if the girl was a gf who wasn't that special and I knew I wouldn't be with her for long, I would love that she was bi

if I was going to marry the girl or really liked her, I would not like it.

i'm bi. or would be if i had ever had the chance. and i'm getting married. why is it any different if she's bi than if she's straight? http://www.netphoria.org/wwwboard/mad.gif

That's what I said. If you were straight there would be just as much or as little of a chance of you running off with another guy as there would be now of you running off with a girl.

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Boot the grime of this world in the crotch, dear.

I don't know really. I think I might be afraid of her actually desiring a woman, and marrying a guy to be "normal" in society. A bit insecure yes, but it would probably bug me

If you guys have an agreement that it's okay for her to have girly liaisons, then that's your business, and it's acceptable. If you guys decide to be exclusive, that's fine. Just cause there's double the number of people that she *could* find attractive doesn't mean there's double the number of people she could cheat on you with. There are a hell of a lot more straight guys she could run off with than gay or bi girls she has the chance with.

If you really love a person, the number of people that this person could potentially find attractive should not limit how secure you are in a relationship, and if it does, you don't deserve that person anyhow.

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I'm a member of the thought police and the Junior Anti Sex League. Double think that, BITCH!

AIM: ZeppieLed