do you ever watch porn with your significant other?
 

j/w

yeah

wanna psychoanalyze that fact

No, but we film porn together.

No. I don't watch porn. And after the numerous hussy fits i've thrown, he doesn't either.....apparently. I think actually he doesn't any more, but then he may also have found a way to convincingly lie to my face and feel no guilt about it afterwards. You can't really ever tell, for sure.

I always get my way when I throw a hussy fit

Once.

Wow you got issues.

seriously

I love 80s porn. Plot is important.

.

yeah couple of times. nbd

Why don't you "let him" watch porn?

Insecurities will do it. Also having a dad that compulsively looks at porn while you decorate your Christmas tree as a kid will do it.

wait guys gossamer is on the case

vixnix is insecure and crazy and must be psychoanalyzed by a stranger on the internet

that's not a porn problem it's a being a dumb asshole problem if some guy lets his kids know he's consuming porn instead of spending time with them

maybe he should make a porn of his kids and things will cancel each other out

nvm

i have - but not to be sexy or anything. knifeshow and i would watch her dad's 80s porn collection sometimes.

been doing this for over a decade. nbd.

Yeah I have trust issues. And I don't like porn because I'm insecure. I can live with it.

It's not that I don't let him watch porn. It just really upsets me that he does. So he's stopped. Or, as I said, he's started lying about it.

people are allowed to make their own rules for their own relationships, but you should probably realize that this is your problem and not his and adjust expectations accordingly

i can tell you this because i am a licensed psychotherapist

trust me.

i agree with eulogy because i am a freelance gynecologist.

Well really, if you don't know, then it's just as well.

It is my issue but it's not uncommon for housewives with young children to be upset by it. I don't feel lonely having that expectation.

i mean. If dad is in the room with you like 7 ft away does it make it a porn problem

man who really cares

no

i mean he apparently had a porn problem. but it was caused by him being an asshole, not by the porn.

so it's ok since there are so many other people who are crazy/wrong about it

this is an interesting view to take

god shut the fuck up:erm:

I don't think they're wrong/crazy. They have particular issues...you know, everyone does. In relationships you usually learn to compromise. Well unless you're trashy and live in the U.S. And then you just watch porn and get divorced and go have more children with some other person.