ok....I don't feel like explaining the whole thing....so I'll cut it down a bit.

To represent people killed by drunk drivers, some kids at my school (including myself) had to put on all black clothes and couldn't talk. 'Cause we were 'dead.' Dumb, yeah...but that's not the point.

This acquaintance of mine who happens to be hot as fuck comes over to me while I'm eating lunch and gives me the biggest hug ever. Then he sat down next to me...and a couple minutes later, he just kind of randonly put his hand on my inner thigh and started rubbing. And he was all 'ah, you sexy, sexy man.' I couldn't say anything...but I thought I needed to get something out of that situation...so I basically just did to him what he did to me. As far as anyone would be able to tell it was all in jest....but yeah. Mmmhmm.

He was obviously joking...but who does that?

I should add that this kid is extremely outgoing and such...so it really wasn't at all out of character for him.

Death obviously turns him on.

This is what vince thinks:

http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vincestacy5.jpg

http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vince31.jpg

He's such a horrible actor. You would think he'd get better with all that practice.

http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vincestacy10.jpg

Originally posted by Eulogy
He's such a horrible actor. You would think he'd get better with all that practice.

http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vince25.jpg

Dude, he totally wants you.
Invite him over to hang out...see if he accepts.

stop stealing my pictures whore :mad:

http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vince19.jpg

Originally posted by palidor
stop stealing my pictures whore :mad:

http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vince29.jpg

Originally posted by sp_aced
Dude, he totally wants you.
Invite him over to hang out...see if he accepts.

Meh.

We're not close at all, really. I just saw him last year and thought he was hot as hell...and then this year he joined the soccer team...and we just became...acquaintances...that's all. I mean...we don't really talk that often at all. I'm too shy to initiate conversation with anyone (I'll usually say hi to him if I pass him in the halls or something...but that's hardly conversation)...and he rarely initiates any sort of contact.....but then again, whenever he does, he sort of molests me.

And he's three years older than me. But only two years in school!

And as far as I know, he's straight as an arrow.

Originally posted by Ann Ominous


http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vince29.jpg

http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vince41.jpg

I'm going to bed, swine.

Originally posted by Eulogy
This acquaintance of mine who happens to be hot as fuck

Huh?

Originally posted by Eulogy


Meh.

We're not close at all, really. I just saw him last year and thought he was hot as hell...and then this year he joined the soccer team...and we just became...acquaintances...that's all. I mean...we don't really talk that often at all. I'm too shy to initiate conversation with anyone (I'll usually say hi to him if I pass him in the halls or something...but that's hardly conversation)...and he rarely initiates any sort of contact.....but then again, whenever he does, he sort of molests me.

And he's three years older than me. But only two years in school!

Dude. He's in SOCCER. That screams bi-sexual!!!
Don't be naive like I was growing up.
Take advantage of these oppurtunities.

Originally posted by Isaac


Huh?

Put a comma after mine. Maybe it makes sense with that.

Or maybe it doesn't. I don't know.

Originally posted by palidor

I'm going to bed, swine.

http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vince27.jpg

Originally posted by Eulogy


Put a comma after mine. Maybe it makes sense with that.

Or maybe it doesn't. I don't know.

Read it all wrong, sorry.

Originally posted by sp_aced


Dude. He's in SOCCER. That screams bi-sexual!!!

Ha. Nah...no soccer players I know of are bisexual. At all. I know a lot of them very well.

But yeah...the three year age difference and the 0 mutual friends kind of makes it tough.

And he's probably straight.

Originally posted by Eulogy


Ha. Nah...no soccer players I know of are bisexual. At all. I know a lot of them very well.

But yeah...the three year age difference and the 0 mutual friends kind of makes it tough.

And he's probably straight.

Are you kidding me?
Soccer players are the most likely athletes to be bi-curious, bisexual, whatever.
Well whatever, the next time he comes up to you and grabs your leg make a joke and say something like "you're moving too quickly, you need to buy me dinner first" (yes that is a trendy ass lame joke but you get the idea)

Originally posted by sp_aced


Are you kidding me?
Soccer players are the most likely athletes to be bi-curious, bisexual, whatever.
Well whatever, the next time he comes up to you and grabs your leg make a joke and say something like "you're moving too quickly, you need to buy me dinner first" (yes that is a trendy ass lame joke but you get the idea)

haha. Maybe generally...but the soccer players I know are for the most part very very straight.

And I would never use those exact words, hah....but I dunno. I'll work on it.

The end of the school year leaves quite a nice opportunity though ('Am I going to see you at all over the summer?!')

Originally posted by Eulogy



The end of the school year leaves quite a nice opportunity though ('Am I going to see you at all over the summer?!')

Nope. Too open ended.
Be more confident and bold.
"Hey...since I'm a better soccer player than you...want me to teach you over the Summer how I got so good?"
In a jovial manner of course...don't come off as being conceited.

Originally posted by sp_aced


Nope. Too open ended.
Be more confident and bold.
"Hey...since I'm a better soccer player than you...want me to teach you over the Summer how I got so good?"
In a jovial manner of course...don't come off as being conceited.

Not to sound condescending or hostile or anything...but that's dumb. heh heh

It might work if he actually cared about soccer...which he doesn't.

Originally posted by Eulogy


Not to sound condescending or hostile or anything...but that's dumb. heh heh

It might work if he actually cared about soccer...which he doesn't.

I'm only using that because its an example using something I know you both do.

How is it dumb? Its confident and it invites him over to play soccer with you...and maybe he can undress in your room :O

Originally posted by sp_aced


I'm only using that because its an example using something I know you both do.

How is it dumb? Its confident and it invites him over to play soccer with you...and maybe he can undress in your room :O

If you knew this guy you'd understand...it just wouldn't work....at all.

We both play soccer...but neither of us want to do anything soccer-related in our free time. Heh. We really don't have anything at all in common. And I don't think he has a car...so it's not like he could just pick me up and take me somewhere. Ehhh.

Originally posted by Eulogy


If you knew this guy you'd understand...it just wouldn't work....at all.

We both play soccer...but neither of us want to do anything soccer-related in our free time. Heh. We really don't have anything at all in common. And I don't think he has a car...so it's not like he could just pick me up and take me somewhere. Ehhh.

Fine. Have it your way. Don't get laid this summer.
:rolleyes: :D
j/k

I believe that he's been interested in you for a while but never managed to let you know, so that day he decided to strike while the iron was hot, and that's why it seemed like he did too much. You must have thought he was really really off..or that it was a horrible strategy. But He was probably nervous as hell.
If you haven't done it already, ask him out.

Originally posted by palidor
This is what vince thinks:

http://www.nerdvision.net/jason/wwfpics/vincestacy5.jpg

this is what emotiontimcurry thinks!
http://www.x-entertainment.com/pics/vid15.jpg

BTW you sounded like a narrow-minded person (just) when you said "he's probably straight".. b/c that's just another label.

And why does age matter to you? I don't get it. The fact you don't have mutual friends is a plus if you project to have sex with him, trust me.

BTW you sounded like a narrow-minded person (just) when you said "he's probably straight".. who gives a fuck how he's been labelled?.

Some soccer players are bi, some aren't. Period.

And why does age matter to you? I don't get it.

Oh, the fact you don't have mutual friends is a plus if you project to have sex with him, trust me. Good, good basis. Go ahead, sexy boy
;)

Originally posted by alabaster
BTW you sounded like a narrow-minded person (just) when you said "he's probably straight".. b/c that's just another label.

And why does age matter to you? I don't get it. The fact you don't have mutual friends is a plus if you project to have sex with him, trust me.

a straight lad wouldn't have put his hand on your inner thigh....that's all there is to it.

Originally posted by scouse_dave
a straight lad wouldn't have put his hand on your inner thigh....that's all there is to it.

word

if i was gay i would think it'd be terrifying to try to hit on another guy because people seem so violent that'd i'd be afraid of getting my ass kicked.

Originally posted by Red Wine Cage
if i was gay i would think it'd be terrifying to try to hit on another guy because people seem so violent that'd i'd be afraid of getting my ass kicked.

That, and I'd be rejected by all of my friends and completely emotionally destroyed.

Originally posted by Eulogy


That, and I'd be rejected by all of my friends and completely emotionally destroyed.

They werent your friends to begin with if they reject you.
When I came out, I chose only to share it my four closest best friends. They were all super supportive of me.
What I'm saying is, you can be selective with who you tell.

Originally posted by sp_aced


They werent your friends to begin with if they reject you.
When I came out, I chose only to share it my four closest best friends. They were all super supportive of me.
What I'm saying is, you can be selective with who you tell.

You have to remember that my closest friends are only about 15 years old...I think a few of my friends would want to accept me anyway...but you know, with everyone at that age, I don't think it would work out too well.

There's probably one person I know I could tell and not be too worried about what would happen. With everyone else I'm a little unsure.

Originally posted by alabaster
I believe that he's been interested in you for a while but never managed to let you know, so that day he decided to strike while the iron was hot, and that's why it seemed like he did too much. You must have thought he was really really off..or that it was a horrible strategy. But He was probably nervous as hell.
If you haven't done it already, ask him out.

I can tell when someone's interested in me...and unless he makes a point to ignore me a relatively large amount of time so that it seems as though he isn't interested....then he's definitely not interested at all. He very very rarely initiates contact with me...so when this happened it just kind of cought me off guard.

And he wasn't nervous....and this wasn't really anything new....he's done other similar things, like grabbing my chest and such.

And now that I think of it, it's hard to believe that he;s 100% straight if he's touching my chest and inner thigh all the time.

NOW I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK.

And to clarify on the mutual friends thing...my school is extremely small...everyone knows everyone...my sister is in the musical (fuck, he's in musicals too. The evidence is mounting.) with him and she kind of knows him...a lot of my friends know who he is and have talked to him occasionally...so it's not like no one we know knows who the other person is. If that makes any sense.

Originally posted by Eulogy


You have to remember that my closest friends are only about 15 years old...I think a few of my friends would want to accept me anyway...but you know, with everyone at that age, I don't think it would work out too well.

There's probably one person I know I could tell and not be too worried about what would happen. With everyone else I'm a little unsure.

Um, I was 15 when I told those four people.
You're not giving them the benefit of the doubt, just like I didn't, which is understandable. I was very non-trusting then also with my sexuality. I'm not going to lie and say I expected them to take it so well, I didn't. They surprised me.

I'm just going to throw in my two cents and say that it does not sound like this guy is straight.

Originally posted by Lie
I'm just going to throw in my two cents and say that it does not sound like this guy is straight.

Lie is not lieing.

yeah, i reaaalllly doubt he's straight. outgoing or drunk fit just fine.
you're in high school; don't do anything. are you gay? if you're gay and you want gay sex, find a gay person. yeesh.

Originally posted by THRILLHO
yeah, i reaaalllly doubt he's straight. outgoing or drunk fit just fine.
you're in high school; don't do anything. are you gay? if you're gay and you want gay sex, find a gay person. yeesh.

What?

Thrillo had a long day. He's just tired, forgive him.

Developments!!

Got to school early...not too many people there. I walk down his hallway, and he's standing at his locker. I go up to him (I'm all dressed up because I had to go to the Rotary Club's straight A student luncheon thing) and he's all 'What the hell is this?' Talking about my clothes...and then I tell him and then he was just like 'I have to get something out of Mr. Hollis's car...come with me.'

So I went with him and we're walking down the hill outside the school, and this girl passing by asks why I'm all dressed up...and he says, 'We're on a date.'

So yes...and then later in the day I saw him and was all 'Hey Jim,' and he didn't say anything. Bad times, right?

And then after school, I'm talking to someone and he comes up to me, starts stroking my chin (?) and just says 'I love you.' And then he walked away.

I'm usually good at reading people.

I CAN'T FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON!

Originally posted by Eulogy
Developments!!

Got to school early...not too many people there. I walk down his hallway, and he's standing at his locker. I go up to him (I'm all dressed up because I had to go to the Rotary Club's straight A student luncheon thing) and he's all 'What the hell is this?' Talking about my clothes...and then I tell him and then he was just like 'I have to get something out of Mr. Hollis's car...come with me.'

So I went with him and we're walking down the hill outside the school, and this girl passing by asks why I'm all dressed up...and he says, 'We're on a date.'

So yes...and then later in the day I saw him and was all 'Hey Jim,' and he didn't say anything. Bad times, right?

And then after school, I'm talking to someone and he comes up to me, starts stroking my chin (?) and just says 'I love you.' And then he walked away.

I'm usually good at reading people.

I CAN'T FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON!
Yeah, he's a flamer.

On a side note, one of my friends came out last year and lost all of his friends, but that was because he was a total asshole about it. We're all cool with him now, with constant jokes about his sexuality.

Originally posted by neopryn

Yeah, he's a flamer.


But I just don't see it.

If I all I knew about him was what I've posted...I'd definitely think he was. But he's just so crazy in general...

Ahhhh

Originally posted by Eulogy


But I just don't see it.

If I all I knew about him was what I've posted...I'd definitely think he was. But he's just so crazy in general...

Ahhhh

Refer to sig for what I think about this guy.

Originally posted by Eulogy


But I just don't see it.

If I all I knew about him was what I've posted...I'd definitely think he was. But he's just so crazy in general...
Ah, one of those fucks.

Originally posted by neopryn

Ah, one of those fucks.

Yeah...one of those.

Originally posted by sp_aced


Are you kidding me?
Soccer players are the most likely athletes to be bi-curious, bisexual, whatever.
Well whatever, the next time he comes up to you and grabs your leg make a joke and say something like "you're moving too quickly, you need to buy me dinner first" (yes that is a trendy ass lame joke but you get the idea)

Hmm, for someone who doesn't want gays stereotyped, you sure do throw it around to others.

Originally posted by sp_aced


They werent your friends to begin with if they reject you.

Dude, he's a freshman in highschool. Please. Most kids lack any maturity whatsoever, and he has to spend the next 3 years with them.

So, here's my 2 cents. Maybe he is a pillow biter, but there's also the possibility that since they knew you couldn't talk, a group of guys put him up to fucking with you, since they guess that you're gay. The joke just carried on when he saw you the next couple of times until you give in.

Look, I'm not saying don't do anything. I'm saying watch your ass (figuratively), because there's a really good chance they're trying to make a fool out of you.

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son
So, here's my 2 cents. Maybe he is a pillow biter, but there's also the possibility that since they knew you couldn't talk, a group of guys put him up to fucking with you, since they guess that you're gay. The joke just carried on when he saw you the next couple of times until you give in.

Look, I'm not saying don't do anything. I'm saying watch your ass (figuratively), because there's a really good chance they're trying to make a fool out of you.

Oh, I'm 99.999999% positive that this is not the case.

Like I said...he has done similar things in the past, so this isn't totally out of the ordinary at all. We've developed a reasonably close relationship over the school year...and I'm pretty sure he really does like me. And I don't normally think that about people. Also, nobody I know in real life even suspects that I like guys. It's never come up. I don't....seem gay. In person, anyway. heh. Well I do listen to Fiona Apple...but anyway.

And again, he is a VERY outgoing guy. He's very physical and affectionate with pretty much everyone he knows. He probably is fucking with me...but not in the way you think he could be.

Make a move, he probably wants you.
Don't blame him for being such an atypical character.
Talking is over-rated.

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son


Hmm, for someone who doesn't want gays stereotyped, you sure do throw it around to others.

You're stupid.
What the hell do you know about my feelings on gay stereotypes?

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son


Dude, he's a freshman in highschool. Please. Most kids lack any maturity whatsoever, and he has to spend the next 3 years with them.

Once again you are stupid.
My friends took it very well and were supportive and they were all freshmen at the time.

You should totally ask him out.
Don't do it at school of course.
Do you have his phone number?

nevermind whether he's a flamer or not...he sounds plain weird now

Originally posted by scouse_dave
nevermind whether he's a flamer or not...he sounds plain weird now

Originally posted by sp_aced


Once again you are stupid.
My friends took it very well and were supportive and they were all freshmen at the time.

He already said his friends wouldn't understand, and then you told him not to care, that they "aren't really his friends." Try for once thinking about him as a person, not an agenda.

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son


He already said his friends wouldn't understand, and then you told him not to care, that they "aren't really his friends." Try for once thinking about him as a person, not an agenda.

No, I didn't say that, you just didn't understand.
I told him that it's perfectly understandable to think that your friends won't support you when you come out. However, if they were *truly* friends then they should support him and stand behind him.
My agenda? What the fuck agenda is that? To give him advice about how to approach this guy?
I'm just giving Eulogy some advice because I have been through all this before and I'm just sharing what happened to me and what I learned from it.

Sounds to me like the dude's toying witchoo.

You sure there aren't rumors going around about your preference? I look at it as though he's pushing your buttons to get you to admit something. Be wary.


One other thought, I bet if you said, when he's doing something strange to you, "What, you gay?", instead of saying something like "Hell no!" as I suspect he would, he'd reply by asking you if you were first.

Well he is weird. He's a very crazy guy. That's one of the reasons I think he's so kickass.

And I am positive there are no rumors flying around about me. You're probably thinking that there's no way I can know...but just trust me on this one. And also, like I said before, he's extremely nice to you as long as you are nice to him. He wouldn't do that to me even if he did think I liked guys.

And today I saw him again a few times...first there was just an uneventful handshake and exchange of words....second, he put his hand on my chest as he passed by....and third, he put his arm around me (not like you're probably picturing it...it was closer to a headlock, I suppose) and dragged me around for a bit.

And well...I do have his home phone number...but I really don't have any idea when he is there and such. He goes to this place where kids who get into a little bit of trouble go...kind of like a boarding school, except the kids there go to other high schools. If that makes any sense. I think he's there because he had some serious anger issues back in the day. So he's only home on the weekends...and geh. Not like I'd call him up and ask him out anyway. I can't risk that. heh

I'm not doing anything until I can be almost positive about what the response will be like. I'd like to try and just get to him in any kid of social situation and just take it from there....

woooo

This may sound like a dumb idea, but why not invite him to do something that could be totally straight, but like, not... like going swimming and ask him to put lotion on you and see what his reaction is. I dunno, I mean, I've got zero experience with how to pick up dudes, but it's similar to the "hang out with a chick until you're sure she likes you" thing.

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son
This may sound like a dumb idea, but why not invite him to do something that could be totally straight, but like, not... like going swimming and ask him to put lotion on you and see what his reaction is. I dunno, I mean, I've got zero experience with how to pick up dudes, but it's similar to the "hang out with a chick until you're sure she likes you" thing.

Oh, that's not dumb at all. That is my plan as of now...I just don't really know how to go about doing that.

Originally posted by Eulogy


Oh, that's not dumb at all. That is my plan as of now...I just don't really know how to go about doing that.

Invite him over for TV. Offer him the choice to watch your Will & Grace / Queer as Folk tape, or you could turn on sports. There's your answer.

Originally posted by Eulogy


Oh, that's not dumb at all. That is my plan as of now...I just don't really know how to go about doing that.

Fucking shit. I was telling you the god damned same thing.
Fuck you Eulogy.
I hate you now forever.

Originally posted by sp_aced


Fucking shit. I was telling you the god damned same thing.
Fuck you Eulogy.
I hate you now forever.

No, you were too busy telling him to come out to his friends and pushing your agenda than actually focusing on his problem and speaking to it directly. I told you that before.

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son


No, you were too busy telling him to come out to his friends and pushing your agenda than actually focusing on his problem and speaking to it directly. I told you that before.

WOULD YOU SHUT THE FUCK UP?
I wasn't talking to your stupid ass.

Originally posted by sp_aced


Fucking shit. I was telling you the god damned same thing.
Fuck you Eulogy.
I hate you now forever.

Uh.

That's always been my plan. I didn't get it from you or anybody else. I never said asking him to do something was dumb...I said asking him to come over and fucking play soccer or whatever the hell you said was dumb. And it is. As is asking him to come over and watch TV.

You guys have weird ideas.

Originally posted by sp_aced


Are you kidding me?
Soccer players are the most likely athletes to be bi-curious, bisexual, whatever.


without reading the rest of the thread, i'm going to interject here and say this is true.

Originally posted by Eulogy


Uh.

That's always been my plan. I didn't get it from you or anybody else. I never said asking him to do something was dumb...I said asking him to come over and fucking play soccer or whatever the hell you said was dumb. And it is. As is asking him to come over and watch TV.

You guys have weird ideas.

That's always been your plan? OH REALLLLLLLLY. So that was your plan from the get go when you stated earlier in the thread that he was "straight as an arrow". :rolleyes: You're full of shit.
It seems like throughout the course of this thread some other people (scousedave, lie, etc) started to change your thoughts on what his sexuality might be along with the developments that happened at your school.
Why is my suggestion to play soccer with him dumb and Nimrod's suggestion to go swimming great?
Another reason you are full of shit and I hate you.
So be a dumb, naive boy and let this opportunity slide by.

Originally posted by sp_aced


That's always been your plan? OH REALLLLLLLLY. So that was your plan from the get go when you stated earlier in the thread that he was "straight as an arrow". :rolleyes: You're full of shit.
It seems like throughout the course of this thread some other people (scousedave, lie, etc) started to change your thoughts on what his sexuality might be along with the developments that happened at your school.
Why is my suggestion to play soccer with him dumb and Nimrod's suggestion to go swimming great?
Another reason you are full of shit and I hate you.
So be a dumb, naive boy and let this opportunity slide by.

You are HORRIBLE at interpreting what people say on this board.

I still think he's straight. That doesn't mean I can't see what I can do without outing myself.

I never said Nimrod's idea of swimming was great. I don't know where you got that.

I don't get you, guy. Just relax, ok? You seem way too hostile for this thread...which should be all nice and light-hearted.

So yeah. Relax.

Originally posted by sp_aced


That's always been your plan? OH REALLLLLLLLY. So that was your plan from the get go when you stated earlier in the thread that he was "straight as an arrow". :rolleyes: You're full of shit.
It seems like throughout the course of this thread some other people (scousedave, lie, etc) started to change your thoughts on what his sexuality might be along with the developments that happened at your school.
Why is my suggestion to play soccer with him dumb and Nimrod's suggestion to go swimming great?
Another reason you are full of shit and I hate you.
So be a dumb, naive boy and let this opportunity slide by.
Holy shit dude, shut the fuck up.

Originally posted by neopryn

Holy shit dude, shut the fuck up.

I'd care but you made an apprecation thread for MonteLDS....:rolleyes:

Originally posted by sp_aced


This coming from the guy that gave MonteLDS an appreciation thread....:rolleyes:
Hell yeah bitch...and what does that have to do with you being a fucking asshole for no apparent reason?

And it was for MonteLSD. No one in their right mind would give MonteLDS an appreciation thread.

Originally posted by neopryn

Hell yeah bitch...and what does that have to do with you being a fucking asshole for no apparent reason?

What the fuck is it to you?
This isn't the only thread where Eulogy and I haven't seen eye to eye.
Basically this is where I reveal my final summarization of my feelings for him.
Now I will leave him in peace and ignore him in threads or whatever.

I agree with sp aced. Everything he said sounded genuine and relevant.
Too bad for you Eulogy...

Just so you know, I wasn't saying "go swimming" I was saying "go swimming or watch tv or something." Just examples to suggest a platonic meeting that could also turn into something else.

sp_aced, we're all just trying to help Eulogy, I don't see why you're freaking out on him because he didn't "follow your advice" like a mindless drone.

You need some Xanax.

Originally posted by alabaster
I agree with sp aced. Everything he said sounded genuine and relevant.
Too bad for you Eulogy...

Thank you. ;)

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son
Just so you know, I wasn't saying "go swimming" I was saying "go swimming or watch tv or something." Just examples to suggest a platonic meeting that could also turn into something else.

sp_aced, we're all just trying to help Eulogy, I don't see why you're freaking out on him because he didn't "follow your advice" like a mindless drone.

You need some Xanax.

Oh shut the fuck up.
You told me twice that I was pushing "my agenda" onto him.
Find once in this thread where I said "YOU NEED TO COME OUT"
You won't find it. I never told him that. He said that if it did come out that he was gay he would get rejected by all his friends which I told him probably wouldn't happen if they were really his friends.
When I told him to play soccer with the guy he said "thats dumb"
When you told him to go swimming with him he said "oh thats not dumb, thats my plan as of now".

Originally posted by sp_aced


Oh shut the fuck up.
You told me twice that I was pushing "my agenda" onto him.
Find once in this thread where I said "YOU NEED TO COME OUT"
You won't find it. I never told him that. He said that if it did come out that he was gay he would get rejected by all his friends which I told him probably wouldn't happen if they were really his friends.
When I told him to play soccer with the guy he said "thats dumb"
When you told him to go swimming with him he said "oh thats not dumb, thats my plan as of now".

You know, I really don't care to fight with you.

I'm just trying to help the kid out. Grow up.

Originally posted by sp_aced



When you told him to go swimming with him he said "oh thats not dumb, thats my plan as of now".

When did this happen? He never even suggested that I ask him to go swimming. Can you please learn how to read?

You know, as stupid as you've made yourself look in the past, I've never held it against you. Until now.

You're an idiot who has serious trouble understanding anything anybody posts. So please, take your nonsensical whining somewhere else. I'm getting sick of it.

Originally posted by Eulogy


Oh, that's not dumb at all. That is my plan as of now...I just don't really know how to go about doing that.

So you never said this?

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son


You know, I really don't care to fight with you.

I'm just trying to help the kid out. Grow up.

Who's the one making false accusations?
That will answer the question of who needs to grow up.

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son
This may sound like a dumb idea, but why not invite him to do something that could be totally straight, but like, not... like going swimming and ask him to put lotion on you and see what his reaction is. I dunno, I mean, I've got zero experience with how to pick up dudes, but it's similar to the "hang out with a chick until you're sure she likes you" thing.

He never offered this suggestion then?

Who needs to learn how to read?
Everything I stated is there.
I'm not the stupid one here.

this thread used to be groovy until it turned into handbags at dawn.

Originally posted by sp_aced
Who needs to learn how to read?
Everything I stated is there.
I'm not the stupid one here.

I thought he meant 'don't ask him to go swimming and put lotion on you because that would be too gay.'

I misunderstood that, and I apologize.

When you said 'Ask him to come over and play soccer with you,' I said that was dumb. And it is. I never said the concept of doing something with him that could seem totally normal was dumb. When Nimrod said 'Try and get him to do something with you that could be totally straight,' I said that that was what I'd planned on doing.

Goddamn. It's not that hard to understand. What is wrong with you?

Originally posted by cap'n jazz
this thread used to be groovy until it turned into handbags at dawn.

I took the mojo out of it.

Originally posted by Eulogy


I thought he meant 'don't ask him to go swimming and put lotion on you because that would be too gay.'

I misunderstood that, and I apologize.

When you said 'Ask him to come over and play soccer with you,' I said that was dumb. And it is. I never said the concept of doing something with him that could seem totally normal was dumb. When Nimrod said 'Try and get him to do something with you that could be totally straight,' I said that that was what I'd planned on doing.

Goddamn. It's not that hard to understand. What is wrong with you?

Eh, sp_aced is the confused one. I said something straight, not like swimming/lotion. You understood correctly.

Originally posted by Nimrod's Son


Eh, sp_aced is the confused one. I said something straight, not like swimming/lotion. You understood correctly.

Hah, ok. I thought so...but that kid made me reconsider.

Originally posted by Eulogy


Hah, ok. I thought so...but that kid made me reconsider.

So I was wrong. He worded it weird.

Originally posted by sp_aced


So I was wrong. He worded it weird.

Ok. Are you all better now?

Get this:

So while they've been practicing for the musical....this kid has bonded with my sister and some of her friends.

He's going to Wisconsin with her and her friends on Saturday (day after prom).

Geh!

i've learned in the past with girls to not take everything literally.

i've ached and worried over things/signs that came to be nothing.

are you sure that, even if he was gay, that you would want to go out with him? is it just because he's the first guy that has expressed interest in you? do you genuinely think he'd be a good boyfriend?

if you're just looking to get laid, then hell, i dunno.;)

oh, yeah also:
are there any gay-oriented things in your town, like a cafe or something, where you can meet guys that are no question gay?

there's a cafe a couple blocks from me apt that is gay-oriented. so, i dunno. i haven't seen many young guys in there when i have been in there, but you might want to try to find a definite/predominantly gay place to hang out.

Originally posted by Red Wine Cage
oh, yeah also:
are there any gay-oriented things in your town, like a cafe or something, where you can meet guys that are no question gay?

there's a cafe a couple blocks from me apt that is gay-oriented. so, i dunno. i haven't seen many young guys in there when i have been in there, but you might want to try to find a definite/predominantly gay place to hang out.

Hah...maybe I'll look once I get my license.

And I love this kid. He's cool as hell. I mean, I'd wanna be friends with him if I weren't physically attracted to him.

Originally posted by Eulogy
ok....I don't feel like explaining the whole thing....so I'll cut it down a bit.

To represent people killed by drunk drivers, some kids at my school (including myself) had to put on all black clothes and couldn't talk. 'Cause we were 'dead.' Dumb, yeah...but that's not the point.

This acquaintance of mine who happens to be hot as fuck comes over to me while I'm eating lunch and gives me the biggest hug ever. Then he sat down next to me...and a couple minutes later, he just kind of randonly put his hand on my inner thigh and started rubbing. And he was all 'ah, you sexy, sexy man.' I couldn't say anything...but I thought I needed to get something out of that situation...so I basically just did to him what he did to me. As far as anyone would be able to tell it was all in jest....but yeah. Mmmhmm.

He was obviously joking...but who does that?


shoot him

homosexuals...scare me

Originally posted by chsllama



shoot him

homosexuals...scare me

What the fuck.

No. Damn you.

But to follow up on this story:

He told me on the last day of school he was gonna come to all our soccer workouts and such. He never showed up. I called him once and he was very stoned and nothing really came of that. Hah. I saw him a few weeks back at a party. It was nice. Reminded me of how kickass he could be.

Haven't talked to him since.

AND HE'S NOT GAY.

Originally posted by Eulogy
AND HE'S NOT GAY. my gaydar says otherwise.