luv advice?

shaniqua · 05-29-2003, 02:47 AM

2 months ago i broke up with him, mainly because i had this sneaking suspicion that he didn't trust me, which proved to be correct.

we have broken up and gotten back together once already.

i miss him. i want us to build trust for each other. i don't know what to do.

Dead Frequency · 05-29-2003, 02:50 AM

kick him to the curb, girl. ur better than that.

guz · 05-29-2003, 02:51 AM

a relationship that's having trouble early on usually isn't worth the hassle, imo. ESPECIALLY if it involves trust in any way. trust, broken trust in particular, is an extremely difficult thing to 'work on'.

that said, i don't really know your situation.

Elvis The Fat Years · 05-29-2003, 02:53 AM

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Originally posted by Dead Frequency
kick him to the curb, girl. ur better than that.

did you snap your fingers in a Z motion while typing that?

twice · 03:00 AM

ok ok fuck everything i said... you're the only one who knows if you really think what you have with him is right or it's wrong. don't let lonliness decieve you.

Elvis The Fat Years · 05-29-2003, 02:59 AM

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Originally posted by twice
jesuschrist i'm tired. fuck.

jesus doesnt care.

shaniqua · 05-29-2003, 03:00 AM

i dunno. we were together for 8 months. that's a long time for me. he's the first person i've loved for a long time. a combination of a lot of things that have been missing that i've been wanting that i'm just really not used to. everything just went wrong when everything was going so right.

twice · 05-29-2003, 03:00 AM

are you going to the belmont music fest? i'm working there and shit.

shaniqua · 05-29-2003, 03:02 AM

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Originally posted by twice
are you going to the belmont music fest? i'm working there and shit.

no trips for me i just spent $75 on a bjork ticket.

Dead Frequency · 05-29-2003, 03:02 AM

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Originally posted by Elvis The Fat Years

did you snap your fingers in a Z motion while typing that?

Elvis The Fat Years · 05-29-2003, 03:04 AM

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Originally posted by shaunna

no trips for me i just spent $75 on a bjork ticket.

damn. we couldve made out in a porta potty.

twice · 05-29-2003, 03:04 AM

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Originally posted by shaunna
a combination of a lot of things that have been missing that i've been wanting that i'm just really not used to.

hmm this throws me off. was it you breaking it off because he didn't trust you or because, ultimately, you weren't ready for what you were getting yourself into?

shaniqua · 05-29-2003, 03:06 AM

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Originally posted by twice
hmm this throws me off. was it you breaking it off because he didn't trust you or because, ultimately, you weren't ready for what you were getting yourself into?

column a & column b.

column a was the second breakup, column b the first.

call me typical, but i have a hard time feeling that i deserve someone wonderful or something.

FearFactory · 05-29-2003, 03:08 AM

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Originally posted by shaunna

column a & column b.

column a was the second breakup, column b the first.

call me typical, but i have a hard time feeling that i deserve someone wonderful or something.

Oh stop it.

Obviously if he's with you and he doesn't run away, you deserve him. Just be happy for what you've got and truly appreciate it.

Fattening Ass · 05-29-2003, 03:09 AM

oh man. Love sucks.

Just give me somethin' to fuck.

shaniqua · 05-29-2003, 03:13 AM

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Originally posted by FearFactory

Just be happy for what you've got and truly appreciate it.

come to think of it... yeah.
thanks.

05-29-2003, 02:47 AM	#1
shaniqua Minion of Satan Location: that's my prerogative Posts: 7,420	luv advice? 2 months ago i broke up with him, mainly because i had this sneaking suspicion that he didn't trust me, which proved to be correct. we have broken up and gotten back together once already. i miss him. i want us to build trust for each other. i don't know what to do.

05-29-2003, 02:57 AM	#5
twice Socialphobic Location: kitty in the middle Posts: 10,183	ok ok fuck everything i said... you're the only one who knows if you really think what you have with him is right or it's wrong. don't let lonliness decieve you. Last edited by twice : 05-29-2003 at 03:00 AM.

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Fattening Ass Just Hook it to My Veins! Location: Planet Nintendu 64 Posts: 30,825	oh man. Love sucks. Just give me somethin' to fuck. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 5 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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05-29-2003, 02:50 AM	#2
Dead Frequency Minion of Satan Location: They don't know who did it, but they're looking for hardened criminals Posts: 5,960	kick him to the curb, girl. ur better than that.

05-29-2003, 02:51 AM	#3
guz El Gringo Mexicano Location: I'd rather just have dome anyway Posts: 8,599	a relationship that's having trouble early on usually isn't worth the hassle, imo. ESPECIALLY if it involves trust in any way. trust, broken trust in particular, is an extremely difficult thing to 'work on'. that said, i don't really know your situation.

05-29-2003, 03:00 AM	#7
shaniqua Minion of Satan Location: that's my prerogative Posts: 7,420	i dunno. we were together for 8 months. that's a long time for me. he's the first person i've loved for a long time. a combination of a lot of things that have been missing that i've been wanting that i'm just really not used to. everything just went wrong when everything was going so right.