Kelsome of all people is telling you this. Everyone in the thread is telling you to just go for it, then you give us nine reasons why you don't want to. You just want to be told to not go for it.

yeah i don't even want to read the reasons

they weren't reasons why i wasn't going for it. they're reasons why i'm overthinking it first.

done!


"so do you really like T?"

"do i really like her? dunno. i dont think i could date her...for all the reasons we talked about last night. can you imagine dating her?"

"yeah...i like her. that's why i asked"

"awwww! go for it zach!"

"she's not really date-able i dont think"

"nah but she'd shag you for sure"

:)

stop overthinking things in general

Now that's good advice.

it's not easy either

werd. i do it with everything and i really need to stop.

me too and i have been more successful lately, hence the upward trend I think

i'm not thinking about omg what if they think what if she thinks what if he thinks what if what if what if

i go into it and "be myself" although I do put the cynical crank in the back seat and let mr. positive drive it's been working out

although i do think the cynical crank is more my "true" personality

i'm listening to swans atm

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