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duovamp 02-28-2019 12:36 AM

Lotta sluts here.

duovamp 02-28-2019 12:36 AM

PM me!

pale_princess 02-28-2019 01:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rairun (Post 4500584)
I don't think so? This is a bit like the difference between bisexuality and pansexuality. Both words are by and large synonyms, but they highlight slightly different aspects of attraction. I can totally see why someone would choose to identify as pan rather than bi. As someone who primarily identifies as bi (though pan wouldn't be wrong), I can see how "pan" would feel more comfortable for some people.

But pan people don't get to say: "the difference being bisexuality and pansexuality is that bisexual people are only attracted to people who adhere to gender binary." This is factually wrong. This is not what most bi people mean when they identify as bi. This is not what bisexuality has historically meant. And it'd be quite arrogant for them to say, "Sorry, I just don't see it that way!"

I agree, and it's a huge misconception. Pan people don't "get to" define bisexuality as two genders, but some still do (not just pan-identifying folx, but anybody, really) and this is a whole other can of worms!

I'm a bi-identifying cis-woman where it means I'm attracted to same gender, and non-same gender. Some use it to mean male and female. Some use it for other specific groups of people. Anyway, I'm monogamously married to a cis dude, so I'm mostly invisible anyway :rofl:

So... with that said, there are a lot of different ways people can define their own sexualities and it is fine!

LaBelle 02-28-2019 10:44 AM

Having to balance work, friends, hobbies, chores and a relationship is already a nightmare. Can't even begin to imagine if a third person got involved.

Who even has that kind of time.

MyOneAndOnly 02-28-2019 09:44 PM

if you don't have that much time you don't spend as much with partners...

Two people I"m seeing are busy like me and don't live in the city. I see each of them once every week or so. And we like it that way.

buzzard 02-28-2019 09:46 PM

The key is to neglect both chores and friendships. It clears the schedule right up.

FoolofaTook 02-28-2019 10:19 PM

That's nothing compared to the bounties granted those who choose to neglect all the aspects of life beyond eating, sleeping, and smoking weed.

buzzard 02-28-2019 11:03 PM

...and hailing Satan?

duovamp 02-28-2019 11:35 PM

Sucking Baphomet's cock. Get it right.

Also can I be faithful to my partner while sucking Baphomet cock on the side?

ilikeplanets 03-01-2019 12:35 AM

if your partner doesn't understand that, you aren't MeAnT tO bE

Mals Marola 03-01-2019 12:53 AM

in my relationship, we're under firm understanding that it's Baphomet who sucks MY dick.

seems to be going pretty well so far

duovamp 03-01-2019 01:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ilikeplanets (Post 4500684)
if your partner doesn't understand that, you aren't MeAnT tO bE

I’m saving myself for marriage to Baphomet.

MyOneAndOnly 03-01-2019 10:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by duovamp (Post 4500686)
I’m saving myself for marriage to Baphomet.

you and every 16 year old girl



Mals Marola 03-01-2019 11:48 PM

BRANG IT.

slunken 03-02-2019 03:11 PM

whenever myoneandonly makes a thread its like when an over-50 uncle of yours makes a post on facebook. its so asinine and self-serving you want to respond but you know you shouldn't

ilikeplanets 03-02-2019 04:48 PM

not sure exactly which posters make threads about topics they don't care about :rolleyes:

smashingjj 03-02-2019 05:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by slunken (Post 4500816)
whenever myoneandonly makes a thread its like when an over-50 uncle of yours makes a post on facebook. its so asinine and self-serving you want to respond but you know you shouldn't

yet here you did

MyOneAndOnly 03-02-2019 11:21 PM

that's what's called backhanded misgendering

LaBelle 03-03-2019 04:45 AM

People should watch Professor Marston and the Wonder Women if you haven't.

MyOneAndOnly 03-03-2019 10:35 AM

^^^^^

Sonic Johnny 03-03-2019 09:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sonic Johnny (Post 4500464)
are you still a neolib tho

.?

Eulogy 03-04-2019 07:33 PM

Oh jfc

smashingjj 03-04-2019 07:41 PM

jfc fried chicken?

Mals Marola 03-04-2019 07:46 PM

i prefer popeeyes

FoolofaTook 03-04-2019 09:00 PM

Are You Marolamous?

reprise85 03-04-2019 09:01 PM

i'm super monogamous.

Mals Marola 03-05-2019 11:14 AM

i'm monaural

Mals Marola 03-05-2019 11:15 AM

most days at least :stan:

FoolofaTook 03-05-2019 11:45 AM

you only listen to mono the japanese post-rock band?

Disco King 03-05-2019 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LaBelle (Post 4500885)
People should watch Professor Marston and the Wonder Women if you haven't.

I've not watched it, but I have reprints of the original William Moulten Marston/H.G. Peter comics, and they are my favourite iteration of Wonder Woman. Some really interesting ideas and themes of feminism (although it was of the cultural feminist variety, so it was still pretty gender-essentialist) and BDSM. The character was kind of sanitized after Marston left the book and Robert Kanigher took over, and though there were good runs since then (George Perez's reboot, runs by Phil Jiminez, Eric Luke and Gail Simone, among others), it never really returned to the ideas Marston was originally exploring in the book.

If you want a more modern take on Wonder Woman that does hearken back to the original material (most people I know, unless they are really into comics, just can't get into Golden-Age comics), check out Grant Morrison's Wonder Woman: Earth One. It's a self-contained take on Wonder Woman, separate from the mainstream universe, in which he specifically seeks to explore Marston's ideas, but in a modern context. There are two books out, and it's planned to be a trilogy. Some of my favourite Wonder Woman material in years, and the first book kind of strikes me as having something to say about the tensions between third-wave liberal and second-wave radical feminism.


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