View Full Version : I need some advice on how to handle this situation.
Eulogy 03-20-2003, 10:23 PM Ok, for spring break, I'm taking a family vacation to Florida. And this girl I kind of know is going to be in the same area. We talked a little bit about it, and she was just kind of like, 'Well I'm sure I'll see you,' and such....but I mean, there's a shitload of people there....it wouldn't be very likely that you'd just run into someone you knew. So like...should I be a little more assertive and get a phone number to call or something? Or should I take her not giving me one as a sign that she really would rather not see me? All I know about her opinion of me is that she has said that I am a 'cool kid.'
Oh, and she's hot as fuck. In case you were wondering.
noyen 03-20-2003, 10:25 PM shoot the hostage.
toyschoketoys 03-20-2003, 10:31 PM It doesnt look good to be standing there with your cock in your hand.
Do you know what you want , if you do dont worry about not getting the answer you want , make sure you get it.
I say tell her straight , i am always open and as honest as i can be it way easier in the long run.
june33 03-20-2003, 10:33 PM Originally posted by thestreetsarehot2night
I say tell her straight
Eulogy 03-20-2003, 10:35 PM Originally posted by thestreetsarehot2night
It doesnt look good to be standing there with your cock in your hand.
Do you know what you want , if you do dont worry about not getting the answer you want , make sure you get it.
I say tell her straight , i am always open and as honest as i can be it way easier in the long run.
Well I'm not really looking to get involved with her or anything...I am just in desperate need of someone to hang out with. A week with just my family would be unbearable. The fact that she's hot is just kind of an added bonus...as well as a nice little obstacle, in a way. heh
noir cat 03-20-2003, 10:36 PM Originally posted by thestreetsarehot2night
It doesnt look good to be standing there with your cock in your hand.
Do you know what you want , if you do dont worry about not getting the answer you want , make sure you get it.
I say tell her straight , i am always open and as honest as i can be it way easier in the long run.
DAMNED MOTHAFUCKING STR8.
You go and ask her her contact information. Yeah. Oh, AND COME VISIT ME AND CATHY/TWILIGHTFADEZ. WE LIVE IN MIAMI.
toyschoketoys 03-20-2003, 10:38 PM Pardon ?
just tell her the reason you gave us , slip in a fuck buddy comment and then duck as she tries to slap you
Eulogy 03-20-2003, 10:42 PM Originally posted by thestreetsarehot2night
Pardon ?
just tell her the reason you gave us , slip in a fuck buddy comment and then duck as she tries to slap you
Hah.
I suppose...but I'm just so....awkward around people I don't know too well. Well maybe that will just make her feel sorry for me.
noir cat 03-20-2003, 10:47 PM VISIT ME, OKAY? Maybe you n her n me n Joe n Cat n her bf can all triple date or somethin.
mirrar 03-20-2003, 10:47 PM just tell her that you'd like to have someone you know to chill with to get you away from yer family for a bit and ask if it's cool if you get her number there.
Eulogy 03-20-2003, 10:53 PM Originally posted by undivinemartyr
VISIT ME, OKAY? Maybe you n her n me n Joe n Cat n her bf can all triple date or somethin.
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh, you were talking to me. haha, I'm dumb.
Well, I'd like to, but you know, the whole not being able to drive thing and being quite a ways from Miami will probably prevent that from happening.
:-/
Eulogy 03-20-2003, 10:54 PM Originally posted by Mirror_Untrue
just tell her that you'd like to have someone you know to chill with to get you away from yer family for a bit and ask if it's cool if you get her number there.
Yeah, I guess.
I don't know if I'll even get the opportunity though because I am leaving tomorrow.
mmhmm
Eulogy 03-20-2003, 11:20 PM OR
I could get her number from a mutual friend...and then just tell her I have it. Hah. I dunno.
toyschoketoys 03-20-2003, 11:25 PM thats pretty feeble
get some balls and get her told
crescentfresh 03-20-2003, 11:30 PM Originally posted by Eulogy
she was just kind of like, 'Well I'm sure I'll see you,' and such....but I mean, there's a shitload of people there....it wouldn't be very likely that you'd just run into someone you knew.
Exactly. It means she is uninterested.
MonteLDS 03-20-2003, 11:47 PM do u have any pictures...
and i suggest you tell her "hey i wanna go out with u while i am out there. are u down?"
Eulogy 03-20-2003, 11:59 PM Originally posted by MonteLDS
do u have any pictures...
and i suggest you tell her "hey i wanna go out with u while i am out there. are u down?"
No and no. Silly Monte.
MonteLDS 03-21-2003, 12:07 AM Originally posted by Eulogy
No and no. Silly Monte.
tee hee... well i don't know how old you are (i imagine still young since u still do family vacation). But get some nerve and tell her I want to met up with you. I am sure you won't marry her or anything but datting or being friends is all about going out with that other person.
RopeyLopey 03-21-2003, 12:35 AM Originally posted by Mirror_Untrue
just tell her that you'd like to have someone you know to chill with to get you away from yer family for a bit and ask if it's cool if you get her number there.
getting her number through a friend is retarded. Advice above is the best thing you can do - surely she'd give you the number if you ask for it like this..
Eulogy 03-21-2003, 01:00 AM OR
I could give her the number of my place. And let her decide whether or not she wants to do anything with it.
RopeyLopey 03-21-2003, 01:18 AM Originally posted by Eulogy
OR
I could give her the number of my place. And let her decide whether or not she wants to do anything with it.
Nah.
Whatever - heh, at least you know you can hang out with undivinemartyr...
BlueStar 03-21-2003, 01:22 AM Originally posted by Mirror_Untrue
just tell her that you'd like to have someone you know to chill with to get you away from yer family for a bit and ask if it's cool if you get her number there.
Yep...this is the way to go.
Eulogy 03-21-2003, 01:23 AM Mission accomplished. I got her cell phone number.
RopeyLopey 03-21-2003, 01:25 AM Originally posted by Eulogy
Mission accomplished. I got her cell phone number.
bravo ;) - have fun - hopefully you've faced it as a man and asked HER and not her friend for it....
Eulogy 03-21-2003, 01:36 AM Originally posted by RopeyLopey
bravo ;) - have fun - hopefully you've faced it as a man and asked HER and not her friend for it....
I did indeed. I guess I do have some balls. Or at least one.
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