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D. 08-09-2015 03:23 AM

Your part-black/hispanic nephew gets called a nigger by the local white trash bullyq
 
so, my nephew was walking to the store and got basically cornered by three cracker-ass white kids and one kid hits him in the face and calls him a nigger. apparently my nephew basically did nothing because he's been raised as a pushover so i mean...

i'm fucking furious that his dad (who is a lazy piece of shit but big looks big and intimidating) did almost nothing about it. even though he knows where the kid and his dad lives.

i mean, is this an issue i even need to be concerned about? i'm fucking livid.

Bread Regal 08-09-2015 03:38 AM

if it were me, i'd like him know that while he's under no obligation to talk about it with anyone, there are adults, including yourself, that would listen.

if he does open up to you about it, there are ways you can probably guide that conversation in a healthy and productive way.

Bread Regal 08-09-2015 03:42 AM

as far as dealing with the perps, you go to their house and let them know you're an armed combat veteran who they would not want to fuck with.

Sonic Johnny 08-09-2015 03:56 AM

Find the kids and give them some weed and psytrance." Albums. That'll stop them being racist AND punish their parents for raising racist kids.

D. 08-09-2015 04:16 AM

Fuuuckkkk all good options.

realistically i am probably going to do this:
Quote:

Originally Posted by Bread Regal
if it were me, i'd like him know that while he's under no obligation to talk about it with anyone, there are adults, including yourself, that would listen.

if he does open up to you about it, there are ways you can probably guide that conversation in a healthy and productive way.


D. 08-09-2015 04:18 AM

i also realize i spelled it "epitaph" and not "epithet"

Mals Marola 08-09-2015 05:20 AM

just so long as some understanding is established w the nephew as to the ignorance of racism & whatnot, you should be in the right direction

D. 08-09-2015 06:42 AM

I feel like me comforting him and not confronting the kid's parent will just allow a bully to continue to bully.

vixnix 08-09-2015 07:45 AM

Oh I would totally get all up in that shit. I'm not putting up with that.

How old are these kids? They're probably just pushing boundaries and being dumbasses but something should still be said.

I would talk to the nephew's parents and see where they stand. But if they didn't want to say anything about it I would contact the school and let them know so that they can look out for it on school grounds, at least.

yo soy el mejor 08-09-2015 07:49 AM

let that little twerp and his father know you know what they did to your nephew. and let him know if he knows what's good for him, he will leave your nephew alone or next time consequences will never be the same.

Mals Marola 08-09-2015 08:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by D. (Post 4210024)
I feel like me comforting him and not confronting the kid's parent will just allow a bully to continue to bully.

oh, i wasn't discouraging that at all. more lookin at thing's from the little guy's perspective, or whatev. do what you want with the bully/family

slunken 08-09-2015 08:53 AM

Shouldnt say that word D even if younare telling a story

duovamp 08-09-2015 08:56 AM

What would Gandhi do?

sppunk 08-09-2015 10:22 AM

Sounds like on the three bullies is ripe for having his head shipped to the dad.

Eulogy 08-09-2015 10:32 AM

White trash is an inherently racist term and you should not use it.

As for what to do here, there really isn't much other than talk to your nephew and make it clear that he doesn't and cannot stand for shit like that. What that means is kind of up to him though.

TuralyonW3 08-09-2015 10:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eulogy (Post 4210049)
White trash is an inherently racist term and you should not use it.

Can't believe this is still not a known thing

duovamp 08-09-2015 10:57 AM

This aggression will not stand, man.

vixnix 08-09-2015 11:08 AM

So is WASP an inherently racist term? I would have thought that white trash was an inherently classist term if anything.

Eulogy 08-09-2015 11:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by vixnix (Post 4210054)
So is WASP an inherently racist term? I would have thought that white trash was an inherently classist term if anything.

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White Anglo Saxon Protestant is not racist. White trash is racist because of what it inherently implies about nonwhites.

vixnix 08-09-2015 11:45 AM

Oh I don't see it that way at all. But that's good to know.

slunken 08-09-2015 12:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eulogy (Post 4210055)
White trash is racist because of what it inherently implies about nonwhites.

I don't think I've heard it that way. Please elaborate. Is it because it assumes most whites aren't trash?

I thought it was because race shouldn't be an issue? Trash is trash and referring to a race is what makes it racist, right?

Like if I called someone a motherfucker that's fine, but if I called someone an indian motherfucker that would racist, right?

slunken 08-09-2015 12:25 PM

Also it's weird how the placement of words affects the meaning -

like, there's a huge leap in racism in between "that jew motherfucker" and "that motherfucking jew"

huh?

slunken 08-09-2015 12:27 PM

I just imagine D typing the N word and giggling to himself, to be fair.

sppunk 08-09-2015 12:29 PM

D is using as a quote n this case, I don't think he's giggling about anything.

slunken 08-09-2015 12:34 PM

I bet "white trash bullyq" was going to be "white trash bully queers" only he ran out of room

Shame on you D. :noway:

slunken 08-09-2015 12:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sppunk (Post 4210069)
D is using as a quote n this case,

as a proponent of free speech i think this is a cop out.

as a result i have to read that word at the top of the gen forum now. i've literally read that word dozens and dozens of times now which is arguably way worse than hearing it once on the street.

Order 66 08-09-2015 12:44 PM

can i still call my mulleted czech neighbor eurotrash

slunken 08-09-2015 12:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Order 66 (Post 4210074)
can i still call my mulleted czech neighbor eurotrash

only when you're fucking him

pavementtune 08-09-2015 12:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Order 66 (Post 4210074)
can i still call my mulleted czech neighbor eurotrash

only to his face, see how that goes

D. 08-09-2015 02:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by slunken (Post 4210068)
I just imagine D typing the N word and giggling to himself, to be fair.

Is this a real thought you actually had?

This
Quote:

Originally Posted by slunken (Post 4210070)
I bet "white trash bullyq" was going to be "white trash bully queers" only he ran out of room

Shame on you D. :noway:


leads me to believe it was not but I can't tell on the internet.


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