So my best-friends ex is coming to visit me tonight...

raygun187 · 04-05-2003, 09:45 PM

What would YUO do in this situation?
So, my best-friends ex is driving an hour and a half to visit me. I moved away about 2 months ago. She dated my friend (who I have known for 10 years) for about 2 years and that was a year ago. Now, she is dating another one of my friends, not as good of friend, but I still go out drinking with him every now and then. Well, this girl is pretty much my best friend as of late and we hung out all the time until I moved. The last time I visited her, we got rather liquored up and told each other "I love you" and then she tried to kiss me. I pulled back because of the whole situation and we both gave each other a knowing look. Now, after that incident, my thoughts have been wondering down the "I should kiss her?" path. We're planning on hitting up the bars and I really don't know what I'm gonna do if that situation happens again tonight. So, what would you do in my shoes, and go ahead and give me your best insult if you think I'm a complete asshole for even thinking about it.....

Toby · 04-05-2003, 09:48 PM

If I was your best friend and I found out you kissed my ex I would hate you and probably cut you.

palidor · 04-05-2003, 09:49 PM

I wouldn't let anything happen.

scouse_dave · 04-05-2003, 09:58 PM

similar thing happened with me a couple of years ago...didn't work out too well, i have to admit.

that's not to say that it couldn't for you, mind...

raygun187 · 04-05-2003, 10:38 PM

I should probably mention that I actually am in love with this girl - I wasn't just drunk.

04-05-2003, 09:45 PM	#1
raygun187 Pledge Posts: 176	So my best-friends ex is coming to visit me tonight... What would YUO do in this situation? So, my best-friends ex is driving an hour and a half to visit me. I moved away about 2 months ago. She dated my friend (who I have known for 10 years) for about 2 years and that was a year ago. Now, she is dating another one of my friends, not as good of friend, but I still go out drinking with him every now and then. Well, this girl is pretty much my best friend as of late and we hung out all the time until I moved. The last time I visited her, we got rather liquored up and told each other "I love you" and then she tried to kiss me. I pulled back because of the whole situation and we both gave each other a knowing look. Now, after that incident, my thoughts have been wondering down the "I should kiss her?" path. We're planning on hitting up the bars and I really don't know what I'm gonna do if that situation happens again tonight. So, what would you do in my shoes, and go ahead and give me your best insult if you think I'm a complete asshole for even thinking about it.....

04-05-2003, 09:48 PM	#2
Toby Just Hook it to My Veins! Location: the mtns Posts: 43,034	If I was your best friend and I found out you kissed my ex I would hate you and probably cut you.

04-05-2003, 09:49 PM	#3
palidor Apocalyptic Poster Location: Minnesota Posts: 2,073	I wouldn't let anything happen.

04-05-2003, 09:58 PM	#4
scouse_dave Minion of Satan Location: Manchester Posts: 5,089	similar thing happened with me a couple of years ago...didn't work out too well, i have to admit. that's not to say that it couldn't for you, mind...

04-05-2003, 10:38 PM	#5
raygun187 Pledge Posts: 176	I should probably mention that I actually am in love with this girl - I wasn't just drunk.