Trying to have an affair with someone who is 10 years younger than me
 

The woman I'm trying to have an affair with. She knows about the other person and she doesn't really care. The woman I'm currently with is a few months older than me. I'm not really into her though. I feel like I'm just settling with her. I feel like I can do better but at the same time I don't want to break it off with her. There are things about her that I like. She just doesn't compare in any way with the other one. I'm more aroused by the other one. She told me a while back that we are "friends" but it's also clear that the relationship has gotten serious. I have met her kids. She invited me to her mother's 60th birthday party.

alright already didn't you already confess to being a troll

without pics Im going to say to pick the young one, but that can change if and when pics are provided

You're keeping the one you're with around in case the other woman doesn't work out for you.

No I think it's more that I've gotten used to her. She has become a part of my routine and I generally don't like the idea of change. That's why I'm not trying to break it off with her.

What do you guys think of banging 19 year olds?

It's sad that kids are involved in this.

i think you're a scumbag, kimani shorter. that's what i think.

http://florida.arrests.org/mugs/Hern..._02-114634.jpg

a real dick. i hope you get herpes and die.

It sucks getting cheated on too. Dammit.

i hope you're on an episode of hbo's "real sex".

I haven't actually done it yet. But it's on the menu.

i hope you're on an episode of taxi cab confessions and that cab gets hit by a bus with you and the whoring people you associate with.

If you check the birthdate on that mug shot site you'll see that that's not me.

i hope you go to the mustang ranch in nevada and order a "hot carl" and a sick cat shits in your nutella and you suffer from toxoplasmosis and a prolapsed anus.

he was born in 1995. I was born in 1980.

Since you let the other woman know that you have someone else, why not give that much respect to the person you are already with and let her know what you're going to do?

http://imageshack.us/a/img155/8576/goodwill3.jpg

yeah, i fucking know man.

How could you honestly not notice that?

I'M FUCKING BOARDING YOU HOMEWRECKER. FUCK. UGH. SAVE US EULOGY.

Because since she said we are friends maybe I don't feel obligated to explain anything to her. It's not like she said we are boyfriend / girlfriend.

I'm not Banana. I have a conscience. I just honestly don't see it as being so bad since she said we're just friends.

cool to know. thanks for issuing a statement on the situation no one asked about.

thanks for stopping by. thanks for adding content to the universe. thanks for letting us know you don't see it as being bad since you're friends. so what is it that you want now? what? what? what the fuck can we do? can i google something for you? can i bully you online? can i add more to this? can i? please?

can we help you find a swinging partner here or what? maybe someone to cyber with? there's a lot of options for you. you just need to ask. tell us what you need.

maybe he's into wiccankink

*wink wink*

I know it may seem hypocritical for the thread to be about having an affair and then inside for me to say I don't see anything wrong with what I'm doing because we're friends. But if you look at this as a blog then it's kind of justified isn't it? My reasoning and perspective is continually changing because I'm just typing out my thoughts.

okay that's not what a blog is

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blog

others function as more personal online diaries;

i got dicks bigger than you son

i once dated someone ten years younger than me. at the end of the day you just have to remember: hey, she's retarded.

can we all agree to learn curses and curse catherine wheel for his immoral acts

post any good ones you guys find

ill teach that bastard not to post pics

if you start to identify yourself as the main character in a steely dan song especially in regards to a relationship - she's too young

is that how it works? so you're just friends and not really in a relationship? in that case, what could possibly go wrong if you tell her about your upcoming affair? after all, you're just friends, right?

this isn't cataloging sp release numbers, bram. you are just now learning about this. this is a none story.

Bottom line, just be honest... about everything, then go from there. Friends, lovers, whatever. Then you're not running around hiding stuff.

There is an excitement and thrill in the pursuit, but once all of that wears off and the fantasy fades away and real life shows up, then what?

I just don't think it's worth lying for. Sit down with her and share your plans. Respect her, know what I'm saying?

:rofl:

planning to cheat on someone who believes to be in a monogamous relationship with you is a shitty thing to do. Why not just tell her that you want an open relationship? She might be cool with it, and you'll not have to endure the horror of all that "change".

My wife is nearly a decade younger than me. I met her when she was 21. I dated a few 19 year olds around that time, but I found them annoying. My rule after that was that I wouldn't date anybody that needed a fake id to get into a bar.