I slept with band members, (no AMA), and yes, I was not only a consenting adult, I was the adult who was pursuing it.
it also happens that you meet 20 year olds with smeared make-up staggering out of tour buses and hotel rooms looking like they'd like to call their mom now.
so to make a broad generalisaion that "groupies" must fall into either segment by definition is just completely silly.
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