what would u do if your girlfriend said she was Bi?

04-11-2002, 05:29 PM

well?

im just shocked.

04-11-2002, 05:30 PM

i wouldn't care.

04-11-2002, 05:31 PM

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Originally posted by Graveflower:
i wouldn't care.

04-11-2002, 05:31 PM

it wouldnt phase u at all?

04-11-2002, 05:31 PM

I wouldn't care, unless she made this revelation and promptly followed it with, "and I'm leaving you for her."

04-11-2002, 05:37 PM

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Originally posted by sean:
it wouldnt phase u at all?

Why should it? In fact it's probably an advantage. Imagine the discussions you could have about how beautiful certain girls are etc.

04-11-2002, 05:40 PM

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Originally posted by sean:
it wouldnt phase u at all?

Why should it? She still likes guys. If she was gay, the...I'd be worried about that.

FYI, folks, this is the same guy who thinks wearing name brand clothes instead of great dollar store finds is a form of self respect.

04-11-2002, 05:47 PM

exactly.

hey man. i always thought having a Bi chick would be awsome. but it's just weird. im not saying i would dump her, hell no, its just weird.

04-11-2002, 05:48 PM

FIRST I WOULD GET HER TO CALL UP ALL OF HER FEMAIL FREINDS AND HAVE HER ASSK THEM IF THEY ARE BI TOO AND THEN FIND OUT WHAT ONES NEED SOME SWERIOUS BOX LICKING AND THEN GET A HOTEL ROOM AND THEN THEY CAN ALL PITCH IN ON THE ROOM AND IT WOULD HAVE A HOT TUB AND PORNO MOVIES AND THEY WUOLD ALL SHOW UP LIKIE 10 OF THEM. THEY WOULD GET NAKED AND PUT ON A FUNNY SHOW FOR ME AND THEN IT WOULD GET ALL HOT AND SWEATY AND I WOULD HAVE TO TAKE OFF MY CLOTHES WITH MY PANTS AROUND MY ANKLES TO WATCH AND THEN WHEN THEY CAN'T STAND IT ANYMORE THAT'S WHEN I JUMP IN AND START GOING TO WORK AND PUT THE "BI" IN TO BISEXUALITY! IT WOULD BE A FUN TIME HAD BY ALL AND WE'D GO TO SLEEP I'D HAVE A BED OF HORNY CHICKS NAKED BOOBS TO SLEEP ON!

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04-11-2002, 05:50 PM

depends, you can take this a couple of ways.

it mostly depends on just how serious you are...do you want to marry her? if so, that could certainly get in the way. of course (im sure thisll offend some people but oh well) there are plenty of people that claim theyre bi and then just sort of grow out of it after experimenting a little bit. but if you think the relationship will eventually end because of this because you cant be committed to someone who cant be exclusively committed to you(assuming thats the case)...cut your losses (and hers) and end it.

otherwise, its time to get that ever-elusive 2nd girl in the sack.

04-11-2002, 05:51 PM

say, "well *im* gay!"

[This message has been edited by Ihaman (edited 04-11-2002).]

04-11-2002, 05:55 PM

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Originally posted by Ihaman:
[b]say, "well *im* gay!"

[b]

and show her all the rave flyers you've designed.

04-11-2002, 06:22 PM

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Originally posted by Julian, Porn CONNOISSEUR:
FIRST I WOULD GET HER TO CALL UP ALL OF HER FEMAIL FREINDS AND HAVE HER ASSK THEM IF THEY ARE BI TOO AND THEN FIND OUT WHAT ONES NEED SOME SWERIOUS BOX LICKING AND THEN GET A HOTEL ROOM AND THEN THEY CAN ALL PITCH IN ON THE ROOM AND IT WOULD HAVE A HOT TUB AND PORNO MOVIES AND THEY WUOLD ALL SHOW UP LIKIE 10 OF THEM. THEY WOULD GET NAKED AND PUT ON A FUNNY SHOW FOR ME AND THEN IT WOULD GET ALL HOT AND SWEATY AND I WOULD HAVE TO TAKE OFF MY CLOTHES WITH MY PANTS AROUND MY ANKLES TO WATCH AND THEN WHEN THEY CAN'T STAND IT ANYMORE THAT'S WHEN I JUMP IN AND START GOING TO WORK AND PUT THE "BI" IN TO BISEXUALITY! IT WOULD BE A FUN TIME HAD BY ALL AND WE'D GO TO SLEEP I'D HAVE A BED OF HORNY CHICKS NAKED BOOBS TO SLEEP ON!

dammit, you stole me answer. all caps and everything

dammi

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04-11-2002, 06:40 PM

I would be happy as a clam.

04-11-2002, 06:42 PM

just make sure that you two see eye to eye about cheating.
i'm bisexual, and i feel that any sexual contact with anyone other than my boyfriend is cheating... however, some of my friends (who are bi) seem to think that girl-girl sex isn't cheating.

04-11-2002, 06:43 PM

I would be disapointed, if she was my gf for some time, and then suddenly have the urge to say it. But if I met a girl that I like I wouldnt mind really.

04-11-2002, 06:49 PM

I'd drop her like the slut that she is.

Gay is not cool.

04-11-2002, 06:58 PM

well, considering i mostly fall for gay or bisexual folks, i'd have to say that...i don't know.

i don't even mean to; it just always happens to end up that way.

people are people. some are cool. most aren't.

04-11-2002, 07:27 PM

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Originally posted by Never_Nohen:
why does her being bi necessitate her not being able to be committed to only him?

because im a republican

04-11-2002, 07:29 PM

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Originally posted by melancholia:
just make sure that you two see eye to eye about cheating.
i'm bisexual, and i feel that any sexual contact with anyone other than my boyfriend is cheating... however, some of my friends (who are bi) seem to think that girl-girl sex isn't cheating.

yep, I'm with you on that one
but my sister isn't
pisses me off sometimes

04-11-2002, 08:31 PM

I'd ask if I could watch her next rendevouz

04-11-2002, 11:02 PM

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Originally posted by killtheyouth:
it mostly depends on just how serious you are...do you want to marry her? if so, that could certainly get in the way.

I would say could maybe. Not could certainly. Staying in a committed relationship really has little to do with sexual orientation, it's just that if something does go wrong, that'll probably be the excuse instead of something else.

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04-12-2002, 12:54 AM

ask if i could watch

04-12-2002, 12:55 AM

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Originally posted by SPZero:
I would be happy as a clam.

this made me laugh hysterically. http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/biggrin.gif

04-12-2002, 01:25 AM

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Originally posted by Never_Nohen:
well, do their boyfriends think of it as cheating?

I'd think so. But then again, my girlfriend is emphatically straight.

I don't think its ok for me to go and get with another guy either. But some bi-girls (not all) seem to think that its not cheating if they go for things with other girls. They're usually the ones who aren't worth your time.

04-12-2002, 01:35 AM

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Originally posted by beever:
I would be disapointed, if she was my gf for some time, and then suddenly have the urge to say it. But if I met a girl that I like I wouldnt mind really.

Ya, i think it depends on the situation.
Like, if we had been going out for a long time and she knew she was Bi all along and just now decided to share it with me, i would feel a little betrayed.
However, if she just realised that she's Bi a few days ago then i dont think it would make much of a difference to me, unless she wanted to be with some girls as well as, or instead of me.

Bottom line: If she wants you and only you.....then nothing else matters.
If she wants others and it bothers you this much, then let her have them b/c then shes not worth the trouble shes putting you through.

04-12-2002, 01:37 AM

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Originally posted by the_boy:
Bottom line: If she wants you and only you.....then nothing else matters.

You put it better than I did.

04-12-2002, 02:13 AM

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04-12-2002, 02:14 AM

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Originally posted by Lankiveil:
You put it better than I did.

what he/she said.

04-12-2002, 05:14 AM

i just recently told the gurl im in love with about me. she was the only person left to tell and it was hard for me because i didnt want to change anything between our friendship or make her feel uncomfortable but a lot of weight was pulled off my shoulders cause well, she figured it out on her own...*whew* now i wonder what she is...hmm...

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04-11-2002, 05:29 PM	#1
sean Posts: n/a	what would u do if your girlfriend said she was Bi? well? im just shocked.

04-12-2002, 05:14 AM	#30
whiteSPider Posts: n/a	i just recently told the gurl im in love with about me. she was the only person left to tell and it was hard for me because i didnt want to change anything between our friendship or make her feel uncomfortable but a lot of weight was pulled off my shoulders cause well, she figured it out on her own...whew now i wonder what she is...hmm... xoxo r o b y n* 2002 ------------------ "if i knew where i was going, i would already be there" ‹›‹{`;´}›‹› IM:XoPumpkiNGurLoX

04-11-2002, 05:30 PM	#2
Graveflower Posts: n/a	i wouldn't care.

04-11-2002, 05:31 PM	#4
sean Posts: n/a	it wouldnt phase u at all?

04-11-2002, 05:31 PM	#5
sawdust restaurants Posts: n/a	I wouldn't care, unless she made this revelation and promptly followed it with, "and I'm leaving you for her."

04-11-2002, 05:47 PM	#8
sean Posts: n/a	exactly. hey man. i always thought having a Bi chick would be awsome. but it's just weird. im not saying i would dump her, hell no, its just weird.

04-11-2002, 05:48 PM	#9
Julian, Porn CONNOISSEUR Posts: n/a	FIRST I WOULD GET HER TO CALL UP ALL OF HER FEMAIL FREINDS AND HAVE HER ASSK THEM IF THEY ARE BI TOO AND THEN FIND OUT WHAT ONES NEED SOME SWERIOUS BOX LICKING AND THEN GET A HOTEL ROOM AND THEN THEY CAN ALL PITCH IN ON THE ROOM AND IT WOULD HAVE A HOT TUB AND PORNO MOVIES AND THEY WUOLD ALL SHOW UP LIKIE 10 OF THEM. THEY WOULD GET NAKED AND PUT ON A FUNNY SHOW FOR ME AND THEN IT WOULD GET ALL HOT AND SWEATY AND I WOULD HAVE TO TAKE OFF MY CLOTHES WITH MY PANTS AROUND MY ANKLES TO WATCH AND THEN WHEN THEY CAN'T STAND IT ANYMORE THAT'S WHEN I JUMP IN AND START GOING TO WORK AND PUT THE "BI" IN TO BISEXUALITY! IT WOULD BE A FUN TIME HAD BY ALL AND WE'D GO TO SLEEP I'D HAVE A BED OF HORNY CHICKS NAKED BOOBS TO SLEEP ON! ------------------ SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE A LION CHASING A BUTTERFLY! http://www.noyen.org/images/julian.jpg http://www.gifs.net/animate/tigger.gif THERE'S ALOT OF BUTTER AND SYRRUP IN MY FRIDGEROATOR! http://www.gifs.net/animate/wacky.gif THE NETPHROIA KIDS ARE SO WACKY!

04-11-2002, 05:50 PM	#10
killtheyouth Posts: n/a	depends, you can take this a couple of ways. it mostly depends on just how serious you are...do you want to marry her? if so, that could certainly get in the way. of course (im sure thisll offend some people but oh well) there are plenty of people that claim theyre bi and then just sort of grow out of it after experimenting a little bit. but if you think the relationship will eventually end because of this because you cant be committed to someone who cant be exclusively committed to you(assuming thats the case)...cut your losses (and hers) and end it. otherwise, its time to get that ever-elusive 2nd girl in the sack.

04-11-2002, 05:51 PM	#11
Ihaman Posts: n/a	say, "well im gay!" [This message has been edited by Ihaman (edited 04-11-2002).]

04-11-2002, 06:40 PM	#14
SPZero Posts: n/a	I would be happy as a clam.

04-11-2002, 06:42 PM	#15
melancholia Posts: n/a	just make sure that you two see eye to eye about cheating. i'm bisexual, and i feel that any sexual contact with anyone other than my boyfriend is cheating... however, some of my friends (who are bi) seem to think that girl-girl sex isn't cheating.

04-11-2002, 06:43 PM	#16
beever Posts: n/a	I would be disapointed, if she was my gf for some time, and then suddenly have the urge to say it. But if I met a girl that I like I wouldnt mind really.

04-11-2002, 06:49 PM	#17
Affectation Posts: n/a	I'd drop her like the slut that she is. Gay is not cool.

04-11-2002, 06:58 PM	#18
frail_and_bedazzled Posts: n/a	well, considering i mostly fall for gay or bisexual folks, i'd have to say that...i don't know. i don't even mean to; it just always happens to end up that way. people are people. some are cool. most aren't.

04-11-2002, 08:31 PM	#21
strange_one Posts: n/a	I'd ask if I could watch her next rendevouz

04-12-2002, 02:13 AM	#28
Stupid&Contagious Posts: n/a	http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/smile.gif (smile)