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Cactuar
12-28-2002, 04:43 AM
Let's say, hypothetically, that I was having sexual intercourse with a female, and while I was having sex with her, she started bleeding from the vagina. She claims to be a non virgin of about 5-6 guys, it wasn't her period. And it got all over my cock and the condom.

AND I DIDNT RAPE HER YOU SMARTASSES

Any help is appreciated it really freaked me out

Samsa
12-28-2002, 04:46 AM
maybe you tore something. was she really tight? does your cock have an unusually large girth? was it rough sex? etc? if so you probably tore something. it's possible she has some sort of uhh problem like cervical cancer? :erm

yeeah.

DeviousJ
12-28-2002, 04:47 AM
Let's say, hypothetically, you're on hidden mode for some reason :o

I think it just happens sometimes, man. Bring some lube next time, or don't just rush in there. Although the 'all over' bit sounds a little worrying :erm

Samsa
12-28-2002, 04:49 AM
Subject: Bleeding during sex
Topic Area: Sexual Health and Wellness
Forum: The Family Practice Forum
Question Posted By: galaxy35 on Wednesday, March 20, 2002


Over the past year I have had a reoccuring problem with bleeding during sex. I have seen my gynecologist for this problem. At first I was treated for a bacteria infection. I have also had many pap smears and an ultrasound on my vagina, all came out negative. My doctor says that there is nothing wrong, that this is just a fluke and it will go way with time, but it hasn't. I have had tests for every STD and they are all negative but this still seems to occur. I did not have sex for months with my boyfriend that I have been with since this started happening, because I am afraid of it happening again. One time when I went in for an exam and my cervix starting bleeding after being poked. Then the most recent time, it didn't. So I was told and assumed everything was fine. Last night I had sex for the first time in months and I still bled. And it's not just a little bit of blood, it's enough to soil the sheets. There is no pain involved with the sex, the only way I notice that it is happening is from it being so wet. There is not a problem with rough sex or lubrication. I am also on the pill (mircette), but this was occuring before I started taking the pill.
This is a huge problem because I am afraid to have sex now even though my doctor tells me I'm fine and should continue to have sex. I don't know what to do but I want this to stop. I want to enjoy sex again. Please help!

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Answer Posted By: Forum-M.D.-DT on Thursday, March 21, 2002

Thank you for visiting the Family Practice Forum.

I suspect you have what is known as a "Friable Cervix". This essentially means that your cervix is very prone to bleeding.
It sound like you have had an extensive workup for this problem and there is no infection present that would be causing this. Bleeding from a friable cervix is typically due to chlamydia, other infections or cervical cancer.

Two things come to mind. Firstly, are we SURE that all of the tests for infection are negative and that the pap smear was in fact negative? I might be inclined to repeat these tests just to be on the safe side.

Secondly, have you considered getting a second opinion from another gynecologist? I had a case similiar to what you describe during my training (residency). As a last resort, the gynecolgist did something called "cryotherapy" (freezing) of the cervix. The patient did have some significant discharge after the cryotherapy, but the cervical bleeding ultimately stopped. This procedure is not without risks, the most important being that scarring of the cervix which occurs which may effect the ability to get pregnant in the future.

You present a difficult problem here. In my experience, when problems like this arise and you are not finding "solutions" with one specialist, it is time to try a second opinion.

Samsa
12-28-2002, 04:51 AM
Causes of discharge and bleeding

There are several possible causes for your symptoms. The most common *******:

Sexually transmitted infections: These can cause bleeding, pain and discharge. The risk increases if you are having casual sex. If left untreated, long term complications ******* chronic pelvic pain, and infertility. The sooner it is diagnosed, the better. This can only be done by having an internal examination, and swabs taken.
Thrush or Candida: Although this is caused by an infection with a yeast, it is not usually passed on through sex. Instead, most women carry the yeast in small amounts all the time. If you become run down or ill, Candida takes over. It usually causes itching and discharge, but in severe cases may also cause pain and bleeding.
Cervical cancer: If you are sexually active, you are at increased risk, and should be having regular smear tests, especially if you have ever had an infection with HPV (Human Papilloma Virus). The earlier it is caught and treated, the more likely it is to be a complete cure.
Cervical erosions: Non-cancerous changes to the cervix can also lead to bleeding between periods (and during sex), and a discharge.

Faggotologist
12-28-2002, 01:55 PM
Originally posted by Cactuar
Let's say, hypothetically, that I was having sexual intercourse with a female

hypothetically....exactly! HOMO!

Human Replica Droid
12-28-2002, 02:05 PM
It's only happened once? I wouldn't worry too much.

Are you sure she wasn't on her period, and just too embarassed to say so?

jenn
12-28-2002, 02:21 PM
^ I vote for that... if not, read what Suze wrote (which makes a lot of sense). Next time Glenn- do it with the lights wayyy off. Then you don't see anything. Use tissues in the bathroom when taking the rubber off. It won't creep you out that way.:D

Faggotologist
12-28-2002, 02:33 PM
Originally posted by melancholia
Next time Glenn- do it with the lights wayyy off. Then you don't see anything


bbbut...then he won't be able to see the nodules....only smell them!!!

BlueStar
12-28-2002, 02:39 PM
It happens. It's perfectly normal. Unless she was bleeding A LOT, I wouldn't worry about it. I bleed a little everytime I have sex after not having had sex for awhile.

jenn
12-28-2002, 02:53 PM
Originally posted by Faggotologist



bbbut...then he won't be able to see the nodules....only smell them!!!

omifuk that just made me dry heave.

Mr_sister
12-28-2002, 03:12 PM
AND I DIDNT RAPE HER YOU SMARTASSES

You might have. Maybe she was to frightened to say no because of your persuasive beahavior? Many girls have past experience of male voilence. They'v been called niggers, ho's and cunts all their lifes, slapped in the face and spat on. Then suddenly this cactuar comes. A big, brutish male with a scruffy beard who wants to have intercourse and enter the girl from behind. And if you didn't want this, perhaps you did anyway? Some inexperienced guys have trouble finding the right place to penetrate a girl, which can cause a number of problems, bleeding is one of them.

Red Wine Cage
12-28-2002, 06:03 PM
Originally posted by Mr_sister


You might have. Maybe she was to frightened to say no because of your persuasive beahavior? Many girls have past experience of male voilence. They'v been called niggers, ho's and cunts all their lifes, slapped in the face and spat on. Then suddenly this cactuar comes. A big, brutish male with a scruffy beard who wants to have intercourse and enter the girl from behind. And if you didn't want this, perhaps you did anyway? Some inexperienced guys have trouble finding the right place to penetrate a girl, which can cause a number of problems, bleeding is one of them.

sickbadthing
12-28-2002, 06:07 PM
Weird. I had the same thing come up and couldn't figure it out. This happened with a lot of girls, and it didn't just get all over my dick but all over my chest, my face and all over the sheets.

Then I realized that hey, I'm not having sex as much as I'm just stabbing these girls to death without any clothes on!

Life can be weird at times.

Elvis The Naked Years
12-28-2002, 06:11 PM
wrong hole.

you're too used to male anatomy.

meow
12-28-2002, 08:51 PM
Originally posted by melancholia


omifuk that just made me dry heave.


hahah and it was your story