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Old 04-25-2017, 01:16 AM   #9054
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My sister was involved with a man once accused (not convicted, somehow) of stalking a woman (he was caught outside her home with a loaded gun and 12k in cash). I think she didn't want to continue the case. He didn't deny it happened. Yet, because they agreed politically and ideologically, he was allowed to have a relationship with Shannon (whereas if I want to have sushi with her and paint her nails I can't because I'm the root of her illness). This guy ended up drugging her multiple times. He manipulated Shannon to convince her friends to have sex with him. Terrible things.

Before all that- I had called her therapist and tried to tell her because I was extremely concerned about the stalking thing. I got an "okaaay" and my family was very angry at me then. Yet now Jeremy is also blamed as the root of Shannon's illness rather than an exacerbation after the abuse he did came out. Nobody wanted to listen to me before that. That was two years ago.

 
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