity. If you were willing to have sex with him if he'd had it before, it shouldn't change the fact that he hasn't. If everyone felt as you did, this dude would never have scored.

crescentfresh · 06-02-2003, 11:30 AM

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Originally posted by Nimrod's Son
They all wanted his first experience to be "special and magical with leprechauns

I know that's what I always dreamed of!

Nimrod's Son · 06-02-2003, 11:31 AM

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Originally posted by crescentfresh

I know that's what I always dreamed of!

This year, let's vacation in Ireland.

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06-01-2003, 10:37 PM	#2
Human Replica Droid Ownz Location: O to the H Posts: 870	Know where I can find some?

06-01-2003, 10:38 PM	#3
SPZero Apocalyptic Poster Location: Chicago Posts: 1,408	ahhhh... friends with benefits

06-01-2003, 10:38 PM	#4
crescentfresh Minion of Satan Location: Diego Posts: 6,657	works out just fine for a while, until someone wants more. And someone will always eventually want more.

06-01-2003, 11:18 PM	#6
meow Netflix Me Location: Human Skull! Posts: 27,712	i have a friend i would like to have mad monkey sex with but we both have significant others so it would never happen.

06-01-2003, 11:51 PM	#12
Never Nohen Apocalyptic Poster Location: Never Never Land Posts: 2,981	shrug That's one of my rules too. I won't sleep with virgins. I just, yeah, feel like a person's first time should be something special that they experience with someone they're in love with. I don't want to sleep with some boy as just a casual playmate, and then have him go out the next month and meet the love of his life and regret not being able to lose his virginity to her. I know that's how I would've felt if I'd slept with the guy I dated before August. I really would've regretted it. There are extenuating circumstances and stuff, of course. And a lot of people have told me that it doesn't work that way for guys. But it's still something I worry about.

06-02-2003, 02:23 AM	#21
Krafty Ownz Location: North Carolina Posts: 525	In my mind friends who fuck are a little more than friends. For me to even kiss someone I have to care about them a lot and in a slightly different way than I do the majority of my friends. I can never imagining fucking a friend because I really don't have much of a desire to sleep with anyone who I'm not okay with the worst case scenerio: having a child.

06-02-2003, 02:42 AM	#23
Krafty Ownz Location: North Carolina Posts: 525	Yes. No matter what you do, there's always a risk and its such a big responsibility and put yourself in such a vulnerable position that there's no way I could ever sleep with someone when that would not be okay. I'm not saying that I've wanted to have a child with anyone I've slept with, but I could have handled and it would have been okay. Its just a huge deal to me for some reason, a much greater commitment and higher level of intimacy than it is for most of my friends.

06-02-2003, 02:44 AM	#24
guz El Gringo Mexicano Location: I'd rather just have dome anyway Posts: 8,599	no one night stands for you.

06-02-2003, 02:48 AM	#25
Krafty Ownz Location: North Carolina Posts: 525	Right. And I support my friends in all of their crazy sexual endeavors but I just couldn't do it.