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Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 02:30 PM

I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me....
 
I have been seeing this girl for 3 years now. Her name is Ann. I met Ann while I was working in a local record store. We had some small talk and found that we liked a lot of the same music and ended up dating. Forward a year and she moved in with me.

So for the past two years we have been sharing a computer and recently I have noticed that she's staying up late and supossedly doing "homework". I've gotten out of bed a few times to go pee and get some water and she gets so guarded around the computer... and I see her on AIM. Then she has been doing "special projects" for one of her classes and she's staying after school. I'm sitting at home most nights out of the week and I can't get ahold of her because she always has her cell phone off. I have asked her to leave it on but she says she always forgets. She never forgets when her friends want to get ahold of her. She says that she's going to the library (on campus) but I don't think she's really there.

Should I follow her one night? Should I try to snoop into her email? I don't want to make her mad at me but I don't think something is right here.

Opinions are appreciated.

obscured01 07-05-2002 02:36 PM

I would just ask her flat out "Are you cheating on me?" Then if she asks why, tell her why you think she is. Of course, this would depend on what type of a relationship you two have... but if you asked her, maybe she'd tell you what was going on.. if she cares anything about the relationship.



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bittertrance 07-05-2002 02:43 PM

smell her breath when she gets back

Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 02:45 PM

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Originally posted by bittertrance:
smell her breath when she gets back

I think I know what you're saying but that won't happen because we both happen to find sodomy morally offensive.

Guen 07-05-2002 02:46 PM

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Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:
I think I know what you're saying but that won't happen because we both happen to find sodomy morally offensive.

what???

sawdust restaurants 07-05-2002 02:48 PM

"I don't think something is right here."

Let's see: she's guarded around her instant messages, she never gets ahold of you but always gets ahold of her friends, she'll go off for hours at a time and not tell you where she is ...

Yep, everything seems hunky-dory.

You're probably not a stupid person considering you have the mental capacity to write in fluent English, so stop acting stupid, take charge of your situation, ask her what's up, and--well, I hate to put it this way, but be prepared for whatever she's going to say. Doesn't sound like homegirl's very interested anymore, does it?

Sorry to be so forthright, but if she's supposed to be your best friend (or at least one of them) and she's treating you like this, you have every right to know what's going on, but you can't expect it to be peaches and cream.

MisterSquishyHalo 07-05-2002 02:50 PM

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Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:
This might be the reason why heh.


Affectation 07-05-2002 02:50 PM

Must be an A-rab. Head = Sodomy.

Keep telling yourself that she doesn't believe in sodomy.

Talk to her about everything. Let her know how you feel in a non accusatory way.

Orchestra 07-05-2002 02:51 PM

Old School magic the gathering rox

Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 02:52 PM

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Originally posted by sawdust restaurants:
"I don't think something is right here."

Let's see: she's guarded around her instant messages, she never gets ahold of you but always gets ahold of her friends, she'll go off for hours at a time and not tell you where she is ...

Yep, everything seems hunky-dory.

You're probably not a stupid person considering you have the mental capacity to write in fluent English, so stop acting stupid, take charge of your situation, ask her what's up, and--well, I hate to put it this way, but be prepared for whatever she's going to say. Doesn't sound like homegirl's very interested anymore, does it?

Sorry to be so forthright, but if she's supposed to be your best friend (or at least one of them) and she's treating you like this, you have every right to know what's going on, but you can't expect it to be peaches and cream.

I feel that if I have to confront her that I must present some kind of evidence... otherwise it seems like I'm making something out of nothing. It is true that I have questioned her, but she always has (what I may think is) an excuse. I'm getting to the point where I may spend some money for a private detective. We are engaged and are supposed to marry next spring. I don't know if that's going to be the case now though.

Affectation 07-05-2002 02:54 PM

Bitches ain't shit...

funnygeezus 07-05-2002 02:59 PM

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Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:
I think I know what you're saying but that won't happen because we both happen to find sodomy morally offensive.

so you're convinced that she believes head is morally offensive, but you can't be sure that she's not cheating on you? man, you've got this girl pinned down.

Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 03:04 PM

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Originally posted by funnygeezus:
so you're convinced that she believes head is morally offensive, but you can't be sure that she's not cheating on you? man, you've got this girl pinned down.


I don't know for sure that she's cheating on me. I have circumstantial evidence. Sodomy on the other hand is something that we both have no interest in because we have no desire to go to hell after we die. Why go to hell for a few minutes of pleasure?

MonteLDS 07-05-2002 03:05 PM

communcation is the key to any relationship.

u can either
A) Ask her flat our

B) Snoop Around to find out A) she is really doing what she says B) She is cheating or C) She catches you and things go bad due to lack of trust

C) You just let it eat you from the inside and see what happens in 2 months

Guen 07-05-2002 03:06 PM

oh deary me...oh deary, deary me...

funnygeezus 07-05-2002 03:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:
I don't know for sure that she's cheating on me. I have circumstantial evidence. Sodomy on the other hand is something that we both have no interest in because we have no desire to go to hell after we die. Why go to hell for a few minutes of pleasure?

now i'm almost sure you're a troll. but for kicks, i'll continue:

hey, head isn't on the big g's top 10 list, adultery is. just out of curiosity, what major religous organization do you give money to each week?

Affectation 07-05-2002 03:11 PM

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Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:


Sodomy on the other hand is something that we both have no interest in because we have no desire to go to hell after we die. Why go to hell for a few minutes of pleasure?

Um...because hell doesn't exist. The Roman Gods weren't real. The Egyptian Gods weren't real. And your Christian God isn't real.


Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 03:19 PM

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Originally posted by funnygeezus:
now i'm almost sure you're a troll. but for kicks, i'll continue:

hey, head isn't on the big g's top 10 list, adultery is. just out of curiosity, what major religous organization do you give money to each week?



I'm a Baptist.

bittertrance 07-05-2002 03:31 PM

isnt that card game considered satanic?

Orchestra 07-05-2002 03:37 PM

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Originally posted by bittertrance:
isnt that card game considered satanic?

I wish

funnygeezus 07-05-2002 03:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by bittertrance:
isnt that card game considered satanic?

i dunno about other people who play, but personally i consider the baron sengir my lord and savior.

Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 03:42 PM

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Originally posted by bittertrance:
isnt that card game considered satanic?

Nope. Only Dungeons and Dragons, and that's only if you're using the Advanced D & D monster guide. Also, you can use 10 sided die, but the 20 sided die is off limits. It has to do with numerology. Satanists use numbers for contacting demons. Multisided die are one of the ways of doing this. You wouldn't be able to get me within 10 feet of a 20 sided die if my life depended on it. I have no desire to be taken over by a demon.

Affectation 07-05-2002 03:46 PM

You are seriously an idiot.

melancholia 07-05-2002 03:47 PM

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Originally posted by obscured01:
I would just ask her flat out "Are you cheating on me?" Then if she asks why, tell her why you think she is. Of course, this would depend on what type of a relationship you two have... but if you asked her, maybe she'd tell you what was going on.. if she cares anything about the relationship.



when you do this though, be prepaired for the answer. i went through pretty much the same thing two years ago, and it still hurts.

funnygeezus 07-05-2002 03:47 PM

http://www.avalon.nf.ca/~rosemd/drink1a.JPG
this is a shot my basement after i had some friends (Orchestra included) over last summer. i believe the monstrous manual and several d20's are visible. oh well, demons and eventual hell for me, ROCK ON!

[This message has been edited by funnygeezus (edited 07-05-2002).]

Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 03:55 PM

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Originally posted by Affectation:
You are seriously an idiot.


You may say so, however I had a friend who played almost 10 years ago. Apparently his parents found him in his room late at night in a black cloak and had some candles lit with some incense burning. He was chanting things and when they tried to interrupt him, they felt a cold wind actually push them out of the room! They called the police but the police couldn't get in beacuse the door was blocked (by something). It wasn't until they called a priest that they were able to enter the room and he ended up expelling a demon from his body. His parents found the Advanced D & D monster manual and SEVERAL 20 sided die. Even after the kid had the demons taken out, he had problems at school and eventually had to be taken out and was sent to a mental hospital.

These things happen, but they're not talked about often. I am a believer and I best not mess with things that provoke demons.


Orchestra 07-05-2002 03:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:
Quote:

Originally posted by Affectation:
You are seriously an idiot.


You may say so, however I had a friend who played almost 10 years ago. Apparently his parents found him in his room late at night in a black cloak and had some candles lit with some incense burning. He was chanting things and when they tried to interrupt him, they felt a cold wind actually push them out of the room! They called the police but the police couldn't get in beacuse the door was blocked (by something). It wasn't until they called a priest that they were able to enter the room and he ended up expelling a demon from his body. His parents found the Advanced D & D monster manual and SEVERAL 20 sided die. Even after the kid had the demons taken out, he had problems at school and eventually had to be taken out and was sent to a mental hospital.

These things happen, but they're not talked about often. I am a believer and I best not mess with things that provoke demons.


Me and funny better get rid of our 20 SIDED DICE!!!!!
Or the cops might come with a priest you trolling mook

Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 04:00 PM

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Originally posted by Orchestra:
Me and funny better get rid of our 20 SIDED DICE!!!!!
Or the cops might come with a priest you trolling mook

Make fun of me or whatever. I'm not a troll.

Orchestra 07-05-2002 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by funnygeezus:
http://www.avalon.nf.ca/~rosemd/drink1a.JPG
this is a shot my basement after i had some friends (Orchestra included) over last summer. i believe the monstrous manual and several d20's are visible. oh well, demons and eventual hell for me, ROCK ON!

[This message has been edited by funnygeezus (edited 07-05-2002).]

The Cheezies and nintendo power really make me relieze how much of a loser I really am

bittertrance 07-05-2002 04:06 PM

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Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:
. I'm not a troll.


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Affectation 07-05-2002 04:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:


You may say so, however I had a friend who played almost 10 years ago. Apparently his parents found him in his room late at night in a black cloak and had some candles lit with some incense burning. He was chanting things and when they tried to interrupt him, they felt a cold wind actually push them out of the room! They called the police but the police couldn't get in beacuse the door was blocked (by something). It wasn't until they called a priest that they were able to enter the room and he ended up expelling a demon from his body. His parents found the Advanced D & D monster manual and SEVERAL 20 sided die. Even after the kid had the demons taken out, he had problems at school and eventually had to be taken out and was sent to a mental hospital.

These things happen, but they're not talked about often. I am a believer and I best not mess with things that provoke demons.


That is the weakest excuse ever.

DeviousJ 07-05-2002 04:20 PM

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Originally posted by bittertrance:

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Irrelevant 07-05-2002 04:21 PM

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Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:
Nope. Only Dungeons and Dragons, and that's only if you're using the Advanced D & D monster guide. Also, you can use 10 sided die, but the 20 sided die is off limits. It has to do with numerology. Satanists use numbers for contacting demons. Multisided die are one of the ways of doing this. You wouldn't be able to get me within 10 feet of a 20 sided die if my life depended on it. I have no desire to be taken over by a demon.

that's one of the dumbest things i've ever heard. i know tons of people who have played AD&D, including myself, and rolled shitloads of 20-sided dice, but i've yet to see a demonic possession result. if it really happened on a regular basis, i think there would be better evidence than a few anecdotal claims like yours, eh?

Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 04:23 PM

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Originally posted by Irrelevant:
that's one of the dumbest things i've ever heard. i know tons of people who have played AD&D, including myself, and rolled shitloads of 20-sided dice, but i've yet to see a demonic possession result. if it really happened on a regular basis, i think there would be better evidence than a few anecdotal claims like yours, eh?

The demons are obviously keeping you from using spell check.

Affectation 07-05-2002 04:24 PM

Very shitty trolling, yo.

Irrelevant 07-05-2002 04:24 PM

oh no, the baptist said the F word.

Orchestra 07-05-2002 04:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by funnygeezus:

this is a shot my basement after i had some friends (Orchestra included) over last summer. i believe the monstrous manual and several d20's are visible. oh well, demons and eventual hell for me, ROCK ON!

speaking of which
wanna incite some deamons this weekend Geezus?
we'll get abbott but no ford


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Magic the Gathering 07-05-2002 04:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Affectation:
Very shitty trolling, yo.


I suppose you can do better, yo?

I come in to a new place and all I try to do is share, contribute. Yet all of you are against me and make fun of my beliefs. You should all be ashamed (except for those who have actually cared enought to give me some advice. I wear my heart on my sleeve you see, and I have feelings just like the rest of you. It is a sad state of affairs when the only way you can communicate to me is in a negative fashion. I am truly hurt sir, and I pray for your soul.


funnygeezus 07-05-2002 04:42 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Orchestra:
speaking of which
wanna incite some deamons this weekend Geezus?
we'll get abbott but no ford



sure.

Orchestra 07-05-2002 04:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Magic the Gathering:
Quote:

Originally posted by Affectation:
Very shitty trolling, yo.


I suppose you can do better, yo?

I come in to a new place and all I try to do is share, contribute. Yet all of you are against me and make fun of my beliefs. You should all be ashamed (except for those who have actually cared enought to give me some advice. I wear my heart on my sleeve you see, and I have feelings just like the rest of you. It is a sad state of affairs when the only way you can communicate to me is in a negative fashion. I am truly hurt sir, and I pray for your soul.


Wheres that don't feed the trolls pic?...


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