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Old 02-27-2016, 09:19 AM   #61
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Originally Posted by Elijah Moon View Post
how are things, anyway?
my mom's bf is gonna die soon. i was up all night there so my mom could sleep. i just came home to take meds, feed cat, shower, etc. then i have to go buy my mom mouthwash and underwear and some other things and go back to hospice.

i mean my mom is devastated, i'm sad of course but i'm more worried about my mom than him, all things considered. the soon he dies the better for him, he's in a lot of pain still even on subcutaneous morphine, ativan, fentanyl patch, etc. but he has stopped responding, where last night he was communicating a bit. he was also starting and stopping breathing a lot early last night but now is mostly breathing regularly with extreme death rattle. supposedly the fluid buildup is not painful/awkward for them but when you hear it it's very hard to believe, sounds like water boiling - like he's drowning in his own secretions. but he's not it just sounds like it

 
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