View Full Version : is it ok to watch porn while in a relationship


redbull
06-16-2009, 11:08 PM
ssia

Gossamer
06-16-2009, 11:10 PM
of course

Rickpat12
06-16-2009, 11:11 PM
I'm in a long term committed relationship and I do, and she's fine with it.

bja1288
06-16-2009, 11:16 PM
i ask her for permission and then i say a little prayer

wHATcOLOR
06-16-2009, 11:23 PM
i am a man

28if
06-16-2009, 11:25 PM
lol

Shallowed
06-16-2009, 11:30 PM
:cry:

myosis
06-16-2009, 11:42 PM
watch it together?

Joe
06-17-2009, 12:17 AM
http://forums.netphoria.org/general-chat-message-board/165103-so-i-cant-fuck-my-girlfriend.html


for this guys sake lets hope so.

murgle
06-17-2009, 12:39 AM
of course. I think it's stupid when someone won't "allow" their partner to watch porn. When my boyfriend's best friend got married, he gave my boyfriend his box o porn because his newly wedded wife banned it from the house.

fluxequalsrad
06-17-2009, 12:40 AM
ladies, you're going to have to figure out how to adapt to the fact that your boyfriend watches porn daily.

YSEM
06-17-2009, 12:51 AM
guhross.

Gossamer
06-17-2009, 12:53 AM
i think it's hilarious how different most men and women feel about this.

fluxequalsrad
06-17-2009, 12:55 AM
Is it a morality issue? or a "I am jealous" issue?

I think that's what it comes down to.

Gossamer
06-17-2009, 12:57 AM
jealousy

Brute Squad
06-17-2009, 01:41 AM
if women have a problem with it, they should fuck their boyfriends more often. simple as that.

ohnoitsbonnie
06-17-2009, 01:50 AM
if women have a problem with it, they should fuck their boyfriends more often. simple as that.

That doesn't make sense. Porn fulfills some kind of psychological need that no amount of intercourse could change.

YSEM
06-17-2009, 01:52 AM
i just think it's gross. i dont watch it. i dont m'bate. aint got no need, y0.

ohnoitsbonnie
06-17-2009, 01:52 AM
and a part of me feels a kind of jealousy or maybe inadequacy about these sort of things but I can understand it at the same time so I just stick to that

Brute Squad
06-17-2009, 01:56 AM
That doesn't make sense. Porn fulfills some kind of psychological need that no amount of intercourse could change.

the need to orgasm. whether that's psychological or not, I have no idea. sex is of course more than that, but it comes with the package.

ohnoitsbonnie
06-17-2009, 01:57 AM
Alright Andre Fogelsong. I guess that is it. I guess.

YSEM
06-17-2009, 01:57 AM
i dont have a need to orgasm, y0.

Brute Squad
06-17-2009, 01:58 AM
you're not a man

YSEM
06-17-2009, 01:59 AM
oh shit. i didnt know that.

Gossamer
06-17-2009, 02:00 AM
we gotta spread dat seed around

if it's virtually than so be it.

Brute Squad
06-17-2009, 02:03 AM
when did virtual sex happen? i thought it was just some crazy ass idea that never came to fruition.

YSEM
06-17-2009, 02:06 AM
whats that one nsync song about virtual love-making?

Nimrod's Son
06-17-2009, 04:01 AM
watch? i like to make it.

Mo
06-17-2009, 04:16 AM
I usually didn't, because I didn't feel the need to get off when she wasn't around. But in principle - sure.

I'm Hardcore
06-17-2009, 04:19 AM
man i like to save up all my cum so my balls get really big and then blow it on a bitches chest and face because huge cumshots impress those bitches

Joe
06-17-2009, 04:43 AM
ladies, you're going to have to figure out how to adapt to the fact that your boyfriend watches porn daily.

hourly

Sonic Johnny
06-17-2009, 05:01 AM
can't get laid 5 times a day every day, so a bit of porn here and there is the go.

Mablak
06-17-2009, 05:42 AM
To offset some of the illogical votes by women, I decided to choose the second option. And yeah it doesn't really matter if you're okay with it or not, it will happen just as frequently.

Starla
06-17-2009, 07:03 AM
i think the porn would be great. takes the burdens off of me to have to bother doing anything. i'll provide good lotion and soft towels.

Cool As Ice Cream
06-17-2009, 07:07 AM
watch? i like to make it.

LOLOLOLOOOOOOOOOOOOOL check out this guy :rofl:

Starla
06-17-2009, 07:09 AM
he's telling the truth

Shallowed
06-17-2009, 07:18 AM
Does he make solo porn?

Cool As Ice Cream
06-17-2009, 07:36 AM
he's telling the truth

he's missing the point.

Sonic Johnny
06-17-2009, 07:52 AM
Does he make solo ?



post/av/location

Sepiae
06-17-2009, 08:23 AM
I freaking took a class in porn in college. I'm not going to tell anyone they can't watch it, whether they are my boyfriend or not.

Caine Walker
06-17-2009, 09:25 AM
man i like to save up all my cum so my balls get really big and then blow it on a bitches chest and face because huge cumshots impress those bitches

<ha>

samuel redman
06-17-2009, 07:02 PM
i rarely if ever watch porn

agenda suicide
06-17-2009, 09:23 PM
as long as you're having more fun with your partner than you are while watching porn, I don't think it's an issue.
now there are some men who enjoy porn more than being with their woman.. that just aint cool.

trev
06-17-2009, 09:59 PM
^

and

I usually didn't, because I didn't feel the need to get off when she wasn't around. But in principle - sure.

+<b></b>1

Eulogy
06-17-2009, 10:20 PM
this is a stupid question and anyone who said "no" is either lying or stupid.

Shallowed
06-18-2009, 12:13 AM
I can't let her find out though.

duovamp
06-18-2009, 12:30 AM
this is a stupid question and anyone who said "no" is either lying or stupid.

How dare you.

Nimrod's Son
06-18-2009, 01:11 AM
LOLOLOLOOOOOOOOOOOOOL check out this guy :rofl:

I'm sorry you little faggots can't get your boyfriends to let you film them fucking you

I'm Hardcore
06-18-2009, 01:37 AM
'phobia

I'm Hardcore
06-18-2009, 01:47 AM
fuck man, cool as ice cream you just got served

Cool As Ice Cream
06-18-2009, 02:22 AM
ice cream and served in one sentence? i'm there.

I'm Hardcore
06-18-2009, 02:25 AM
sounds like you're SERVING up CREAM to your FAGGOT boyfriend!

Cool As Ice Cream
06-18-2009, 02:29 AM
oooh BURN!

D.
06-18-2009, 05:13 AM
i'd say it depends on the person you're with...?

if porn is a big deal to who youre with and you don't want to give it up or you feel they are being ridiculous than a.) they are probably ridiculous about other petty bullshit b.) you're probs going to be incompatible in other areas, as well c.) dump them

Luke de Spa
06-18-2009, 05:46 AM
what if they make the reasonable argument that pornography exploits women and objectifies them, thereby perpetuating the cycles of sexism and patriarchy that have led to the unjust discrimination and oppression of women for thousands of years

what then david

do you go pray to your imaginary god for answers, <i>david</>

D.
06-18-2009, 06:26 AM
what if they make the reasonable argument that pornography exploits women and objectifies them, thereby perpetuating the cycles of sexism and patriarchy that have led to the unjust discrimination and oppression of women for thousands of years

what then david

do you go pray to your imaginary god for answers, <i>david</>
i would mostly agree with that, LDS.

i don't even watch porn, so how about them apples?

Luke de Spa
06-18-2009, 07:07 AM
which part do you disagree with

and yes you do watch porn. there's no point in lying, david. we're keeping an eye on you

D.
06-18-2009, 05:10 PM
i think porn can also be seen as a woman's choice. women are not automatically poor, helpless creatures with no mind of their own.

and, you never wrote what you thought of me in your thread.:mad:

publius clodius
06-18-2009, 05:34 PM
i think porn can also be seen as a woman's choice. women are not automatically poor, helpless creatures with no mind of their own.

not this discussion plz

ravenguy2000
06-18-2009, 06:17 PM
now i wanna know why d. doesn't watch porn

shannon
06-18-2009, 06:19 PM
now i wanna know why d. doesn't watch porn
i wanted to ask but decided not to

but yeah

Nimrod's Son
06-18-2009, 06:24 PM
now i wanna know why d. doesn't watch porn

http://gaygothboys.tribe.net/thread/b880fcb4-2570-4bf1-9a80-4978b5221844

ohnoitsbonnie
06-20-2009, 10:25 AM
Actually, I have reconsidered. It's an incredibly disgusting habit and it's completely demeaning to women.

D.
06-20-2009, 10:32 AM
not this discussion plz
two sides to everything, yo

now i wanna know why d. doesn't watch porn
it's not like i never have or anything (nor do i judge who does) and i mean, if someone puts it on (in mixed company - all dudes watching porn is weird), sure ... but i just have a very active imagination if i need to, uh, let loose a little steam.
but, in the contect of a relationship, yeah, if the gf didn't want that in the relationship, i'd be like *shrug* whatever, non issue.

and nimrod, really? a gay goth joke, in 2009?:banging:

hnibos
06-20-2009, 10:56 AM
watching porn with company mixed or not is weird

D.
06-20-2009, 11:09 AM
watching porn with company mixed or not is weird
well, yeah, i've never been in the situation, i'm just posting a hypothetical situation ... or something.

either way, i have no problem with porn, i just don't really watch it. :\

june_soma
06-21-2009, 10:09 AM
Of course it's okay. Porn is good for you! :)

Banana
06-21-2009, 11:02 AM
I think if you're in a relationship and you have to watch porn then there's something wrong with the sexual side of the relationship between the two of you.

fluxequalsrad
06-21-2009, 02:29 PM
I think if you're in a relationship and you have to watch porn then there's something wrong with the sexual side of the relationship between the two of you.

with this logic, you're saying if you're attracted to the point of wanting to have sex with another person besides your partner, than there is something wrong with your relationship. :erm:

Banana
06-21-2009, 02:33 PM
Well yeah, if you are wanting to have sex with another person other than your partner I'd say there is something wrong with your relationship.

The only reason for someone to watch porn when they are in a relationship is if they aren't completely satisfied with the quality and the amount of sex being had in that relationship.

ravenguy2000
06-21-2009, 02:36 PM
don't quote banana

killtrocity
06-21-2009, 02:38 PM
i am a girl, no
ATS, duovamp, neopryn, YSEM
wtf

fluxequalsrad
06-21-2009, 03:53 PM
Well yeah, if you are wanting to have sex with another person other than your partner I'd say there is something wrong with your relationship.

The only reason for someone to watch porn when they are in a relationship is if they aren't completely satisfied with the quality and the amount of sex being had in that relationship.

may i direct you, to the summer meat thread?

Travis Meeks
06-22-2009, 06:51 PM
does anyone ever watch porn without having sex with a partner or Jing O?

agenda suicide
06-22-2009, 07:21 PM
does anyone ever watch porn without having sex with a partner or Jing O?

Sometimes porn can be good for a laugh. Ex: that japanese gym with the mirrored room full of girls riding guys ending with the crazy chick convulsing and crying. Oh youporn.. Thanks.

fluxequalsrad
06-22-2009, 07:54 PM
Oh youporn.. Thanks.

:love:

fluxequalsrad
06-22-2009, 08:08 PM
Well yeah, if you are wanting to have sex with another person other than your partner I'd say there is something wrong with your relationship.
.

just to clarify - i did say 'wanting', not 'wanting to, and going to try to'...

my argument comes down to biology - people want to bone other people, simple as that.