Should I get tested even though I'm a virgin?
 

Is there any point? Is there ANY possiblity that I have an STD?

not unless you stuck your cock in a big bucket of herpes or something

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depends what your defenition of virgin is

Well, I'm just saying. She's on birth control. I'm a virgin. Do I need a condom?

True story:

I know someone who was walking down the street in Chicago one night and some strange homeless person jumped in front of her and plunged a syringe into her arm, injecting her with God knows what. They he laughed maniacally and ran away.

If something like that happened to you, you should probably check.


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yes!

there's a very small precentage of girls who take thier birth control correctly. not matter what she says or you think you know, untill you know always have a condom

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do a donkey punch

Well, if he's thinking about STD's, that doesn't really matter - I mean, the Pill doesn't do anything for that, obviously.

I always go for the condoms, even though my girlfriend is on the pill; it just makes me feel safer, like I'm being pro-active or something. And it's double protection. . . you decrease your odds of accidental pregnancy from one in 1000 to one in 100,000 or so . . . and unless you're having a whole lotta sex, I like those odds.

Don't be an idiot, dude.

A few things to think about:

Just because you're a virgin, it doesn't mean that she is. The fact that she's on birth control should be a good sign to double-bag it.

Smoking can cause the pill to not work. Does she smoke?

How long has she been on the pill? They're supposed to take a full packet before having unprotected sex, so the pill's effects can kick in.

How well do you know this girl? She might have some sort of disease, or just be a slut and cheat on you (assuming that this isn't a fuck-buddy sort of relationship).



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nuh-uh, smoking gives her a higher chance of getting cancer while on the pill. doesn't effect the odds of getting preggers.

or gonnareah from a tractor

yes, wear the condom one way or the other.

a buddy of mine just had a scare where his girlfriend ran out of her birth control pills but didn't tell him. long story short, there was a pregnancy scare, he's 19, has a bright future, and is very anti-abortion. he almost killed himself

This just in: She's allergic to latex.

This just in: There are more types of condoms than those made out of latex.

Virgins.



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don't they have non laytex condoms?

well you can get condoms that have something different to latex...can't you?

how convenient.


dude. uh...there's too much to say here. about everything. i'll shut my yap.

Yeah, that'd be good.

yah but if u're hung anything over 5 inches, those non-latex condoms just don't come in your size. http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/tongue.gif



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i thought the fact that she's on birth control implied that she wasn't a virgin.

actually, if she's going out with you and you two haven't had sex yet, why is she on the pill? is she preparing?

and you don't really NEED to wear a condom if she's on the pill, but do it anyways. the pill prevents pregancy slightly less than a condom. most of them anyway. when my girlfriend is on the pill, we have sex without a condom on special occassions but not regularily.

and yes, there is a possibly you got an STD through non-sexually transmitted means. once again, chances are very low. but if you want to be 100% sure, get tested.

can the cheerleading start now?

DONT HAVE SEX TILL YOUR MARRIED. IM SERIOUS. IM NOT LYING.

if she's allergic to latex, saran wrap held on with an elastic band is the commonly accepted substitute.

Well...yeah. You should go for a condom. Even if she is on the pill, you don't know all of her history. And since she's on the pill, she's obviously been active before. Find some non-latex condoms (they're not hard to find) and stick with them for awhile. At least until you know that she's totally clean.

Mark Rosini's voice of reason has graced my thread. I feel blessed.

Part #2: How do I go about getting tested?

just make sure the elastic band isn't too tight

erm...go to the clinic and ask perhaps..?

Yeah...just about any clinic. Go in and tell them what you want to get tested for.

I have to say specifically what STD to get tested for? I can't get the sampler? Or the works?

a serious reply to johns post... what a concept.

Ok... std's aside pregnancy happens often on the pill, shot, whatever. I was with a girl who was a virgin... i had been with one other girl and had been tested since so i was like sweeeeeeeeeet sex4me with no condom! Score! So whatever shes on the pill things are good... fuckin senior year with a chick i dig, great sex, no condom....... then she doesnt get her period... not so much scared now but concerned.... shit goes on for a month late.... 6 weeks late... pregnancy test comes out negative but still no period. So finally we go to the doctor.

Apparently claritin with her pill made it fuck up her period. Doctor said any medication can have some weird effects on a case to case basis and that could have opened the way for a baby Pk. Fucked up ehh?

Point being in the end don't chance it man. Yes if she has no stds, you're a virgin, and shes on brith control odds are in your favor but you don't wanna be the exception. Having a baby ****** probably wouldn't be the worst thing in the world but it sure isn't gonna make the next 18 years of your life too awful much fun. Nor would the outside chance she had a dormant std or you had one that didnt show up on a test that you gave to each other.

If you insist go get tested. Both Niki and myself had a friend (she was better friends with him) who found out he had AIDS.... really a fucked up feeling when someone you know and hang out with gets it. Puts in to prespective (at least on my part) about being careless.

http://www.hivtest.org/locate/index.htm

^click that... theres a link to find a testing site near you.

as far as I know you ask for a standard test and they'll test you for the really bad infections, such as HIV and Hepatitis. all other types of STDs, such as herpes and gonnoreah, you can tested for but the thing with those diseases are that they are easily treatable. if you discover that this chick has given you herpes it isn't the end of the world, since it is treatable. it is the bad diseases you always have to check for

plug her, then tell her to get tested

voila!

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they don't do that for the HIV/Hepatitis test, its a normal blood test

Just do it in the butt. Simplicity.

Whew.

uhhh ... why hasn't anyone said anything about these comments yet?? There are MANY reasons to be on the pill - this topic has been discussed here several times before. I've been on it for 4 years and have never had sex.



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Call me silly, but she's the one who needs to get tested, not you.
You don't have shit.
She on the other hand could have anything.

If you choose to fuck her, she could be infecting you, not vice versa......


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