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MADpeace · 09-30-2002, 09:52 PM

How long after a first date do you think you should wait to call. I've heard a couple hours. I've heard the next day.

I always thought it good to sorta wrap things up sometime later that night, but keep it a short call.

Anywayz, your thoughts please... http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/biggrin.gif

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Oblivious · 09-30-2002, 09:55 PM

i think that the very next morning or afternoon would be appropriate. gives the other person a chance to mull things over a bit as well.

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neopryn · 09-30-2002, 09:55 PM

I've never been on a date.

Magic the Gathering · 09-30-2002, 09:56 PM

I don't know. My mom doesn't let me date.

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I wish she would.

MADpeace · 09-30-2002, 09:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Oblivious:
i think that the very next morning or afternoon would be appropriate. gives the other person a chance to mull things over a bit as well.

hmmmm, good point. I don't know though, I have a "thing" about mornings. I know I like to sleep in until there is no afternoon. well, i dunno. is it wholly inappropriate and weird if you call later that night>?

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-Tragedy- · 09-30-2002, 09:59 PM

I think if you feel the need to worry about when you should call.. then the person probably wasn't right for you. Does that make sense?

MADpeace · 09-30-2002, 10:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by -Tragedy-:
I think if you feel the need to worry about when you should call.. then the person probably wasn't right for you. Does that make sense?

I've never believed in generalizations, so I don't really even take my own question seriously. And boy, I KNOW she isn't "right" for me http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/biggrin.gif http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/biggrin.gif

Just thought I'd pose a question.

Squashing Pineapples · 09-30-2002, 10:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by neopryn:
I've never been on a date.

haha

-Tragedy- · 09-30-2002, 10:02 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MADpeace:
I've never believed in generalizations, so I don't really even take my own question seriously. And boy, I KNOW she isn't "right" for me http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/biggrin.gif http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/biggrin.gif

Just thought I'd pose a question.

I wouldn't see the point in wasting time with someone, but I guess you just want to get laid.. but anyways.

Oblivious · 09-30-2002, 10:05 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MADpeace:

hmmmm, good point. I don't know though, I have a "thing" about mornings. I know I like to sleep in until there is no afternoon. well, i dunno. is it wholly inappropriate and weird if you call later that night>?

not really inappropriate - but i think that some people could misconstrue it as being a bit over eager. and what if the date doesn't get over with until like really late? you're going to call someone at 2am? i guess it really depends on the situation.

neopryn · 09-30-2002, 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Squashing Pineapples:
haha

Well, not a date, per se.

Lie · 09-30-2002, 10:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by -Tragedy-:
I wouldn't see the point in wasting time with someone, but I guess you just want to get laid.. but anyways.

Jeez, lighten up.

Random Female · 09-30-2002, 10:19 PM

oh jeez not the same day. at least the next day. at least.

Affect · 09-30-2002, 10:37 PM

1 day.

Tessellation · 09-30-2002, 10:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Affect:
1 day.

Affect · 09-30-2002, 10:37 PM

1 day.

sawdust restaurants · 09-30-2002, 10:38 PM

The next day.

If you call any other time without good reason (read: your neuroses are not good reasons), you are a moron.

bonsor · 09-30-2002, 10:39 PM

Every date I've been on, it was almost race to call eachother as soon as well got home.

Tessellation · 09-30-2002, 10:47 PM

24 hours

twice · 09-30-2002, 10:48 PM

dates=lame

scouse_dave · 09-30-2002, 11:18 PM

2 days...if they're lucky

twice · 09-30-2002, 11:20 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by killtheyouth:
no offense to anyone who actually does that. but i just find it weird and it seems like you're desperate and you're going to be some sort of velcro-bunny. clinginess is never cool.

are you an aquarius?

MADpeace · 10-01-2002, 12:04 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by scouse_dave:
2 days...if they're lucky

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anywayz, I think a day is good. cuz it'll probably be late and after talking for so many hours, do we REALLY need to call each other and talk some more?

Yes, thank you.

*this has been an "interactive" Netphorian post. Netphoria personally thanks all those who participated. thank you.

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DeviousJ · 10-01-2002, 06:36 AM

Well, if you really wanted to you could call to make sure she got home ok, but I think that kinda depends on how much you think you clicked. Just don't overdo it

BlueStar · 10-01-2002, 09:14 AM

NOT later that night. NOT the next morning. Early evening the next day is appropriate.

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The Gaddrow · 10-01-2002, 09:39 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by BlueStar:
NOT later that night. NOT the next morning. Early evening the next day is appropriate.

Yes.

Though, if a girl called me later that night (and it has happened once before, I would be incredibly stoked)

But, I don't think it really works both ways, unless the vibes were there, ya know?

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obscured01 · 10-01-2002, 09:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by BlueStar:
NOT later that night. NOT the next morning. Early evening the next day is appropriate.

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slugger · 10-01-2002, 10:34 AM

HAHA like any of you have ever actually had a 'date' anyways.

09-30-2002, 09:52 PM	#1
MADpeace Ownz Location: oooooo I'm around... Posts: 923	Yes sir! I'm asking the opinion of Netphorians and I don't care... How long after a first date do you think you should wait to call. I've heard a couple hours. I've heard the next day. I always thought it good to sorta wrap things up sometime later that night, but keep it a short call. Anywayz, your thoughts please... http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/biggrin.gif ------------------ http://images.whatsbetter.com/images/12908.gif More like "Nature is a fat, twisted bitch" olympics. __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 5 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. TIER SIX!!!! OUTTA MY WAY!!!

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Oblivious Apocalyptic Poster Location: Village Oblivia Posts: 3,481	i think that the very next morning or afternoon would be appropriate. gives the other person a chance to mull things over a bit as well. ------------------ http://cheez125.homestead.com/files/CAYNIB0R.jpg __________________

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Random Female Apocalyptic Poster Location: white folks' ghetto, San Diego Posts: 2,005	oh jeez not the same day. at least the next day. at least. __________________ When you hear sweet syncopation And the music softly moans T'ain't no To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 5 or greater. You currently have 0 posts. to take off your skin And dance around in your bones

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Affect Fuck Location: xxx Posts: 5,360	1 day. __________________ ...let this be a sermon I mean everything I've said...

09-30-2002, 09:59 PM	#6
-Tragedy- Apocalyptic Poster Location: Davenport, FL Posts: 1,821	I think if you feel the need to worry about when you should call.. then the person probably wasn't right for you. Does that make sense?

09-30-2002, 10:38 PM	#17
sawdust restaurants Fucking Creep Location: On the East Coast Posts: 5,992	The next day. If you call any other time without good reason (read: your neuroses are not good reasons), you are a moron.

09-30-2002, 10:39 PM	#18
bonsor Minion of Satan Location: midwest Posts: 8,771	Every date I've been on, it was almost race to call eachother as soon as well got home. __________________

09-30-2002, 10:47 PM	#19
Tessellation Apocalyptic Poster Location: your local library Posts: 4,422	24 hours __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 5 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

09-30-2002, 10:48 PM	#20
twice Socialphobic Location: kitty in the middle Posts: 10,183	dates=lame __________________ j'en perds la raison dans la mer du japon

09-30-2002, 11:18 PM	#21
scouse_dave Minion of Satan Location: Manchester Posts: 5,089	2 days...if they're lucky __________________ i could be a genius...if i put my mind to it

10-01-2002, 06:36 AM	#24
DeviousJ CORNFROST Location: GUREITO DESU YO Posts: 24,891	Well, if you really wanted to you could call to make sure she got home ok, but I think that kinda depends on how much you think you clicked. Just don't overdo it __________________

10-01-2002, 09:14 AM	#25
BlueStar Newly independent Location: Some state's capitol building Posts: 7,242	NOT later that night. NOT the next morning. Early evening the next day is appropriate. ------------------ ~~Samantha~~ http://homepages.nyu.edu/~sag249/sigankle.jpg __________________ To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 5 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

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slugger Banned Location: in your head Posts: 1,101	HAHA like any of you have ever actually had a 'date' anyways.

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