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FashoKyg 12-06-2007 01:53 AM

id just gtfo asap and cut ur losses

Toby 12-06-2007 01:55 AM

I deleted her comment, but the words burn in my head so I'll post them at the bottom

Quote:


it’s over
Current mood: distraught

Kiley called off the wedding on Saturday. I've spent the last 24 hours crying uncontrollably...I can't believe it is over, so much has been invested over the last 2 years and to have it all taken away from you in the blink of an eye hurts more than some of you will ever know.

I feel like I was given up on, but I'll never know the truth; she won't talk to me. She sent her dad up to my job to tell me to quit calling and to be out of the house by the 15th. Sucks for me since I don't have family to run to and I'm the one that gets put out.

I just wasn't worth it, I wasn't worth fighting for; I'm worthless.

Why did you give up on me? We could have worked this out, but I guess you didn't love me as much as you said you did.

I've hurt pretty bad in the past, but this takes the cake.

I'm sorry for any of you that wasted money on coming to see us get married or bought us a gift already
Kiley: you are such a lying piece of shit. I no longer pity you anymore.

FashoKyg 12-06-2007 02:00 AM

edit - see the blog post now


mood: sad :(

Toby 12-06-2007 02:00 AM

and its not like i dont know what I did because I know. I was drunk and called her a retard and that was just it. She was tired of being talked down to and felt like things would never change. thats why i feel like she just gave up

its not like i was like that all the time, I mean the whole being drunk and being mean probably happened a handful of times but according to her "one to many"

Fattening Ass 12-06-2007 02:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toby
so as some of you may or may not know me and kiley have split and she wants me to vacate the house.

I feel that I shouldn't have to leave since I have paid every house note, paid the security deposit, application fee, etc.

On the lease both of us are listed as tenants and her mom is listed only as a co-signer....am I right to be the one to ask her to leave? I mean she doesn't work and there only is another month left on this lease anyway.

I just really don't know what to do, I don't have the time to find another place and paying for here and deposits etc for a new place would just put me in a rock and a hard place.

She has friends and family here and I don't so it's only fair I think, but I fear this is going to turn into something childish and nasty which I really want to avoid. Any advice would be most helpful.

thanks in advance,

good ole uncle tobes

Stay. You have 1 month left and are named in the lease, so you can rightfully stay there. You will need as much time as possible to find a new place, so staying until the lease is up is a smart idea. Make sure that if you do not plan to extend your lease, you are the one to get your deposit back, NOT her. Should you plan to continue your stay, obviously you will need to write up a new contract without her. I think its best for you to pay rent and stay until the lease is up, but ultimately move elsewhere. If she actually wants to stay at the place, it might be more trouble than its worth to fight for it. the extra month there gives you more time to save $. If you need or want to talk, AIM me. I know i haven't talked to you in a long while, but you can hit me up anytime.

Ol' Couch Ass 12-06-2007 02:01 AM

Jesus. What lie is she talking about? Did you swear to her that you preferred wet dog food to dry the day before the Walmart incident? Fuck man the whole situation is deplorable and I'm sorry for it.

KrazeeStacee 12-06-2007 02:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fattening Ass
Stay. You have 1 month left and are named in the lease, so you can rightfully stay there. You will need as much time as possible to find a new place, so staying until the lease is up is a smart idea. Make sure that if you do not plan to extend your lease, you are the one to get your deposit back, NOT her. Should you plan to continue your stay, obviously you will need to write up a new contract without her. I think its best for you to pay rent and stay until the lease is up, but ultimately move elsewhere. If she actually wants to stay at the place, it might be more trouble than its worth to fight for it. the extra month there gives you more time to save $. If you need or want to talk, AIM me. I know i haven't talked to you in a long while, but you can hit me up anytime.

This is a smart idea. As for the deposit, it'll be made out to whoever wrote the check, assuming you had a check.

Luke de Spa 12-06-2007 02:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Toby
I deleted her comment, but the words burn in my head so I'll post them at the bottom



Kiley: you are such a lying piece of shit. I no longer pity you anymore.

What kind of necro do you roll? Bone? Summon?

dean_r_koontz 12-06-2007 02:40 AM

you mean boner. and there's nothing funny about that name

Fattening Ass 12-06-2007 02:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KrazeeStacee
This is a smart idea. As for the deposit, it'll be made out to whoever wrote the check, assuming you had a check.

good point, im willing to bet he paid.

Shapan 12-06-2007 02:46 AM

while you should stay because of paying for everything, maybe you should think about leaving so you dont have to deal with reminders of that bitch

I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 02:47 AM

Shapan you have no game, man

dean_r_koontz 12-06-2007 02:48 AM

is the main point of posting to brag about your pub life i'm hardcore?

dean_r_koontz 12-06-2007 02:48 AM

duovamp and i'm hardcore gets laid in pubs: we get it. now stop posting both of you.

I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 02:50 AM

duovamp got laid in a pub?

benjamin619 12-06-2007 02:50 AM

Is posting a simple distraction from the lonely and unfulfilled life you lead, Koontz?

I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 02:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz
is the main point of posting to brag about your pub life i'm hardcore?

no not really, your friend Yo Soy hits the nightlife far more frequently than I

Shapan 12-06-2007 02:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by I'm Hardcore
Shapan you have no game, man

ugh you little bitch

where are you now?

dean_r_koontz 12-06-2007 02:53 AM

and benjamin gets laid in pubs as well. good. could someone sticky a thread with that content? i'm hardcore : i get laid in pubs
duovamp: i get laid in pubs
benjamin: i get laid in pubs

done.

I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 02:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz
and benjamin gets laid in pubs as well. good. could someone sticky a thread with that content? i'm hardcore : i get laid in pubs
duovamp: i get laid in pubs
benjamin: i get laid in pubs

done.

why do you have to belittle yourself by posting shit like this?

dean_r_koontz 12-06-2007 02:56 AM

gettin' it on in the pubs

I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 02:56 AM

the only conclusion i can come to is that you're jealous; im having fun, and you're....Swedish

I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 02:57 AM

i already told you - i didnt get laid in the pub. i never have. how hard is this to understand?

dean_r_koontz 12-06-2007 02:59 AM

people get laid in pubs all the time. i'm not one of them. i'd rather read about someone being insane or being left by their girlfriends than that stuff. it's just blatant annoying self promotion and it makes me jealous because i've never been able to stand pubs or the people who frequent them. stop posting boring shit. do you have any diseases, problems, anything you'd like to share? something mildly interesting?

I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 02:59 AM

oh hi Shapan, im in North Texas. Gettin it on in the pubs, would you believe

dean_r_koontz 12-06-2007 03:00 AM

nooo let's hear more about i'm hardcores, benjamin430s and duovamps amazing sex lives.

AndySlash 12-06-2007 03:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by avian chaos
THIS THREAD IS ABOUT TOBY!


I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 03:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz
people get laid in pubs all the time. i'm not one of them. i'd rather read about someone being insane or being left by their girlfriends than that stuff. it's just blatant annoying self promotion and it makes me jealous because i've never been able to stand pubs or the people who frequent them. stop posting boring shit. do you have any diseases, problems, anything you'd like to share? something mildly interesting?

i went to TWO pubs. TWO. both in the same night. My birthday, my 21st birthday in fact. Self-promotion? Am i supposed to post pictures of ducks?

I'm Hardcore 12-06-2007 03:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dean_r_koontz
nooo let's hear more about i'm hardcores, benjamin430s and duovamps amazing sex lives.

lets hear about yours. you probably masturbate as much as i do

dean_r_koontz 12-06-2007 03:03 AM

i haven't had sex in years


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