the worst thing about being a girl
 

my guess would be guys looking at your b00bs. at least nasty(and i mean personality-wise) guys looking at your boobs. i mean, i know, first amendment and all, but still. like... when you walk by someone or something, or when someone walks by you and you see them looking at your boobs. ugh this is such a dumb post. but people are such jerks. like. are girls just as gross? i think we are. well i are. i mean. i look at other girls' butts. but i feel guilty about it at least jeez. like today i'm in school and i'm walking down the hall and this guy is walking towards me and this girl in front of me is turning a corner, and i see him turn around and check out her ass. lol. i didn't get to see it i wonder if it was special. n/m. it's just sometimes i'm very discouraged with people.

the school i go to is mostly guys. a bunch of people, mainly dudes, will be standing outside smoking cigarettes and whenever a girl walks by you see all their heads turn. it's funny.

jesus, I have never agreed with Suze so much in the history of my Netphorian membership

That's the worst thing about being a girl?
Christ.
Imagine being barely capable of *not* looking every time you see a girl with nice assets.

"Oh no all the boys will do whatever I want just because I have nice breasts and they can't control themselves. Darn!"

okay, see that is the typical male sexist take of the situation. you feel that a woman for some reason CHOOSES to have boobies. umm no. it's called biology or what have you. girls don't WANT guys looking at their boobs, it's NOT ugh. just ugh. it's called violation of personal space. jesus christ.

well most girls at least. there are always *those* girls lol.

yea that sounds a lot worse than bleeding from my private area a few days ever fucking month.

menstruation only sucks if you don't have bottles of ibuprofen handy

i mean rape sucks too but it's basically the same concept as the afore-mentioned thingy. just to a much more serious extent.

Boo fucking hoo.

not only girls get raped

sometimes i just hate the human race. but then i feel bad because to an extent, they can't help it. but they stretch that extent and use it as an excuse. so i'm going to shut the fuck up now because i'm not making sense. bye now.

Violation of personal space is when I break into you house and rape you. Or even just look at you in private. When you're not expecting to be looked at.
When you go out in "public" you're just that. In public where everyone can see you.

But why the hell do you take it as an insult? I mean if I went up and said you had a gorgeous face would you slap me? Now you might not be interested, but you'd not be terribly offended. (Unless you are a *really* stuck up bitch). So why is it any different with the rest of your body?

troo.

and that said there are a lot of nasty girls and guys who do the same thing to other males. i guess. i mean i dunno i'm nto a male but i watched a law and order episode about it. oh wait it was law an dorder svu u know

male rape n/m

so julez. where is you? where iz you? are u in the chat?

You're hanging around Kris too much.

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~*Sarah Kimberly*~

...and the tragic and
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Who cares. Go away.

The worst thing about being a girl is being intrinsically stuck up, if you ask me.

i'd have to say the menstruating would suck most. eeeeeeeeeew.

And I'd have to say I agree with you.

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~*Sarah Kimberly*~

...and the tragic and
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AIM: Gazing Iscariot

well because it's MY body and not yours. i mean i know that there's nothing you can DO about people checking you out and i guess it's inevitable if you go out in public, but that doesn't make it RIGHT or anything you shouldn't be bothered by. bleh.

i'll meet u in the chat

Okay. But why is it an insult? Why is it different from a compliment about your face? Why are you bothered by it. So far your only argument has been "ugh" and "bleh"

it's not much different from a compliment about one's face. if it's different it's 'cause, in our culture, the body is covered up and the face isn't, therefore it's more inappropriate to look at the body. duh.

julio come back i'm not being an airhead. this is a very feminist post. i'm a feminist. julio http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/frown.gif

and i never said ti was an insult i said it was a violation

Maybe we should all take a moment and listen to Madonna's, "What it feels like for a girl."

Good song, great video.

Suze, seriously, shut the fuck up.

So in other words the only reason you have for not liking it is because you've been trained to dislike it by your culture?

Well I'll tell you this guys stare because we've been trained to by thousands of years of evolution. And hormones that we *can't* turn off it's a biology thing (I'm sure you understand, it's not like we choose to have testosterone).
So fucking get over it.

worst thing? maternal instinct. i'm always doing shit like a mommy or something. why, why can't i stop!?!??!

Mommy!

oh, don't tell me guys can't HELP it when most guys DON'T do it. jeez. it's not like every fuckign time i walk past someone of the male persuasion someone looks at my boobs. so don't start wtih the "we can't help it" excuse.

and listen, maybe it IS cultural. i mean foreign people bathe naked but obviously don't mind. but here in america, you don't SHOW your boobs to other people, and other people don't LOOK at your boobs. it's personal conduct and it goes both ways.

yes, yes it is. http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/biggrin.gif

bathe meaning in public.

and ugh. julio you obviously want me to keep bothering you or you wouldn't be tellingme to shut up. what did i do? huh? i mentioned looking at people's butts? good god. you're so mean.

And we can help it most of the time. I mean I can't hardly look anyone in the eyes. But I don't look at their chest most of the time.

So you keep throwing around loaded words, and hoping I'll shut up? Good idea. (I keep having these damned class things to attend)

Personal conduct? So what: "We live in america, we've got a puritan heritage, so lets all think boobs are nasty horrible things that should be banned?" Well I don't accept that. I'm not a puritan, I don't have a problem with people showing or looking at breasts, and I don't think you've given a reason why I or anyone else should except that "everybody else here does"

That leads to objectifying women.

if a guy walks by with a bulge, do you look?

well I mean
you can't notice the bulge unless you LOOK

wouldn't usually notice, most people look at people's faces, not crotches.

and i'm with suze here, sure it's instinct and whatnot to look at girls chests and asses, but you're a fucking idiot if you use that as an excuse.

I'm a feminist [and a guy] and I don't feel like it's degrading to women to look at their bodies at all. I tell people [women, men] all the time that the female body is a great thing, nothing to be ashamed of or hidden.

It's when you have knuckleheads reading/drooling over women in magazines, lusting over a woman's body to the point where that's all they care about is their body, spouting crude remarks [secretly or in public] about women that degrade them to merely bodies, with no mind and no knowledge attached that it gets to the point when it should be unnacceptable.

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" Maybe I'll get myself into a coma. Spend my whole life dreaming.

The worst thing about being a girl is having to be associated with other girls (sometimes).
I go to this school in chicago (kenwood) and i always hear about "kenwood girls". I'm a minority in the school but whenever a guy asks me where I go to school he's like "oh, you're on of those KENWOOD girls...oh" I think girls get that more than guys do.