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Old 10-07-2019, 03:08 AM   #4865
Disco King
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you say you have social anxiety yet you're clocking like 3 dates a month that is bonkers to me
You know how you wait around for a bus for a really long time, and then two come at once? It's kinda like that for me. I go through spells of not getting any dates, and then I'll get with two or three different people in a short time span. It's probably for no other reason than that when something is more-or-less random, so long as you don't have a whole lot of data points, you're actually more likely get clusters instead of an equal distribution, even though our brains anticipate that randomness should be uniform.

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I have been on dates with less women than you can count on one hand in my adult life

they all turned into something because I wasn't asking out random women at the bus stop who I probably had nothing in common with I guess
I've not had any more success with people I've met through mutual friends or anything.

 
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