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sickbadthing 12-06-2007 03:37 PM

I don't know. I'm hedging my bets on someone or multiple people in jail over this.

Trotskilicious 12-06-2007 03:40 PM

I think he should fight her dad.

Trotskilicious 12-06-2007 03:40 PM

"THIS IS MY HOUSE YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!"

bardy 12-06-2007 03:40 PM

toby out of respect of the grief you are feelign now you are never allowed to make jokes about this

Toby 12-06-2007 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AndySlash
Don't be intimidated, dude. You have just as much right to be there as she does. The co-sign doesn't mean shit other than that responsibility would fall to them if you two failed to keep up rent payments. Do not let them bully you.

You should have told him that if he did that, you'd call the police on him for trespassing.

yeah, mike is telling me I should get a restraining order on her dad so if he does come to throw my shit out I can throw him in jail, but I just don't want to go down that route....I didn't want things to end this way, but I can say with a clear conscience that this is all her fault.

I've been trying to reach the landlord all day, but no luck so I talked with thier secretary or whatever and she basically said her parents don't have any say in the deal. So I'm waiting on a call from them to maybe straighten things out.

Toby 12-06-2007 03:49 PM

I don't plan on going anywhere, I am not going to let her get what she wants because she is a fucking child and thats how its always been. She is going to learn a small lesson from all this.

Eulogy 12-06-2007 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toby
I don't plan on going anywhere, I am not going to let her get what she wants because she is a fucking child and thats how its always been. She is going to learn a small lesson from all this.

good to hear.

waltermcphilp 12-06-2007 03:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toby
She is going to learn a small lesson from all this.

read you loud and clear.

Toby 12-06-2007 04:11 PM

Matter of fact I am going to get the rent money and go wait for the landlords to show up and get a reciept so that I have every right to stay through the end of the month.

I am not going to just up and leave because that is what she wants.

I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 04:11 PM

progress!

sppunk 12-06-2007 04:27 PM

Toby, also - get receipts for every month's rent you have paid or copies of your bank account showing the money transaction (copies of check work, too).

I hope you haven't been paying rent in cash ... that's a bad move and in this case no one can prove you've been paying.

Trotskilicious 12-06-2007 04:30 PM

i don't think many places accept cash

Skradgee 12-06-2007 04:30 PM

Yooo can do eet! Go Toby go!

Trotskilicious 12-06-2007 04:32 PM

I'm glad to be wrong.

Quiet CD 12-06-2007 04:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sppunk
Toby, also - get receipts for every month's rent you have paid or copies of your bank account showing the money transaction (copies of check work, too).

I hope you haven't been paying rent in cash ... that's a bad move and in this case no one can prove you've been paying.

All good advice, even if you did pay in cash, hopefully you can pull some bank records showing the activity of pulling out cash around the rent payment date. You have every right to stay there, I'd say even more so than her because you've been paying rent.

Protect yourself first Toby, I'd say go ahead and get the restraining order just in case. You've already seemingly been through a lot of bullshit regarding this situation, do not leave yourself open for any more of it.

Quiet CD 12-06-2007 04:55 PM

Also you should be able to look up the Landlord / Tenants laws for you State / County online... just use-a-da Google.

waltermcphilp 12-06-2007 05:05 PM

buy a bullet and rent a gun.

Ol' Couch Ass 12-06-2007 05:07 PM

Let me be the first to say that if you ever took any candid photographs or videos of your ex this would be an opportune time to post them on Netphoria.

monkeyfritters 12-06-2007 05:07 PM

hell yeah toby!

kiley wont be so smiley when she's out in the cold.

monkeyfritters 12-06-2007 05:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ol' Couch Ass
Let me be the first to say that if you ever took any candid photographs or videos of your ex this would be an opportune time to post them on Netphoria.

nowadays the thing to do is post sex vids of the ex on youtube/youporn.

TuralyonW3 12-06-2007 05:08 PM

my observations.

1. my deep inner misogyny is fuled by this thread

2. this girl sounds like a stupid hick slut, and her dad sounds like a stupid hick asshole, and it's a good thing ya'll aren't gettng married.

3. what did you really do to piss her off Toby? Lie about going to a strip club and then call her a retard? fess up

monkeyfritters 12-06-2007 05:10 PM

also toby, you better gather up anything you have of value in your apartment asap. these vindictive hicks will pawn/steal/destroy.

Ol' Couch Ass 12-06-2007 05:11 PM

I'm glad to see Tobes is sacking up. Fuck that bitch and fuck her dad for trying to push him out.

Trotskilicious 12-06-2007 05:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TuralyonW3
3. what did you really do to piss her off Toby? Lie about going to a strip club and then call her a retard? fess up

^

AnnMarie727 12-06-2007 06:08 PM

yeah but can you stay somewhere else? because i would say only stay there if you really have to. her and her dad sound are being a bit loony balloony. and it's only for the sake of one month that you'd be fighting for. sometimes it's better to just walk away and let the loons be free and clear out of your life.
but, if you have to stay there than i'd say sppunk is right. if your name is on the lease they cant make you leave. the co sign thing is just financial responsibility.
God is probably saving you from being married from someone that's not right for you. a blessing in disguise.
Save yourself!

Elvis The Fat Years 12-06-2007 06:22 PM

you're the loon, you crazy bitch.

Toby 12-06-2007 07:50 PM

Well I paid the rent for this month and the secretary called one of them up and explained the sitch and she said she would have to consult her husband and they would get back with me.

I have been paying with money orders and they make a copy of the MO and the reciept in the office so there is plenty of paper trail here.

Toby 12-06-2007 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trotskilicious
^

I don't know what I did this time...I think it is just a culmination of everything and my mom thinks she flipped because of the diet pills she has been taking...so who knows. Basically she feels that I treat her wrong and she doesn't deserve that and won't be treated like that.

She is just a polly prissy pants and thats where this whole house things is coming from. She wants this and she is going to get her way because daddy loves me. :rolleyes:

AndySlash 12-06-2007 08:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toby
Well I paid the rent for this month and the secretary called one of them up and explained the sitch and she said she would have to consult her husband and they would get back with me

I really hope you just fucked up their selfish plans. Fuck 'em.

I still can't believe she wont talk to you. It's not like you hit her or anything remotely close to that.

Toby 12-06-2007 08:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AndySlash
I really hope you just fucked up their selfish plans. Fuck 'em.

I still can't believe she wont talk to you. It's not like you hit her or anything remotely close to that.

Me too. She had text me this morning that she was going to collect half the rent from me and pay it tomorrow so I figured I might as well pay it while I have the upper hand. The secretary told me that if they tried to come in with a check tomorrow she'd tell them that the rent has already been paid and refuse it.


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