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teh b0lly!!1 11-09-2017 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Disco King (Post 4394266)
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lol check out this guy

Shallowed 11-09-2017 06:51 AM

Discoking when was the last time you had sex?

fuzzyroes 11-09-2017 10:34 AM

A gentleman never kisses and tells!

FoolofaTook 11-09-2017 01:33 PM

DK don't tell them about us.

redbreegull 11-09-2017 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by FoolofaTook (Post 4394253)
I just checked out this BOMBTASTIC edition of the Silmarillion. Has hella illustrations in particular an ubersenescent one of Ulmo appearing before Tuor.

I used to have this edition. The illustrations are by Ted Nazmith, right? I lent it to a friend who disappeared off the face of the Earth though

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Originally Posted by Disco King (Post 4394268)
I've previously thought that I would only be able to be interested in somebody with similar politics to my own, but this girl is a right-wing libertarian who thinks socialism is "morally wrong," and also a Christian. But we are so similar in other ways (both have social anxiety and depression), and I like debating with her.

my longest/healthiest relationship was with someone who was a libertarian from a rural catholic family. The tension and disagreement definitely fueled the passion, but we were both capable of debating without having a fight or someone's feelings getting hurt. I think ideology can sometimes obscure people's values. Our values were obviously essentially the same or we wouldn't have been able to have a healthy, respectful relationship. Our ideas about how to achieve those values were just informed by different cultures and different life experiences.

tl;dr: don't worry about it, it can be good to date someone who is different from yourself and ideological affiliation/worldview is sometimes not as important as interpersonal chemistry

redbreegull 11-09-2017 02:39 PM

I wouldn't date a Trump supporter though

FoolofaTook 11-09-2017 02:47 PM

Yes rbg it is naismith. and there's a fold out map in the back (!!!).

I just borrowed it to read the creation part and maybe the battle of unnumbered tears but now I think I shall read the whole thing. so many illustrations I was freaking out last night lol.

redbreegull 11-09-2017 11:07 PM

hey guys I am drinking and doing drugs right now, hbu?

Ram27 11-09-2017 11:41 PM

living the dream

redbreegull 11-09-2017 11:53 PM

we're an american band

redbreegull 11-09-2017 11:53 PM

of freaks and degenerates

FoolofaTook 11-10-2017 12:32 AM

Watching the hobbit (1977) sober.

Not bad. I like the songs. :)

FoolofaTook 11-10-2017 12:33 AM

What are you drinking and what drugs are you doing rbg?

teh b0lly!!1 11-10-2017 01:29 AM

i'm gonna go with miller lite and weed?

money in the bank

rbg is rigged

redbreegull 11-10-2017 01:37 AM

no it's victoria


FoolofaTook 11-10-2017 01:38 AM

You drinking all twelve?

redbreegull 11-10-2017 01:39 AM

no only have one of those and a fat tire left from this past weekend

FoolofaTook 11-10-2017 01:39 AM

What kind of ganja you got?

It's been 11 days since I smoke the last nug of Ewok (26% indica).

Disco King 11-10-2017 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by redbreegull (Post 4394305)
I used to have this edition. The illustrations are by Ted Nazmith, right? I lent it to a friend who disappeared off the face of the Earth though



my longest/healthiest relationship was with someone who was a libertarian from a rural catholic family. The tension and disagreement definitely fueled the passion, but we were both capable of debating without having a fight or someone's feelings getting hurt. I think ideology can sometimes obscure people's values. Our values were obviously essentially the same or we wouldn't have been able to have a healthy, respectful relationship. Our ideas about how to achieve those values were just informed by different cultures and different life experiences.

tl;dr: don't worry about it, it can be good to date someone who is different from yourself and ideological affiliation/worldview is sometimes not as important as interpersonal chemistry

That's good that your values were very much aligned despite the political differences. Yeah, I think it's possible to make something like that work.

Anyhow, after having had met with this friend, I'm no longer under the illusion that she would be interested in anything more, which is just as well, because I'm happy to just be friends, and I have enough people I'm taking out these days as it is that adding more would just make it harder to see them all regularly.

She's currently single (her ex didn't end up moving for school, but he broke up with her anyway out of the blue), but when she mentioned the kinds of things she was looking for... she mentioned how if somebody takes her on a date, she expects that person to pick her up and drive her to the venue and pay for all that. Wouldn't date somebody without a car, because she doesn't want to do all the driving (not that there's anything wrong with that; she says that when she's the one who requests the date, she picks up the guy and pays and everything). She also mentioned some insecurities about the current guy she's casually seeing not being as good-looking as her ex, and her ex dating somebody "hotter" than her, like it was some kind of competition.

I thought, eh, I'm better off with somebody who's fine with me being a car-less, money-less loser, and I don't consider myself very good-looking, so if she's a bit disappointed with whomever it is she is currently seeing (although she says his personality makes up for it), being with me would probably be somewhat worse. In essence, she's looking for a Chad, and I'm not Chad.

Being friends with her is awesome, though. We've gotten close enough that we talk about pretty personal stuff.

redbreegull 11-10-2017 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by FoolofaTook (Post 4394398)
What kind of ganja you got?

It's been 11 days since I smoke the last nug of Ewok (26% indica).

right now I have sour diesel, girl scout cookies, and some sort of kush. I am still only smoking a bowl at night, but I have stocked up on weed for the apocalypse.

actually the woman I am dating just keeps giving me weed because she likes me :blush:

Shallowed 11-10-2017 04:42 PM

Well, one hopes that the person dating you also likes you.

buzzard 11-10-2017 05:18 PM

There's a Chad in all of us, Disco King.

Only when it's a The Chad or a Chadster must you worry.

ilikeplanets 11-10-2017 07:37 PM

False, there is no Chad within ilp

FoolofaTook 11-10-2017 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by redbreegull (Post 4394438)
right now I have sour diesel, girl scout cookies, and some sort of kush. I am still only smoking a bowl at night, but I have stocked up on weed for the apocalypse.

actually the woman I am dating just keeps giving me weed because she likes me :blush:

You should wed her forthwith!

spidersoma 11-11-2017 02:19 AM

Last night I was reminded of the worst "joke" a girl can make after you have sex: "we are going to have a baby now."

fuck. or not, anymore.

FoolofaTook 11-11-2017 03:28 AM

Actually the worst joke is "Well, now we both have AIDS!"

spidersoma 11-11-2017 04:00 PM

Shit, I haven't encountered that one yet. That's wayyy too far.

buzzard 11-11-2017 06:39 PM

Congratulations on engaging in sexual intercourse, spidersoma.

ilikeplanets 11-11-2017 06:44 PM

I want another baby already T_T she needs a sibling

FlamingGlobes 11-11-2017 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by ilikeplanets (Post 4394692)
I want another baby already T_T she needs a sibling



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