Originally Posted by redbreegull
There is something to be said for different people liking different things. Sometimes if someone is a bad kisser or is bad at sex, I wonder if maybe I just have a different preference than them... but then I also wonder if it's the result of no one correcting them if their technique is not good? Or if it's that some people are inherently less attuned to the physical and emotional responses in others?
I'm going with that last part. If someone is not noticing how much the other person is not enjoying it, and is unable/unwilling to tweak things to improve it.....they are bad.