WELL, i know from experience that you cant' force chemistry. they can be the perfect one 'on paper' for you, but if you feel no spark or desire to be with them you can't really expect it to go anywhere. some people say feelings like this grow from being friends with someone and finally just realizing that you were in love with them, but that didn't happen with me.
my past relationship was with a guy that i didn't necessarily find attractive, but had every great boyfriend quality i thought i needed. it was a pretty good long relationship and worked for what it was, but now that i'm in a relationship with jacob i realized everything that was missing in any other relationship i've ever had ever in teh world.
p.s. those guys that have no backbone are so unattractive. i knew one called wilbert and i liked hanging out with him because he'd never try to make a move, but once again no chemistry....nothing....it ended pretty quickly
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