Its over, its over, this haunting, its over!!
 

Well between last night and today I managed to move out all of my stuff from *****'s" apartment.

Today my mom got the truck and we took a couple trips and moved all of my big furniture out.

Paul tried to start some shit with me but my mom got on the phone with him and said "Don't fuck with me, I'm not in the mood, I've delt with assholes like you before, I was married to one for 14 years...so please don't try to pull any shit on me. I really don't want to have to fuck you up."

So this morning our landlord, Colleen came over to fix a window the roofers broke. I asked her if she had drawn up the new lease for Paul yet, and she asked me what I was talking about.

I told her that Paul told me that this weekend Colleen was going to draw up a new lease for him by himself and that the one with my name would be destroyed. She said he's full of shit and that they talked BRIEFLY about it and that she told him she'd get back to him about what they would do by the earliest Monday.

So basically we traded stories and I found out that Paul lied to me about everything. She said she was real pissed off and that she would never give him a lease by himself because he wouldn't be able to afford it alone. I also pointed out the big hole in the wall from when Paul threw a table at me the other night. Just so I wouldn't get blamed for it. She got even more pissed off and said that the security deposit would be divided into two equal parts and Paul's damage would be paid with Paul's half of the deposit and that I would get my half back. She said "Since I see how the apartment looks now that you're moving out, any and all damages made after this date will be his, obviously."

She said if need be she'll get lawyers involved, if Paul wants to take things that far, and he'll totally be screwed. Neither one of us want that to happen though.

So what is happening is Colleen will be putting For Rent signs up and in 30-60 days, the apartment should be rented. Until it is rented, Paul and I are both on the lease. I have rights to the apartment just as much as he does and I do NOT have to give him the keys (I made a spare set, though, just in case). We will each be paying $412.50 a month until it is rented and if Paul cannot come up with his half, thats on him, not me.

She's being really nice about it, and I think its mostly due to the fact that she's really pissed that Paul lied about this.

He threw all my shit outside after that, which made it easier for me and my mom to move it into the truck...he thought he was being mean.

He told me that I screwed him out of an apartment.

All in all everything should be okay.

I found a storage space 10X10 for $75/mo. which is a good deal around here. Next weekend my friend from Detroit will be helping me move the furniture into the storage space because right now its in my mom's garage.

I'm so happy its finally over, all the bullshit.

I just thought I'd let you all know that, wow I've had a long week.

:)

I'm glad this is over and you are happy. Seriously, I'm not being a troll here...
But um, what about Paul? That guy has serious issues and I hope he doesn't ends up chasing you to hurt you or something. It seems to me that this guy is fully capable of doing something like that. :erm

He is fully capable of doing something like that, but I have a lot of people on my side right now and a few that are just waiting for him to pull something so they can beat his ass.

I can hold my own against him for the most part, because he's 90% talk and 10% action. When that action does come into play, thought, thats when I get scared.

I doubt he'd fuck with my mom though, and for a while I'm always going to have one of my bigger male friends with me just in case I do bump into him.

I should be fine, though. Thanks for the concern.

hehe thanks, so when are you coming to Chicago? =)

can i have some ass pics now?

Heh, no I'm over that stage now, sorry.

You fool! Let me show you how to collect rent.

great to hear you decided to move out!

stacy, your a smart girl,im glad things will work out.


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Cool, I'm glad things are starting to work out. Just out of interest though, how long do you have left on your lease? If you're locked into it until someone else moves in with Paul, he might do his best to drive any potential tenants away, just to spite you (and to get the place to himself)

:) now its just smoooth sailing from here :)

question (if ya dun mind my asking): how was he before he turned into a big asshole? did he have assholish tendencies in him or was this all out of the blue???

I never thought of that, but I'll bring that up with my landlord. Thanks.

Well I'm not sure what you're asking, cuz obviously he wasn't an asshole before he was an asshole...

He wasn't an asshole when we started dating 2 1/2 years ago, he wasn't an asshole until about 3 months after I had the abortion. I dunno if that had anything to do with it, but after that was when things started going downhill. He started ignoring me a lot and pushing me away. That's when I started pleading with him to stop. That eventually lead into all the self-esteem issues, me falling in love with someone else, the pictures I sent to Eric, me going off to Detroit, and him and I breaking up for the first time.

Then we ended up getting back together because I thought I came to this huge realization that him and I really do belong together. Then we ended up getting a place together and it was perfect. Everything was fine until he started bringing up the trust issues again, then he started pushing me away again, and then finally I said I think we need a break, and you all know the rest from there.

Did you take all of that shit in question? The computer and money and shit?

How come? He wanted the baby?

Hahaha, yep I sure did, EVERYTHING. The only thing I left was the damn catnip, I forgot about the catnip.

Oh well I'll just have to buy some more with my EXTRA FIVE HUNDRED DOLLARS!!

Also, my landlord told me today that if Paul happens to pay the whole rent amount, then she'll give me my half back. I'm going over there tomorrow to drop off my half of the rent, but Paul might be thinking that he has to pay the whole amount.

Also, he's on a vacation I think and she says that if he's late with the rent, then he's evicted and no more apartment, no more lease.

Hopefully that'll happen cuz he obviously can't pay if he's not here, and today was the first.

We'll see.

I think I may actually go back tomorrow to get the catnip...

I dunno, we didn't really bring it up much after it happened. Whenever we did, it was very emotional for the both of us.

He said when I was pregnant, that he wanted me to get an abortion, we both new we couldn't take care of a child.

But the other night when we were having one of our "talks" before I moved out, he said (in reference to the baby) "I'm sorry we couldn't do that" I was like "Do what? Have a baby?" he said "Yeah, I think it might've helped us" I guessed he was referring to the fact that if we had a child we might be more willing to work things out between us.

I told him he was nuts and that there was no way that either one of us were capable of bringing up a baby, not in this relationship and not at this age. The baby would've had a terrible life and both of us would've been starving and miserable.

He can't even buy himself some damn spoons, HE HAS NO FUCKING SPOONS AND HE WANTS A BABY?

Gimme a break.

Anyways, yeah so that's that.

I'm hyped up on a lotta coffee so my fingers just keep on typing.

Sorry I'll stop now.