5 months and counting.

I've only gone to the bar twice since Sunday.

i hate it when dean makes me look like a jackass

THIS THREAD IS ABOUT TOBY!

you kind of are a jackass

this thread is about toby

sure sounds like it, what with your tirade in this thread and all

I'm not so sure of that anymore

im still hurt by im hardcore's nasty comments earlier

perhaps a pm would be proper

hey, i didnt start this one

yes you did! you and your constant pub sex. perv.

TOBY! THIS ABOUT THREAD IS

one of my new years resolutions is goign to be to go to bars and pubs

you're going to hate it if you're serious

god netphoria sucks so much sometimes.

this is my opinion

if you are both on the lease you both have equal claim to living there.

she cannot make you leave. (unless she has a restraining order on you or something- in which case it's in your best interest to leave)

it's your fault that you pay all the bills. she wins here.

if she has a problem she is free to go. dont let her push you around

even if you agreed to leave, its unreasonable of her to expect you to just up and go without at least 2 weeks notice.

if i were you i'd try not to let her get under your skin. stick out your stay until the end of the lease (you said it was only a month). during this time period make arrangements for yourself for a new place. if she's an absolute loon maybe you have to stay with a friend or family member until you get sorted

i dont know the whole story though.

but you never let a girl move in with you that can't take care of her own self!

if it's a baby, is it okay to let a baby girl move into your house if she can't take care of herself?

if you are assuming responsibility as the guarding or parent for a baby and you can care for one then that's your choice.

but gf's or bf's that are total sponges are really bad news

hmm i didn't think of it like that before. good point

A whole new world. A new exciting point of view. *woosh*

*woooooosh*

^ More realistic.

I talked to her dad this morning and he said that they co-signed on the place for "US" and that I needed to leave and he didn't care if he had to come over and throw my stuff on the lawn.

I'm getting ready to go up to the landlords office because I obviously have some rights here, but they are trying to tell me I have none.

This sucks so bad because I didn't want things to get ugly, I wanted to do things in a civil manner, but I guess thats not how they roll.

:(

Don't be intimidated, dude. You have just as much right to be there as she does. The co-sign doesn't mean shit other than that responsibility would fall to them if you two failed to keep up rent payments. Do not let them bully you.

You should have told him that if he did that, you'd call the police on him for trespassing.

sort of say weakly "no i don't want you to do that". then he says "fuck you" and does it anyway. at the same time, you've recorded the conversation and can now use it as evidence that you didn't want him to be on the property.

Well put A\.

This is why you should never, ever, ever co-sign a lease with a significant other until you are married.

The courts in this country don't have any real provisions for your situation, and it's basically a free-for-all. Get a restrainer order from her father, and you can stay in that house until the lease expires so long you are a co-signer and your name is on the lease itself.

Pretty much what the last few posts have said, don't let her force you out of a house that is as much yours as it is hers. She didn't pay for shit, dumped you in a pretty shitty manner and does not even have the decency to come and tell you to get out herself. You do not owe her shit. I know you might still feel something for her but if you cave now in a few months you will be kicking yourself for letting her have her way.

you know what's going to happen is that toby will ignore all this advice from netphoria and move out of the house because his ex's dad told him to.