Well from a social standpoint... How many times a week do you hang out with friends? Whens the last time you've had a romantic relationship... If I'm to take advice from you, these questions should expect a normal reply

i don't give people advice on romantic relationships because my fucked up one fucked me up very good and I have attachment issues from it, but then again it's all in my head right

fuzzy are you drunk

obviously

once in a while he turns his shit-wheel and it lands on me i guess

i'm just going to say fuck you fuzzy and be done with it


fuck you fuzzy.

It's kind of rich hearing you tell us what kind of advice we "want" to hear, when I'm sure I speak for the vast majority of us when I say that we value Reprise's insight much more than yours.

"Get drunk, go to local concerts, and wallah!"

"And wallah!"

And

WALLAH

fuzzy, everyone deals with some level of dysfunction in their lives and such dysfunction doesn't necessarily prevent them from becoming effective practitioners.

in fact peer therapy (patients talking to therapists who have "also been there") is becoming more and more popular because of its proven effectiveness.

you big dummy. one doesn't will themselves out of depression, but they can learn to cope and understand their distorted thoughts enough to not let them impede daily life as much as possible. you're too dumb to have ever been depressed.

depression isn't the only thing out there one must work to overcome. there's ignorance, too, which you have.

@ Bread R: It's only becoming more popular when the people who have "been there" are now successful and living well and acting as a mentor to the others who are floundering around.

I respect Reprise for what it's worth, and I have no fight in the situation to belittle her. But if she's cutting me down expressing why she thinks I'm annoying, I should at least be able to express the areas in which I think she's bunk.

Perhaps RBG and Bonnie were right.. You are stone-cold Yo-Soy.

i'm a work in progress, what can i say. i never claimed anything else. i'm nobody's therapist and am aware of my own limitations.

you obviously do have no respect for me though, fuzzy. i do have an education in the field you're talking about, and I have worked hard on myself for the past decade. I was in bad shape. I do find you annoying but I'd never cut at your integrity like you are at mine right now. You are literally attacking me at my weak points in order to hurt my feelings. Weak points being, my social life and my mental illness history, by the way. Yeah I'm so fucked up with attachment I don't even seek out romantic relationships. Congratulations, you won a point.

I realize that people have flaws and I've always said despite how you act I think you're a good person. I do think you are very ignorant in many ways and I do think you are drunk right now and will feel bad about this tomorrow.

I'm done now.

dude reprise is like one of the most has-it-together people i know. Straight A's for a Psych BS is impossible if you don't have your life sorted out.

pffht, that's a simplistic standard for having ones life sorted out man

it's a BA so it's not quite as impressive i'm afraid. but still a 4.0 is like a less than 0.1% kinda thing

How does one ascertain if their life is sorted out or not?

the areas my life is sorted out in are really sorted out and the opposite is also true

Hey, we're all ruthless motherfuckers here who all call out each other on their hypocrisy. I know because I'm the whipping boy and it's "okay" when I get ripped, but If I point out some other hypocrisy- I'm being a dick.

I'm sorry if I offended you Reprise. My point was: we're all fucked up messes here. We're all helpless losers. I'm not trying to make you feel bad about where you're at... But you do give unsolicited advice an awful lot, and why in the world would you expect anyone to listen to it when you're giving the advice to people who are often times living better than you are?

Setting difficult goals and achieving them is a pretty good measure of having it together, I think.

:erm:

By that metric i'm about half and half so far... not bad in having-it-together-ness I suppose.

I must say, if given the choice between living Reprise's life or Matthew's, I would definitely pick Reprise's.

Mental scars heal. Brain damage doesn't.

does fuzzy even have a kitty?

It's a joke. I think neg rep is funny. That's why I comment on it and makes threads about it.

Or are these the lies that I tell myself? While deep down inside my heart recoils at the merest thought of a neg rep?

well, i know who i'm voting for now

Reprise fuzzy said that about you not knowing anything about psychology just to make you mad. and that's low fuzzrod especially given her background.

just ignore him reprise.

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