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miss world
03-23-2003, 02:45 PM
i have to do it.

CAP'N JAZZ.

miss world
03-23-2003, 02:55 PM
also.

thoughtless
rkjr
failure
i hate music

Mason R Butler
03-23-2003, 03:13 PM
The usual. Actually, fuck that, I only like the girls that like me.

My boy crushes are secret. :love:

miss world
03-23-2003, 03:15 PM
Originally posted by I Hate Music

My boy crushes are secret. :love:

mason is g4y.

cap'n jazz
03-23-2003, 03:17 PM
Originally posted by miss world
i have to do it.

CAP'N JAZZ.

:love:

cap'n jazz
03-23-2003, 03:18 PM
Originally posted by miss world
failure

patrick is _hhhhot_ with all the drawn-out "hhh" sounds you can muster

miss world
03-23-2003, 03:20 PM
Originally posted by cap'n jazz


patrick is _hhhhot_ with all the drawn-out "hhh" sounds you can muster

dear god, do i ever know.

i feel like drooling now.

and i really really really want your hair. :(

Toby
03-23-2003, 03:20 PM
I can't say I have a crush on anyone :( anyone want to be my secret admirer? :(

cap'n jazz
03-23-2003, 03:22 PM
Originally posted by miss world
and i really really really want your hair. :(

nah, it suxxx. i neglect it like most people neglect something that's worth neglecting

miss world
03-23-2003, 03:23 PM
Originally posted by cap'n jazz


nah, it suxxx. i neglect it like most people neglect something that's worth neglecting

don't doubt my judgement.

cap'n jazz
03-23-2003, 03:27 PM
Originally posted by miss world


don't doubt my judgement.

well don't judge my doubtment

jenn
03-23-2003, 03:44 PM
i <3 mike *****.

:blush:

BlueStar
03-23-2003, 03:46 PM
My crushes are secret crushes...revealing them would ruin all the fun.

Geek USA
03-23-2003, 05:29 PM
heh heh heh.. I was found out by mine. he asks too many questions!


ay dios!

kypper
03-23-2003, 05:34 PM
I want to stalk Pakoola

noyen
03-23-2003, 05:36 PM
don't tell anyone, but... jenniferkate

Best Looking Boy
03-23-2003, 05:40 PM
heh

aspecialkid
03-23-2003, 06:05 PM
to many to list.

Affect
03-23-2003, 06:21 PM
I wanted to hump Geek USA until I found out she wasn't that hot.

Now I just want Smiley33. And I'd kick her fag boyfriends ass any day just for a kiss.

yo soy el mejor
03-23-2003, 06:29 PM
Geek USA is hot.

Affect
03-23-2003, 06:32 PM
Originally posted by yo soy el mejor
Geek USA is hot. You tell 'em.

yo soy el mejor
03-23-2003, 06:33 PM
um. yeah. :erm

kypper
03-23-2003, 07:02 PM
Originally posted by Affect

Now I just want Smiley33. And I'd kick her fag husband's ass any day just for a kiss.

Bring it on.

smashingjj
03-23-2003, 07:13 PM
Mirror_Untrue. yes.

oh, and cap'n jazz...

Affect
03-23-2003, 07:41 PM
Originally posted by kypper


Bring it on. You had to edit that, bitch?

kypper
03-23-2003, 07:45 PM
Originally posted by Affect
You had to edit that, bitch?

just correcting your error.

Do you suffer from anger?

What is Anger?

The Nature of Anger

Anger is "an emotional state that varies in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and rage," according to Charles Spielberger, PhD, a psychologist who specializes in the study of anger. Like other emotions, it is accompanied by physiological and biological changes; when you get angry, your heart rate and blood pressure go up, as do the levels of your energy hormones, adrenaline, and noradrenaline.

Anger can be caused by both external and internal events. You could be angry at a specific person (Such as a coworker or supervisor) or event (a traffic jam, a canceled flight), or your anger could be caused by worrying or brooding about your personal problems. Memories of traumatic or enraging events can also trigger angry feelings.

Expressing Anger

The instinctive, natural way to express anger is to respond aggressively. Anger is a natural, adaptive response to threats; it inspires powerful, often aggressive, feelings and behaviors, which allow us to fight and to defend ourselves when we are attacked. A certain amount of anger, therefore, is necessary to our survival.

On the other hand, we can't physically lash out at every person or object that irritates or annoys us; laws, social norms, and common sense place limits on how far our anger can take us.

People use a variety of both conscious and unconscious processes to deal with their angry feelings. The three main approaches are expressing, suppressing, and calming. Expressing your angry feelings in an assertive—not aggressive—manner is the healthiest way to express anger. To do this, you have to learn how to make clear what your needs are, and how to get them met, without hurting others. Being assertive doesn't mean being pushy or demanding; it means being respectful of yourself and others.

Anger can be suppressed, and then converted or redirected. This happens when you hold in your anger, stop thinking about it, and focus on something positive. The aim is to inhibit or suppress your anger and convert it into more constructive behavior. The danger in this type of response is that if it isn't allowed outward expression, your anger can turn inward—on yourself. Anger turned inward may cause hypertension, high blood pressure, or depression.

Unexpressed anger can create other problems. It can lead to pathological expressions of anger, such as passive-aggressive behavior (getting back at people indirectly, without telling them why, rather than confronting them head-on) or a personality that seems perpetually cynical and hostile. People who are constantly putting others down, criticizing everything, and making cynical comments haven't learned how to constructively express their anger. Not surprisingly, they aren't likely to have many successful relationships.

Finally, you can calm down inside. This means not just controlling your outward behavior, but also controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm yourself down, and let the feelings subside.

As Dr. Spielberger notes, "when none of these three techniques work, that's when someone—or something—is going to get hurt."

Anger Management

The goal of anger management is to reduce both your emotional feelings and the physiological arousal that anger causes. You can't get rid of, or avoid, the things or the people that enrage you, nor can you change them, but you can learn to control your reactions.

Are You Too Angry?

There are psychological tests that measure the intensity of angry feelings, how prone to anger you are, and how well you handle it. But chances are good that if you do have a problem with anger, you already know it. If you find yourself acting in ways that seem out of control and frightening, you might need help finding better ways to deal with this emotion.

Why Are Some People More Angry Than Others?

According to Jerry Deffenbacher, PhD, a psychologist who specializes in anger management, some people really are more "hotheaded" than others are; they get angry more easily and more intensely than the average person does. There are also those who don't show their anger in loud spectacular ways but are chronically irritable and grumpy. Easily angered people don't always curse and throw things; sometimes they withdraw socially, sulk, or get physically ill.

People who are easily angered generally have what some psychologists call a low tolerance for frustration, meaning simply that they feel that they should not have to be subjected to frustration, inconvenience, or annoyance. They can't take things in stride, and they're particularly infuriated if the situation seems somehow unjust: for example, being corrected for a minor mistake.

What makes these people this way? A number of things. One cause may be genetic or physiological: There is evidence that some children are born irritable, touchy, and easily angered, and that these signs are present from a very early age. Another may be sociocultural. Anger is often regarded as negative; we're taught that it's all right to express anxiety, depression, or other emotions but not to express anger. As a result, we don't learn how to handle it or channel it constructively.

Research has also found that family ********** plays a role. Typically, people who are easily angered come from families that are disruptive, chaotic, and not skilled at emotional communications.

Is It Good To "Let it All Hang Out?"

Psychologists now say that this is a dangerous myth. Some people use this theory as a license to hurt others. Research has found that "letting it rip" with anger actually escalates anger and aggression and does nothing to help you (or the person you're angry with) resolve the situation.

It's best to find out what it is that triggers your anger, and then to develop strategies to keep those triggers from tipping you over the edge.

http://www.apa.org/pubinfo/anger.html

bonsor
03-23-2003, 07:46 PM
i don't know, really.

but if i was a chick, i would totally have a crush on affect. he's the most gentlemanly person here.

SuckSuckStyle
03-23-2003, 08:00 PM
mayonaise :( she left.

Ghetto_Squirrel
03-23-2003, 08:42 PM
I have non-sexual crushes on the following:

YeehaJamesIha
Melancholia
Mirror_Untrue

Mayonaise.
03-23-2003, 11:16 PM
Originally posted by SuckSuckStyle
mayonaise :( she left.

LIES.

I pick YOU! :D

meow
03-24-2003, 12:15 AM
Originally posted by ******
i don't know, really.

I <3 ****** 4EVA

strange_one
03-24-2003, 12:16 AM
<font color=33FFFF>obscured01 <3</font>

shaniqua
03-24-2003, 01:14 AM
i've already boned him.

Salena Child
03-24-2003, 01:23 AM
nobody.

twice
03-24-2003, 03:16 AM
this thread is oozing sexeh.

Why Am I So Ugly?
03-24-2003, 03:34 AM
siraj mmmmmmm

*gives some auto-fellatio*

VegasPumpkin
03-24-2003, 06:45 AM
none that I'll admit to

StillBecomingApart
03-24-2003, 06:48 AM
Almost every netphoria girl.

cap'n jazz
03-24-2003, 06:48 AM
Originally posted by StillBecomingApart
Almost every netphoria girl.

:mrpimp:

Red Wine Cage
03-24-2003, 06:51 AM
before someone else makes the joke, I HAVE A CRUSH ON RYAN PATRICK.

fuck you guys

Geek USA
03-24-2003, 06:55 AM
Originally posted by cap'n jazz


patrick is _hhhhot_ with all the drawn-out "hhh" sounds you can muster
he asks too many questions!!! and he also gets mason involved :) <3!

ava transformer
03-24-2003, 10:56 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by melancholia
[B]i <3 mike *****.



EWW, EWW & TRIPLE EWWWW!!:D

Crippler
03-24-2003, 10:57 AM
:o

crescentfresh
03-24-2003, 10:58 AM
Originally posted by ava transformer
Originally posted by melancholia
i <3 mike *****.



EWW, EWW & TRIPLE EWWWW!!:D

*****'s the man!:cool:

ava transformer
03-24-2003, 11:00 AM
bittertrance
Debaser
Suck Suck Style
white SPider:blush: :blush:

cap'n jazz
03-24-2003, 11:20 AM
Originally posted by smashingjj
Mirror_Untrue. yes.

oh, and cap'n jazz...

:love:

KrazeeStacee
03-24-2003, 11:23 AM
can't say :o

obscured01
03-24-2003, 11:24 AM
Originally posted by strange_one
<font color=33FFFF>obscured01 <3</font>

<font color="DAB9E8">:D <3</font>

cap'n jazz
03-24-2003, 11:25 AM
Originally posted by KrazeePumpkin
can't say :o

ME TOO SECRET CLUB TIME!

smashingjj
03-24-2003, 11:54 AM
Originally posted by cap'n jazz


:love: :love: indeed!

twice
03-24-2003, 01:57 PM
bittertrance


:blush: :blush: :blush: :love:


LOLOLOLLLERZawerwaef<3<3a>4<#<3kthnxbye

El Savior
03-24-2003, 02:06 PM
no one. no one has really been kind enough for me to have a crush on them :(

i've never felt so unloved.

Ihaman
03-24-2003, 02:07 PM
nobody!

twilightfadez
03-24-2003, 04:02 PM
a couple of people perhaps
i dunno :blush:
i'm too shy to say

KrazeeStacee
03-24-2003, 04:58 PM
Originally posted by twilightfadez
a couple of people perhaps
i dunno :blush:
i'm too shy to say

oui henri
03-24-2003, 06:35 PM
best looking boy has a crush on me

mirrar
03-24-2003, 06:37 PM
Originally posted by oui henri
best looking boy has a crush on me NO, ME!

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 07:01 PM
just jk, sorry ladies, a little late on this boat

oui henri
03-24-2003, 07:07 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy
just jk, sorry ladies, a little late on this boat
well, throw me a lifesaver, dream ship!

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 07:08 PM
:erm :mad: :(

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 07:08 PM
fucking canucks. i like american poon.

oui henri
03-24-2003, 07:09 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy
fucking canucks. i like american poon.

come for the dollar, stay for the beaver

mirrar
03-24-2003, 07:09 PM
Originally posted by oui henri

well, throw me a lifesaver, dream ship! PWNED

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 07:10 PM
i'm only interested in a woman who can eat steak

mirrar
03-24-2003, 07:12 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy
i'm only interested in a woman who can eat steak what about rat?

oui henri
03-24-2003, 07:13 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy
i'm only interested in a woman who can eat steak eat a vegetarian, they have more fibre

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 07:13 PM
nah, yall can stick to moc fags if you like, i like beef

mirrar
03-24-2003, 07:16 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy
nah, yall can stick to moc fags if you like, i like beef :blush: you know me too well.

GhostChild
03-24-2003, 07:30 PM
I have a crush on Nathan Sibbet and his girlfriend Koi

Helena Handbasket
03-24-2003, 07:53 PM
Ihaman
YeehaJamesIha
noyen

I'm fickle.

jenniferkate
03-24-2003, 10:03 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy
just jk, sorry ladies, a little late on this boat

pfft. like i'd have you. :rolleyes:

oh wait thats why, isnt it.

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 10:04 PM
that's how i like it baby. EAT YOUR MEAT.

oui henri
03-24-2003, 10:07 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy
that's how i like it baby. EAT YOUR MEAT.
don't you be cheatin' on me, lovah.

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 10:09 PM
don't even kid girl, you know what's up

oui henri
03-24-2003, 10:11 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy
don't even kid girl, you know what's up
oh, so that's not a crayon in your pocket, you're just happy to see me

:D

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 10:13 PM
i'll draw with a brown crayon on your face if you don't step back ho

oui henri
03-24-2003, 10:15 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy
i'll draw with a brown crayon on your face if you don't step back ho

no cum shots, please

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 10:18 PM
gross, back off cumrag

oui henri
03-24-2003, 10:19 PM
stop setting yourself up then, snaggle tooth

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 10:21 PM
i don't get it

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 10:24 PM
http://batti.20m.com/nowish.jpg
Holy Shit! It's God.

noir cat
03-24-2003, 10:26 PM
Crush? I'd spread my legs for anyone and anything.

:rofl:
LOLLERZ!!!!!!! BURN!

jenniferkate
03-24-2003, 10:36 PM
Originally posted by Best Looking Boy

Holy Shit! It's God.

hey no need for that

Best Looking Boy
03-24-2003, 10:37 PM
i was just being real :(

twice
03-24-2003, 10:43 PM
she's so adorable!!!!

i just wanna squeeze her and giggle and stuff. :erm :blush: :o:(

noyen
03-24-2003, 10:45 PM
my love's getting inched out :(

noir cat
03-24-2003, 10:45 PM
Originally posted by twice
i just wanna squeeze her boobs and giggle and stuff. Okay.

twice
03-24-2003, 10:50 PM
Originally posted by undivinemartyr
Okay. heh...I WANTED IT TO APPEAR INNOCENT! but yeah. :(

jenniferkate
03-24-2003, 11:00 PM
Originally posted by twice

i just wanna squeeze her and giggle and stuff. :erm :blush: :o:(

maggie one day we will have a slumber party :blush:

Mr. Rhinoceros
03-25-2003, 05:54 AM
Originally posted by StillBecomingApart
Almost every netphoria girl.

<font color=#007AAA face="courier new">You're so fucking pathetic.</font>

wangcomputers
03-25-2003, 03:30 PM
i think mirror untrue has a crush on me.

just the other day she was asking me if i like skulls.

spa ced
03-25-2003, 03:43 PM
I :love: autumnNOCTURNE.

noyen
03-25-2003, 03:52 PM
Originally posted by Helena Handbasket
Ihaman
YeehaJamesIha
noyen

I'm fickle.

awww. blush.