Originally Posted by Elphenor
but like, I didn't want to move states to be with a girl I saw on four good dates
I was in an exclusive relationship with her for over a year
True, but even that girl I went on four dates with, I was seeing over a period of, like, five months, so it felt a lot more intimate than when you see somebody for four dates but only across a couple of weeks.
It was a combination of both our busyness, and the fact that her depression and other mental-health stuff made it so that she didn't feel up to leaving her house a whole lot and she was kinda a recluse.