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Originally Posted by Trotskilicious
paying money for someone to listen to you is jacked up, they don't really do anything
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they have training and should be using that to help you in agreed upon ways. therapy without direction can be completely pointless and it can actually be harmful if they are shitty therapists/people
for me its also been a vehicle for me to learn how to trust others because of all that happened to me, i'm still not able to trust but no person should have to deal with my bullshit insecurity, my therapist deals with it so i can work through it and eventually have a real trusting relationship with others. so yeah in a way it's paying someone to just listen to you but there's more to it than that and for some people it's not that at all, for example in CBT
no one really knows me, probably no one really knows you either trots and that's sad and shitty for us, other people don't live that way