10 sexy stocking stuffers (MSN :-D)

Samsa · 12-08-2002, 01:58 PM

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10 ways to spice up your love life

We don't want to say that marriage puts a damper on your sex life -- for many of you, it won't. If, however, you feel your initial wild enthusiasm drifting away, follow these ten tips to re-fan the flames of passion.

1. Kiss
Yeah, kiss. In the rush to get to home base, you two may be forgetting to do a little lingering around first. We're here to act as first-base coach and to tell you two that sometimes a one-base run is the best.

2. Talk dirty
If this seems too silly, don't push it. But even if you collapse into a fit of giggles, at least you're having fun together, right? As long as you're laughing with each other -- rather than at each other -- you'll be flying high.

3. Flirt with each other
In her book Hot Sex (Bantam), Australian sex expert Tracey Cox says that flirting is a definite turn on. "Flirting sends natural amphetamines and endorphins surging through the body, stimulating an instant emotional 'high' not unlike orgasm." Wow, how can you resist? Get a little flirt-action going now!

4. Send sexy undies
Stick them in unlikely places: your lover's briefcase, the freezer, the mirror in the bathroom.... Cox suggests making a list of ten things you'd love to do to her or him "right that second." Guaranteed results.

5. Teased and tied
According to Dr. Pepper Schwartz, author of The Great Sex Weekend (Putnam), this is a favorite fantasy of women -- but no man would turn it down, either. Tie your partner up and tease him or her until he/she can barely stand it. Then stop, wait, and start again.

6. Keep your eyes open
Leave the lights on and really *look* at each other while you're making love. You'll find that you connect on a mental level as well as a physical level.

7. Jettison the missionary
Schwartz says that trying out new sexual positions may be the key to regaining some of that titillation factor. She says that most couples are itching to try exotic positions, but may be too embarrassed. Plus, "most men like a woman to get on top of them." So, girls, take the reins.

8. Make the move
If one of you generally plays the more passive role, get proactive! According to Cox, "Surely you've watched enough movies by now to know that power is one of the biggest sexual turn-ons there is. Be the boss by suggesting sex and taking the lead role during lovemaking as well. Let them lie back while you do *all* the work." Sadie Hawkins Day will take on a whole new meaning.

9. Peek in the mirror
Most men -- remember, they're visual creatures -- would like to make love looking into a mirror, says Schwartz. And a lot of women find it a turn-on, too. After all, sneaking a peek at yourselves satisfies both your inner exhibitionist and voyeur.

10. Take your orals
Pretty much everyone enjoys a little bit of the old oral Olympics, but if your partner doesn't seem to be enjoying it as much as you do, it tends to squash your enthusiasm a bit. Being on the giving end of oral sex can be just as much of a turn-on as being on the receiving line. Learn to love it and you'll go far...!

Ghetto_Squirrel · 12-08-2002, 03:23 PM

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Originally posted by Samsa
4. Send sexy undies
Stick them in unlikely places: your lover's briefcase

Yeah, that would be nice if he had an important business meeting.

oui henri · 12-08-2002, 03:41 PM

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Originally posted by Samsa
4. Send sexy undies
Stick them in unlikely places: the freezer

watch out for the "Freezer Burn"!

12-08-2002, 01:58 PM	#1
Samsa Banned Location: A theater near you Posts: 7,929	10 sexy stocking stuffers (MSN :-D) HomeWeddingsArticle Feature Sex 10 ways to spice up your love life We don't want to say that marriage puts a damper on your sex life -- for many of you, it won't. If, however, you feel your initial wild enthusiasm drifting away, follow these ten tips to re-fan the flames of passion. 1. Kiss Yeah, kiss. In the rush to get to home base, you two may be forgetting to do a little lingering around first. We're here to act as first-base coach and to tell you two that sometimes a one-base run is the best. 2. Talk dirty If this seems too silly, don't push it. But even if you collapse into a fit of giggles, at least you're having fun together, right? As long as you're laughing with each other -- rather than at each other -- you'll be flying high. 3. Flirt with each other In her book Hot Sex (Bantam), Australian sex expert Tracey Cox says that flirting is a definite turn on. "Flirting sends natural amphetamines and endorphins surging through the body, stimulating an instant emotional 'high' not unlike orgasm." Wow, how can you resist? Get a little flirt-action going now! 4. Send sexy undies Stick them in unlikely places: your lover's briefcase, the freezer, the mirror in the bathroom.... Cox suggests making a list of ten things you'd love to do to her or him "right that second." Guaranteed results. 5. Teased and tied According to Dr. Pepper Schwartz, author of The Great Sex Weekend (Putnam), this is a favorite fantasy of women -- but no man would turn it down, either. Tie your partner up and tease him or her until he/she can barely stand it. Then stop, wait, and start again. 6. Keep your eyes open Leave the lights on and really look at each other while you're making love. You'll find that you connect on a mental level as well as a physical level. 7. Jettison the missionary Schwartz says that trying out new sexual positions may be the key to regaining some of that titillation factor. She says that most couples are itching to try exotic positions, but may be too embarrassed. Plus, "most men like a woman to get on top of them." So, girls, take the reins. 8. Make the move If one of you generally plays the more passive role, get proactive! According to Cox, "Surely you've watched enough movies by now to know that power is one of the biggest sexual turn-ons there is. Be the boss by suggesting sex and taking the lead role during lovemaking as well. Let them lie back while you do all the work." Sadie Hawkins Day will take on a whole new meaning. 9. Peek in the mirror Most men -- remember, they're visual creatures -- would like to make love looking into a mirror, says Schwartz. And a lot of women find it a turn-on, too. After all, sneaking a peek at yourselves satisfies both your inner exhibitionist and voyeur. 10. Take your orals Pretty much everyone enjoys a little bit of the old oral Olympics, but if your partner doesn't seem to be enjoying it as much as you do, it tends to squash your enthusiasm a bit. Being on the giving end of oral sex can be just as much of a turn-on as being on the receiving line. Learn to love it and you'll go far...!