Cheating?
 

How many of you have cheated on a significant other? Just curious.. and I'm only talking about actual penetration here.

I would never do that unless i was completely wasted and bob was being a complete tease

i dated a girl for 2 years and had sex with about 7 others during the relationship. i do not have any justification for this. however i was in florida for 4 months on an internship, and the sexual incounters i experienced, i will go to the grave not regretting.

Never. What's the fucking point? I've never even started seeing someone else concurrently when in a relationship. If I am going to cheat on someone, it tells me I don't want to be with them anymore, and dragging on a relationship like that is a waste of both of our time. I would certainly end a relationship before even considering anything with someone else.

The closest I ever came was when I was dating someone and my ex, who I still cared for more than the new girl kissed me and said she wanted to get back together. I ended the kiss, but I did break up with the new girl. I didn't wind up getting back with the ex either, but regardless there was no reason to be with the new one.

I wish though that the girls I've dated felt the same way. Cheating whores.

When I was a teenager.

nimrod i think you're simplifying the psychology of cheating.

In high school, long time ago...

i wont be in a commited relationship again until a long time because i honestly cant trust women in this regard

even if they dont straight up cheat they'll go about it in roundabout ways such as purposely being such a bitch that i'm forced to break it off so they can go off and sleep with the next Flavor of the Month

No, I think rather I'm saying that most people lack the ability to stand by their convictions and instead make excuses for themselves.

but you have to analize the motives. i agree with the convictions thing. you're looking at is like its temptation, an after school special where the kid hands another kid a joint and he has to make a decision. symbolicly speaking, a girl or guy offers her self and he/she has to make a decision. what about those that pursue it? i don't think cheaters are always making excuses. some thrive on it.

i have very, very little tolerance for cheating. i've been cheated on and i actually caught them in the act, and i'm still recovering from it. if you cheat, i'm out, but not before i say a big "FUCK YOU!"

In all seriousness I feel the same way. Although I'm not as over the top about it nowadays, if I found out someone I knew had cheated on their partner, and I knew the partner too, I would never interfere but I would NOT be pleased in the slightest, and they would notice a definite change in my attitude towards them. It's not cool.

its so evil and carnal. i think the sopranos address this really well.

cheating is one of the worst things you could possibly do. i generally like finding the good in people and keeping friendships after romances and whatnot but cheating is just intolerable, if it ever happened to me id prolly never want to see the person again.

No, that's not the same thing at all. Smoking a joint is not at all the same as cheating on someone.

You're just making excuses for people without character.

No ill just end the current relationship if i feel the need to cheat.

im not making excuses, but you are addressing it as a temptation, for some its not even a temptation, its a pursuit. regardless of the relationship they have now.

theres a good line in analyis this, when the psychologist is asking him about his mistress, and the mobster is talking about all the dirty stuff she does with him. the psychologist says, why dont you do these things with your wife, and he replies, "thats disgusting i would never do that to the mother of my child." the psyche of lovers and relationships is so interesting.

seriously, there's no excuse whatsoever for cheating. if you have to have a pursuit of cheating on people when you're in relationships then just dont get in fucking relationships.

saying "im not making excuses, but.." is pretty much saying "im not making excuses, but here's another excuse.."

i've never been with anyone. but wouldn't it be cool if all the sex i ever had was cheating? i just need to get a girlfriend first and then sleep with someone else before with her

Lola: yes
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lol nimrod wont cheat because it's so hard for him to find any type of relationship so he can't mess them up. plus he can't get random pussy

nimrod is a virgin.

You really know a lot about me I can tell.

WHOA I WAS JUST KIDDING BUDDY!!! DON'T BAN ME DUDE BRO IT WAS JUST A JOKE HHEHEHE

I haven't caught anybody cheating on me, but my last girlfriend broke the news to me like this "I fucking cheated on you." Talk about a huuuuge bitch. People who cheat have some pretty serious problems with themselves. I don't even look at other girls' asses when I have a girlfriend actually... which I probably should, but oh well. Being cheated on really makes one feel inadequate, and just shitty in general. It's very depressing to be cheated on, I wish such a feeling on nobody. I would never date somebody who has cheated on someone, or if I found out they cheated with someone to be with me I would end it immediately.

no

don't your people usually ask to join in when in these types of situations :think:

don't straight people (mainly men), too? :think: