can you shut the fuck up?
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evidently not.
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i'll shut the fuck up for months/years? at a time, but then i come back and un-shut the fuck up. for better or worse.
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real truth
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you would fuck up and leave out sp_aced wouldnt you. damn you scotty.
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my bad
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I pretty much can't.
Yesterday I rode in a car for an hour and a half with two men in their 70s, and I'm pretty sure they were glad when we arrived, because it meant I wasn't 'to going to talk to them about anything else. I tried not being the one to start the next conversation but then neither of them said anything and I would think of other things to ask them about so I just kept starting back up again. |
I think maybe men are happy not to talk a lot of the time, on car trips.
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When someone isn't talking much it's because they don't want to talk so much, if at all. But it doesn't work because the other person talks lots and lots to make up for that person not saying much.
My mum and dad do this, i.e. she talks a lot, very often dominating conversation more than 90% of the time, and dad is rather quiet. |
Car trips are kind of interesting settings for conversations. I sometimes find that it's easier to talk about heavier stuff that is bothering one or both of us because we're not facing each other and you can't eject yourself from the conversation once you're in it.
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I'm confused with Scotty's av. I'm used to the cat.
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that's that tumblr celebrity
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she's an anorexic internet scam artist
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Learning to be okay with silence is a goal of mine. I am good at not just filling the air when there's nothing to talk about or the other person is also being quiet, but it still is awkward.
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I used to talk but i stopped because being myself doesnt work so now i just stay quiet and try to be someone else, thats not really working either
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