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rottenugly 01-03-2012 05:56 PM

Does anybody else get a runny nose when they cry?
 
It's like I can't cry anymore, snot water goes everywhere

rottenugly 01-03-2012 06:00 PM

Inb4 I'm suddenly a pussy because I cry.

Sometimes you just break down.

Duke1497 01-03-2012 06:03 PM

Yeah, I do.

Duke1497 01-03-2012 06:04 PM

It's like then someone comes and comforts me, then I feel weird because then I'm bawling my eyes out to someone as I have snot coming out of my nose

rottenugly 01-03-2012 06:05 PM

I don't understand why this thread got a one star.

shits serious i cry sometimes.

Toby 01-03-2012 06:05 PM

i cry all the time

Duke1497 01-03-2012 06:06 PM

I don't cry a whole lot
But whenever my depression gets pretty bad, I do

rottenugly 01-03-2012 06:08 PM

I have seen peace. I have seen pain,
Resting on the shoulders of your name.
Do you see the truth through all their lies?
Do you see the world through troubled eyes?
And if you want to talk about it anymore,
Lie here on the floor and cry on my shoulder,
I'm a friend.

I have seen birth. I have seen death.
Lived to see a lover's final breath.
Do you see my guilt? Should I feel a fright?
Is the fire of hesitation burning bright?
And if you want to talk about it once again,
On you I depend. I'll cry on your shoulder.
You're a friend.

You and I have lived through many things.
I'll hold on to your heart.
I wouldn't cry for anything,
But don't go tearing your life apart.

I have seen fear. I have seen faith.
Seen the look of anger on your face.
And if you want to talk about what will be,
Come and sit with me, and cry on my shoulder,
I'm a friend.
And if you want to talk about it anymore,
Lie here on the floor and cry on my shoulder,
Once again.
Cry on my shoulder,
I'm a friend.

Duke1497 01-03-2012 06:09 PM

Whered you find that

rottenugly 01-03-2012 06:11 PM

james blunt fan :(

Toby 01-03-2012 06:12 PM

john mayer > james blunt

rottenugly 01-03-2012 06:16 PM

fucking depression man

Duke1497 01-03-2012 06:27 PM

Yep...
Depression is not a fun thing

cocksure 01-03-2012 06:28 PM

quit it

rottenugly 01-03-2012 06:32 PM

i'm trying

teh b0lly!!1 01-03-2012 06:43 PM

i'm crying

bahnzah 01-03-2012 06:51 PM

JOHN ******, the original lothario, doesn't cry. He's a man.

reprise85 01-03-2012 06:52 PM

yeah, when it's one of those like hysterical overwhelming cries... i also shake and stutter when that happens in therapy. it's the worst feeling and best feeling in the world all at once.

Toby 01-03-2012 06:59 PM

Last time I cried was last week when my then "girlfriend" called me up and said "we need to talk." She gave me a bunch of stupid reasons, said it wasn't my fault, but she met somebody new. UGH!

So I started crying and she is all like "don't get upset, don't second guess everything." Which just made me even more upset and the bitch had the nerve to tell me that she never meant to hurt no one and the only way my heart will mend is when I learn to "love again." SRLSY?!?!

She then goes on to tell me that it won't make sense right now but she'll still be my friend! WTF!! :erm: :erm:

reprise85 01-03-2012 07:03 PM

She has no social graces apparently.

I absolutely hate when people say or do things that normally incur big reactions and then they try to tell you not to feel that way or 'oh no is it because of this?' blah blah... i do it too but god is it annoying.

how long were you dating? sorry this happened, but at least you aren't wasting more time with this chick

great poster 01-03-2012 07:08 PM

i haven't cried since i was 15. or at least it seems that way.

great poster 01-03-2012 07:10 PM

i don't wan't to seem like a hardass by saying that, it's just that i keep social interaction at a minimum now.

redbreegull 01-03-2012 07:12 PM

usually the only thing that can bring on tears for me is a really emotional scene in a movie or if I am feeling sad and listening to sad music... and even then it's only a tear or two. for some reason I find it almost impossible to cry at real things

redbreegull 01-03-2012 07:12 PM

oh the point of that was that my nose doesn't run when I cry

rottenugly 01-03-2012 07:13 PM

You know I never used to cry when I was a kid, very quiet, I have cried at least six times in the past seven months.

reprise85 01-03-2012 07:16 PM

crying is normal, guys

it really is

i repress my emotions usually and i'm very good at it so when they do come out they overwhelm me sometimes thus the sobbing/shaking, i have a lot to grieve over i suppose and it's pretty overwhelming especially stuff involving my family and sexual abuse and blah blah blah. but i'm starting to learn how to feel emotions and regulate them like normal people so there is hope

Dogfighter28 01-03-2012 07:32 PM

i havent cried since my first gf cut her phone off and ignored me for a week while hanging out with a potential suitor in the summer of 07

SuckSuckStyle 01-03-2012 08:40 PM

yeah dude my nose is a fucking faucet when I cry. It's ridiculous.

I cried a lot when I was a kid/teenager. A LOT. nobody knew why. not even me. even when i had a reason, i was over the top. just super sensitive.

honestly, my crying has decreased about 70% since I started hormones. I still feel, I'm just way more stoic when it comes time to cry. I think it's because when I do cry, I want to cry to someone, instead of cry alone, which is what i used to do. So when I cry, I feel like I have to have a really good reason so I can feel justified asking for a shoulder, and not feel weak.

it's weird, now that I think about it.

other than my 5150 stint(s) this summer, I think I cried maybe 5 times in 2011. 4/5 times were crying to my dad.

i'm getting choked up thinking about saying goodbye to my dad when I leave this year. It's tricky because I want to make sure to give him the biggest hug in the world, and we both have one of those 2 minute silent cries into eachothers shoulders/hug really tight, and then straighten up, tighten our jaws to say goodbye. and i want to tell him thank you a million times for everything he's ever done for me and i'm only ever able to say "thanks, dad", to which he replies "not a problem at all; it's my pleasure". And then I feel even worse because I look back and see this 65 year old long grey haired hippie standing in an airport with tears streaming down his face. Then I say I love you and that's when he breaks. He says it back but the words don't really come out and my mom tries to pull him out but he doesn't leave until i'm out of sight.

He's my best friend in the entire world.

Duke1497 01-03-2012 08:40 PM

I haven't cried in a while either

Duke1497 01-03-2012 08:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SuckSuckStyle (Post 3812299)
yeah dude my nose is a fucking faucet when I cry. It's ridiculous.

I cried a lot when I was a kid/teenager. A LOT. nobody knew why. not even me. even when i had a reason, i was over the top. just super sensitive.

honestly, my crying has decreased about 70% since I started hormones. I still feel, I'm just way more stoic when it comes time to cry. I think it's because when I do cry, I want to cry to someone, instead of cry alone, which is what i used to do. So when I cry, I feel like I have to have a really good reason so I can feel justified asking for a shoulder, and not feel weak.

it's weird, now that I think about it.

other than my 5150 stint(s) this summer, I think I cried maybe 5 times in 2011. 4/5 times were crying to my dad.

i'm getting choked up thinking about saying goodbye to my dad when I leave this year. It's tricky because I want to make sure to give him the biggest hug in the world, and we both have one of those 2 minute silent cries into eachothers shoulders/hug really tight, and then straighten up, tighten our jaws to say goodbye. and i want to tell him thank you a million times for everything he's ever done for me and i'm only ever able to say "thanks, dad", to which he replies "not a problem at all; it's my pleasure". And then I feel even worse because I look back and see this 65 year old long grey haired hippie standing in an airport with tears streaming down his face. Then I say I love you and that's when he breaks. He says it back but the words don't really come out and my mom tries to pull him out but he doesn't leave until i'm out of sight.

He's my best friend in the entire world.

God I miss my Dad so much....

It makes me want to cry...

But I never can

SuckSuckStyle 01-03-2012 08:49 PM

Right?

When I was in NZ I met this Dutch kid my age who was with his dad. He had basically been doing the same thing I had, but was out of cash and wrote home: "send money. and dad." so his dad hopped on a plane, flew down, and they did it together. I never missed my dad like I did when I was with them.

They were really cool, too. We met in the backwoods and spent 3 hours building a fire after 24hours of rain. Successfully! we were able to cook chicken over it!

Duke1497 01-03-2012 08:51 PM

Cool!
I've always wanted to go to NZ

Dead Frequency 01-03-2012 08:59 PM

I cried last week because they tricked earnest into talking grampa into selling camp kikakee and the troubled inner city youth was going to have to go back to juvy.

SuckSuckStyle 01-03-2012 09:02 PM

if you ever get the chance, i highly recommend it.

I might go back soon.

Duke1497 01-03-2012 09:04 PM

I will.
I'm going to Italy and Sicily soon
I can't wait

reprise85 01-03-2012 09:04 PM

i cried um
i think last tuesday
in therapy

i don't really cry outside of therapy. fear of exposure. feels unsafe. it's okay in the office. once in a while i sort of cry but it's more like making weird primal guttural noises in place of actual tears or any kind of actual release of emotion. and i get sad thinking about my grandmother who passed away in march and tear up once in a while.

i'd say i cry about once every two weeks right now, it really does feel good eventually. i cried for about 30 seconds after i ran away from my car that was on fire but it was more like a why me pity cry and then i got over it

Duke1497 01-03-2012 09:05 PM

Aw, sorry about your grandmother

reprise85 01-03-2012 09:08 PM

thanks, it's alright she was 88 and she had a good death if you know what i mean - was her time. i lived with her for two years up until about five weeks before she died when she was in hospice. :)

SuckSuckStyle 01-03-2012 09:09 PM

aw I'm sorry, too. But glad it was a peaceful end.

Duke1497 01-03-2012 09:14 PM

Yeah.
At least it was peaceful
Unlike the death of my father...


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