Miladys are often racist as well, and are always punching above their weight. I would often have them complaining in my ear that they had such bad luck with girls but they'd never ask me out because my skin colour and size 12 feet made me incompatible with their waif-like, lady Guinevere-esque vision of what girls are. Friend-zoned by the miladies.
I think they don't have strong father figures/male role models in their lives, to model actual, attractive masculinity to them or something. They are nice guys to be friends with, when they have no sexual interest in you. I guess I was fortunate in that way.