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Eulogy 09-02-2013 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Trotskilicious (Post 4011556)
seriously why do you take shit like this so personally anyway, your experiences aren't universal either you unrelenting bitchy douchebag

i don't take it personally. i like what i like and i don't get mad at people for liking things i don't like. you should try it sometime.

Eulogy 09-02-2013 05:51 PM

like really. you talking about other people being bitchy? you are the bitchiest person on the fucking planet.

Order 66 09-02-2013 05:56 PM

yeah face it.. mass effect 3's ending wasn't so bad. no need to bring everybody else down with your hateorade

null123 09-02-2013 06:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucky Day Spa (Post 4011565)
what i meant was that, if at least part of your enjoyment from drinking is sensory/aesthetic then, if you are curious and have the means to try new things, your palate/tastes/preferences are going to develop over time

as for someone who drinks solely with the intention of getting shitfaced, and is just as happy downing shots of everclear as they are sipping a flute of cristal or whatever, that's obviously different

I was trying to be funny but yeah I see what you're saying. I guess I've always felt the need to keep drinking as a very specific separate activity that can't bleed too much into daily life because of growing up with alcoholics who would sometimes use their ~sophisticated~ taste in beer and wine to mask their need to be at least kinda buzzed every single day.

on top of that, wine triggers my ice pick headaches and beer is gross to me except piss beers I can choke down and those are for partying anyway

I appreciate the subtleties amongst different varieties of gin though :stan:

Trotskilicious 09-02-2013 06:15 PM

gin is good

Shallowed 09-02-2013 07:13 PM

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Originally Posted by sppunk (Post 4011515)
A site historically full of antisocial loners, you didn't expect many to dislike social atmospheres? Seriously?

There are some, but most don't come off as being antisocial loners, at least to me.

Trotskilicious 09-02-2013 07:29 PM

going to the bar means you like social atmospheres qed

Order 66 09-02-2013 07:52 PM

fuck societal shit i go to pund brews and get my dick wet. an if somebody talks shit i beat they're ass

duovamp 09-02-2013 07:55 PM

:rofl:

pavementtune 09-02-2013 08:02 PM

After going to bars for half of my life I don't get much out of it anymore. I don't like to be really drunk in a non-private setting, so nonstop drinking isn't for me. And random guys hitting on you isn't my idea of a good evening, either.

I do love pubs/bars with good live music, though.

duovamp 09-02-2013 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by pavementtune (Post 4011598)
And random guys hitting on you isn't my idea of a good evening, either.

Speak for yourself.

hnibos 09-02-2013 09:30 PM

Seriously.

hnibos 09-02-2013 09:31 PM

I only go to bars to play poker and eat hot wings. It's moderately entertaining.

noyen 09-02-2013 11:48 PM

i like getting high and having dumpster sex.

people my age who still go to bars are fucking washout alcoholic losers.

D. 09-02-2013 11:50 PM

I have a back porch and a big backyard with a fire pit, I need no bars anymore.

noyen 09-02-2013 11:55 PM

just kidding.

it really just depends on set and setting for me. when i lived in portland i had a few neighborhood bars i hung out in all the time because i didnt want to sit in my apartment and drink alone or whatever.

if i have to drive to a bar, im just not going to go at all. id rather not have a dui. buy if there was a bar in walkin distance id probably be up in that every now and then to unwind. otherwise the only time ill go bar hopping is if someone is having a bday or whatever binge fest.

i just like stuff i like when i wanna like unless im not liking it which would mean i wouldnt like it but other than that i like stuff i like and dislike things i dont unless the moment or effects of the drugs im on kick in which changes reality and makes me like things i hate and then im loving that shit i hate on and being that thing i normally hate but liking it at that particular time so im liking it thinking hey i like this shit i normally hate but its not like im gonna just start lovig it all the time if i just liked it that one time when i didnt even like it but i did like it so its like why did i hate that when i really do like it or if i hated it and liked it simultaniously.

its complicated.

slunken 09-03-2013 12:36 AM

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Originally Posted by noyen (Post 4011629)

its complicated.

this

Order 66 09-03-2013 12:39 AM

thats the deal with me there are no bars i want to go to in walking distance. there's a "hip hop" bar/club across teh street. but, yeah, no. all the cool bars are in the neighborhoods where a 1 bedroom is $1000/mo or you get a roach filled studio for slightly less

duovamp 09-03-2013 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by D. (Post 4011627)
I have a back porch and a big backyard with a fire pit, I need no bars anymore.

Suuuuper jelly.

D. 09-03-2013 11:14 PM

For a time, I lived a block away from a little area that had four bars. If my neighbor and I weren't drinking outside the apartment complex with the other neighbors, we were walking to these bars and getting sloshed. We drank a lot, simply because there was no driving involved.

One of the semi-homeless dudes who drank with us ended up stabbing someone and going to jail for attempted murder.

WELP.

slunken 09-04-2013 02:09 AM

having a neighborhood bar within walking distance is ideal. to hell with driving to a club.

mpp 09-06-2013 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Trotskilicious (Post 4011545)
see this is one of the shitty things i think there's a real smug sense of superiority about some of you, when the reason you're at a bar is so you can get a beer in you because social situations make you feel uncomfortable anyway

you know why i don't like bars these days? because most of the people i know from my time in them are alcoholics or otherwise boring, self centered blowhards. it was fun for a bit but 10 years it's getting real old, real fast.

and the only people defending bars in this thread suck real bad so that, again, is making my argument for me

I like bars ok, but, as usual, I can see where you're going with this. I enjoy going much less than I did when I was 22 or even 30.

If I'm going to a bar these days, it's to get a couple of beers in me before heading home. Kinda interesting: was talking to my Dad the other day and he said he did the same thing for years (except he'd stop and get a couple of double dueces at the "filling station"). Takes the edge off while transitioning between high-stress environment #1 (work)and potentially high-stress enviorment #2 (home).

And that, as they say, is alcoholism.

yo soy el mejor 09-06-2013 03:36 PM

i do not like bars on weekends or late in the evening. later in the evening can be okay if it's a tuesday or something and a weekend day is fine if it's in the afternoon.

tim and i went to a bar to see a soccer game recently and had a few cans of cheap bar. i also worked on a crossword.

Trotskilicious 09-06-2013 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by mpp (Post 4012262)
Takes the edge off while transitioning between high-stress environment #1 (work)and potentially high-stress enviorment #2 (home).

And that, as they say, is alcoholism.

yeah dogg that sounds terrible @_@

i just need to meet a pretty lady that's all i want to settle down and have cats and read books and stuff

Starla 09-06-2013 08:50 PM

creeps hang out here....


null123 09-06-2013 09:01 PM

that looks scary

drinking in public is kinda scary overall

Starla 09-06-2013 09:10 PM

It's on the main street of our tiny town. I can drive by this at any given time after 5pm and someone is surely laid out on the sidewalk all messed up.

MusicMan4 09-09-2013 09:19 PM

that sounds cool

hnibos 09-09-2013 09:23 PM

Someone's doing it right.

Elvis The Fat Years 09-09-2013 09:26 PM

walk up in da club and like what up



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