feeling weird after doing....sexish type stuff. - Page 2

Ghetto_Squirrel · 12-02-2002, 09:09 PM

I think the root of your concern can probably be traced back to Goatse.

Apart · 12-02-2002, 09:10 PM

gayz iz funneh

peabody · 12-02-2002, 09:10 PM

Oh. I was also thinking that maybe because my subconscious knows something I don't. Like....it knows that I won't be with this person for more than a few months, so why bother? Hmm. I don't know.

peabody · 12-02-2002, 09:12 PM

That sounds kinda sluttish. I mean...

umm.

My mind is like, "Ok, you're fooling yourself into really liking this person. It's not real. Get out."

june33 · 12-02-2002, 09:16 PM

Alex, I think the feeling you are having will dissapear with time and experience. I used to be that way too. I would NEVER have any desire to do anything sexual with anyone. At first I think I was just scared, but as time went on I didn't really care about sex at all and hardly ever thought about it. Eventually the feeling went away and I became more comfortable and horny.

bonsor · 12-02-2002, 09:18 PM

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Originally posted by peabody
My mind is like, "Ok, you're fooling yourself into really liking this person. It's not real. Get out."

Ok, now i compleetely know what you're talking about.

peabody · 12-02-2002, 09:19 PM

you do?!

explain!

lawson · 12-02-2002, 09:24 PM

if you feel that way with anyone then you shouldn't be with them and keep looking till you find the person that doesnt make you feel that way. and yes it probably is guilt also. and you might wanna hang out with some very low key no makeup no bullshit kinna girls just to see if you really are being repulsed every time you're with a guy

bonsor · 12-02-2002, 09:29 PM

Alright. This girl had a fondness for me. She wasn't ugly or unattractive by any means, but I just didn't feel similarly. I was in the middle of getting over another girl and I was...frustrated. So I weighed my options and kinda went along with it, and the whole time I was like 'what the hell am I doing?'. Again, she wasn't unattractive, but I was repulsed by the fact that we were...touching.

Salena Child · 12-02-2002, 09:35 PM

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Originally posted by peabody
That sounds kinda sluttish. I mean...

umm.

My mind is like, "Ok, you're fooling yourself into really liking this person. It's not real. Get out."

that was me with the last guy i was with. i tried so hard to "like him in that way" it was hard. when we would make out i would feel strange and would long for him to leave :erm

peabody · 12-02-2002, 09:36 PM

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Originally posted by ******
Alright. This girl had a fondness for me. She wasn't ugly or unattractive by any means, but I just didn't feel similarly. I was in the middle of getting over another girl and I was...frustrated. So I weighed my options and kinda went along with it, and the whole time I was like 'what the hell am I doing?'. Again, she wasn't unattractive, but I was repulsed by the fact that we were...touching.

hmm.

peabody · 12-02-2002, 09:36 PM

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Originally posted by Salena Child

that was me with the last guy i was with. i tried so hard to "like him in that way" it was hard. when we would make out i would feel strange and would long for him to leave :erm

so what the hell do i do?!

just stop it before anything gets serious?

bonsor · 12-02-2002, 09:38 PM

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Originally posted by peabody

hmm.

agreement? Disagreement? Flat out disapproval? Disownership?!

Salena Child · 12-02-2002, 09:39 PM

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Originally posted by peabody

so what the hell do i do?!

just stop it before anything gets serious?

that's what i did. the way i look at is that when i meet that person i'll enjoy it and i will want to make them happy.

peabody · 12-02-2002, 09:40 PM

it hit kinda close to home, i guess.

i've got some thinking to do.

netphoria is always good for my self doubting!

peabody · 12-02-2002, 09:42 PM

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Originally posted by Salena Child

that's what i did. the way i look at is that when i meet that person i'll enjoy it and i will want to make them happy.

sigh

man. this is sucking for my track record.

peabody · 12-02-2002, 09:45 PM

i am gonna talk to him. this is important.

Silverstream · 12-02-2002, 09:50 PM

wow! i used to think i was the only one who ever thought those kind of things.

basically every boyfriend i had i was uncomfortable with, i didnt want to do anything with them, i didnt even like kissing.

i felt like a freak.
every time we saw each other i just wanted to get away.

then one day i met this guy and it was just....different.
i wanted to kiss him all the time, i wanted to touch him.
i was amazed because i had never felt this way before.

seriously its all about finding the right person, whom you feel comfortable with and attracted to sexually.

this guy obviously isnt for you. it takes time to find the right person. dont feel bad, its not your fault.
just be patient and it will happen.

peabody · 12-02-2002, 09:58 PM

i feel bad. he seems to think i'm the right person.

ugh. what an unpleasant situation.

Random Female · 12-02-2002, 10:06 PM

Were you conditioned when you were younger that sex (or homosexual sex) was bad? Even by implication to a small degree? When I was in high school and dated, i felt exactly the same. Then I realized two things that (i think) contributed to why i felt repulsed. One was that since my parents don't really show affection for each other physically, i was thinking that I shouldn't, either. The other was that in high school i simply wasn't ready deep down for a relationship. My subconscious knew these factors and emotionally insulated myself from that person. Very sad, because that guy was an amazing person and I hurt him very much in the process. Now he's all over the country with an amazingly perfect for him girlfriend. heh.

Ketchup · 12-02-2002, 10:45 PM

CONGRATULATIONS, YUO=STR8!!!

Lie · 12-03-2002, 01:34 AM

You must just be one of those WEIRD people who has to really be totally into the person you're fooling around with. FUH-REEK.

SuckSuckStyle · 12-03-2002, 02:38 AM

it happens with me too. I just don't like sex or anything to do with it.

TheJoker · 12-03-2002, 02:40 AM

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Originally posted by peabody
Does anyone ever feel weird afterwards? 'Cause ever since like April, I've felt horribly nasty and weird after doing ANYTHING.

Like....brown paper bag, behind the counter weird? I feel like I need a shower and nap and some therapy everytime I even do something little, like kiss. I think I am going nuts. How can I not feel like this everytime?! It even happens a little when thinking about sex or anything remotely related to it.

Thoughts?

I once felt kinda weird/guilty after my girlfriend gave me a footjob, but that's about it.

12-03-2002, 03:17 AM

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Originally posted by Affect
You're doing it wrong.

Try it with a girl.

Smiley33 · 12-03-2002, 03:43 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Lie
You must just be one of those WEIRD people who has to really be totally into the person you're fooling around with. FUH-REEK.

toyschoketoys · 12-03-2002, 04:06 AM

Whats a dry hump >?

lawson · 12-03-2002, 04:14 AM

i think you were molested as a bebe... BY YOUR DAD

strange_one · 12-03-2002, 05:18 AM

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12-02-2002, 10:06 PM	#50
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12-03-2002, 02:38 AM	#53
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12-03-2002, 04:06 AM	#57
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12-02-2002, 09:09 PM	#31
Ghetto_Squirrel Minion of Satan Location: Chicago Posts: 7,157	I think the root of your concern can probably be traced back to Goatse.

12-02-2002, 09:10 PM	#32
Apart Apocalyptic Poster Posts: 1,039	gayz iz funneh

12-02-2002, 09:10 PM	#33
peabody Minion of Satan Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 5,459	Oh. I was also thinking that maybe because my subconscious knows something I don't. Like....it knows that I won't be with this person for more than a few months, so why bother? Hmm. I don't know.

12-02-2002, 09:12 PM	#34
peabody Minion of Satan Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 5,459	That sounds kinda sluttish. I mean... umm. My mind is like, "Ok, you're fooling yourself into really liking this person. It's not real. Get out."

12-02-2002, 09:16 PM	#35
june33 Ownz Location: Houston Posts: 655	Alex, I think the feeling you are having will dissapear with time and experience. I used to be that way too. I would NEVER have any desire to do anything sexual with anyone. At first I think I was just scared, but as time went on I didn't really care about sex at all and hardly ever thought about it. Eventually the feeling went away and I became more comfortable and horny.

12-02-2002, 09:19 PM	#37
peabody Minion of Satan Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 5,459	you do?! explain!

12-02-2002, 09:24 PM	#38
lawson Apocalyptic Poster Location: raleigh Posts: 4,176	if you feel that way with anyone then you shouldn't be with them and keep looking till you find the person that doesnt make you feel that way. and yes it probably is guilt also. and you might wanna hang out with some very low key no makeup no bullshit kinna girls just to see if you really are being repulsed every time you're with a guy

12-02-2002, 09:29 PM	#39
bonsor Minion of Satan Location: midwest Posts: 8,771	Alright. This girl had a fondness for me. She wasn't ugly or unattractive by any means, but I just didn't feel similarly. I was in the middle of getting over another girl and I was...frustrated. So I weighed my options and kinda went along with it, and the whole time I was like 'what the hell am I doing?'. Again, she wasn't unattractive, but I was repulsed by the fact that we were...touching.

12-02-2002, 09:40 PM	#45
peabody Minion of Satan Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 5,459	it hit kinda close to home, i guess. i've got some thinking to do. netphoria is always good for my self doubting!

12-02-2002, 09:45 PM	#47
peabody Minion of Satan Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 5,459	i am gonna talk to him. this is important.

12-02-2002, 09:50 PM	#48
Silverstream Demi-God Location: Australia Posts: 493	wow! i used to think i was the only one who ever thought those kind of things. basically every boyfriend i had i was uncomfortable with, i didnt want to do anything with them, i didnt even like kissing. i felt like a freak. every time we saw each other i just wanted to get away. then one day i met this guy and it was just....different. i wanted to kiss him all the time, i wanted to touch him. i was amazed because i had never felt this way before. seriously its all about finding the right person, whom you feel comfortable with and attracted to sexually. this guy obviously isnt for you. it takes time to find the right person. dont feel bad, its not your fault. just be patient and it will happen.

12-02-2002, 09:58 PM	#49
peabody Minion of Satan Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 5,459	i feel bad. he seems to think i'm the right person. ugh. what an unpleasant situation.

12-02-2002, 10:45 PM	#51
Ketchup Apocalyptic Poster Location: Muskegon, MI Posts: 2,469	CONGRATULATIONS, YUO=STR8!!!

12-03-2002, 01:34 AM	#52
Lie Socialphobic Location: Goin' out West where they'll appreciate me Posts: 10,001	You must just be one of those WEIRD people who has to really be totally into the person you're fooling around with. FUH-REEK.

12-03-2002, 04:14 AM	#58
lawson Apocalyptic Poster Location: raleigh Posts: 4,176	i think you were molested as a bebe... BY YOUR DAD

12-03-2002, 05:18 AM	#59
strange_one No Chance Location: Here Posts: 13,788	http://users.bigpond.com/tort/thread.jpg