Do you ever wish you could be another sex?
 

Growing up, I always thought it would be better to be a girl, which I guess was because I wasn't very boy-like. It just seemed more appealing to me. Now I'm indifferent towards it - there are pros and cons to both genders and I think I would be content with either.

However, if I were a girl, I'd have to be a lesbian.

i remember seeing that on jerry springer.

someone got a sex change, then became a lesbain....
it would seem to me that if you want the box, you'd want to stay a man?

Or maybe the only pussy they could get was their own.

yeah i think about it a lot actually. well mostly just what it would be like to have a penis and have like hetero sex with a girl. the subject fascinates me :crazy:

Eh, not really. At times I've thought that it would be nice for one particular reason or another...heh heh...but I'm content being what I am.

yeah. i would really like to know exactly what a male orgasm feels like.

warm and wet

why? apparently they're much, much weaker than female orgasms. they're gone after a few seconds.

it's a tough call. penises are really cool to have. but so are breasts, AND there's two of them.

i think lesbian sex turns me on more than man-woman sex, so i should probably be a lesbian. but it only really does turn me on because i'm a man in the first place... :think:

only when I have to use the public restrooms. The lines are always shorter for guys.

i have grilled exes excessively about what ejaculation feels like. i mean it seems like such a serious eruption most times that i always figured that there must be some seriously hardcore sensation behind that right? like a serious driving force? i dunno. it just looks like it feels way better than any orgasm i've ever experienced. maybe it's cause i have an ejaculation fixation. i dunno.:o

that and i would like to know what it feels like to hardcore fuck a girl with a real penis. mhm.

i would like to be a man sometimes, just to not have to deal with the physical and cultural crap that comes along with being a woman.

I've often wondered what having breasts would be like. Seems like a hassle. But, uh, about 5 years ago I would've said being a woman's better because of no embarrassing erections jabbing all over the place. But now that all that hormone shit is easing up, having a penis is pretty radical. Except for jogging, or doing long jump, or high jump when you forget and wear boxers. Oh, the pain. Track in general. But then I guess wearing a sports bra is also a hassle.
Uh, the thought of being drafted is a huge bitch, but then getting pregnant is certainly bad too. I mean, if you don't want to.
Society puts a lot of pressure on females for a number of reasons, and I would hate having teachers and other people hitting on me/leering at me. But then again, males aren't allowed to be smart/sensitive, unless you liek being called a bitch. I mean, look at sitcoms. Don't see a lot of intellegent males do you. Raymond, anyone?
My conclusion is that having a penis is good, having lame orgasms is bad, not having a period/jamming things in my vagina is good, draft is bad, not being able to wear bright colors etc. whereas a girl can seemingly wear anything bad, not getting pregnant good, running bad, being respected and not treated as an object good, society's view of 'the male' bad.
Uh, it's cool being male I guess. Sure. Go team penis!

you people aren't very well versed in the world or the transgendered person.

Honestly, I know that.

Teach us.

id kill myself if i were born a girl. man. PMS, psychotic mood swings that make no sense to anyone but myself and other psycho chicks, hating every girl that was the slightest bit prettier than me, having guy after guy attempt to use me for nothing but a fuck, analyzing every little thing until it doesnt even exist in a relationship, having to worry constantly about my appearence, spending countless amounts of money on make up, clothes, shoes, and other girly bullshit. man, thank fucking god im male.

better than any orgasm you'll ever have, thats for sure. cunt.

hey, i like spending money on clothes.

nobody cares

THAT SHOULD SAY OF NOT OR.

wow, if i wrote OR, that'd be dumbarse of me.


my comment was to shannon, basically.

transgendered means that the sex assigned to the person at birth(penis or vagina) is not how the person feels in his/her mind. they feel to be the opposite or neither sexes. the reason some become lesbians when they go male->female is because it's not that they like the cooch more, they just like being male less.

so yeah. it's complicated and it really depends on each and every person, but that is one of the patterns.

I think the worst would have to be living the life of a shallow, ugly girl.

I mean, shallow, pretty girls are annoying but atleast they are hot and fuckable. Girls with a brain who are ugly are cool because they are interesting. But damn, being a shallow, ugly girl would suck.

There are all these girls at my school who hang out with the hot girls and aren't hot at all, yet literally their whole life revolves around their appearance. They devote themselves to a lost cause.


I just want to grab them and say "YOU ARE FUCKING UGLY! GO DO SOMETHING ELSE!" They are just kind of in limbo, stuck with the worst of both worlds.

NOBODY CARE!

Me too!
I always thought it was so cool that guys can shoot like that. you ask them how it feels, and they're like "eh"
it just goes apparently. like they know a couple seconds before...
doesn't matter the mood, situation etc....nothing ruins it, which leads me to believe it can't be as intense as a good female one.
plus, they don't feel all happy and good afterwards like fems do.... typically they're just tired. so i'm quite happy with my orgasm.... :D

me too... only the with the genders reversed.

For a while, I've always wanted to be a guy...just for like a week or something. Cuz I really like being a female. I just want to know what everything feels like with a penis and no breasts. Boobs are incredible annoying esp. if they're big. I can't run, or jog, or do jumping jacks...and I constantly have back problems. I want to go play pool and see how it feels not to have to shoot around my boobs.

I have always had a very big non-sexual fascination with my ex's penis. Haha, it was kind of a joke but I was really so intrigued I would examine it soft, get him hard and examine it then. I WANT ONE! Having someone slice off skin from your genitals seems really scary, but they usually do it so young that it doesn't matter. I want to know what its like to pee standing up and have to aim (I want to do the superman pee, too), I want to know what it feels like to have sex with a woman, I want to know what the orgasm feels like, to feel it rumbling up and all that.

Everyone always says a major minus to being a female is the whole pregnancy issue. It can be, if you get pregnant early in age and say...have to get an abortion. That's definately not a plus and its more of a mental thing than an emotional thing. But then again, if you're careful, you wouldn't have to go through that. Having a kid is incredible stress, on the mind and body. Your body does shit and feels shit that doesn't seem normal, but for (most) women, pregnancy is really beautiful. Women have the mentality, though (most do at least) that here's something that's causing me so much pain and terror in my belly...I can't eat what I used to, I can't smell things I used to love to smell, I can't even drink the same things I used to love to drink...but somehow I love this thing. Your whole mentality changes and its really an incredible thing. Wow...okay thats a little off track.

But anyways, I really really want a penis just for a week, then I want to come back into this body and be me. With the PMS, the emotional mood swings, the crazy mind, the crazy memories, the tampons, the shaving cream, the extremely insane amount of clothes and the inclination to buy more. The resposibilities and the body that is able to keep another human being alive.

Plus we can have multiple orgasms :D

lol!

Actually, other than the curiosity factor, no. I'd like to try being a guy for experimental purposes, and if I could switch back and forth, that would be cool, but ultimately I don't ever have thoughts of wanting to change my gender. I used to want to be a boy when I was younger, because I wasn't a typical girl and thought it would make things easier, but I've come to enjoy figuring out how to work around little problems that being a woman involves.