View Full Version : ladies, i need your help!


Mooney
05-31-2009, 07:00 PM
during cunnilingus, do you enjoy having a finger or two 'up there', or not?
:embarass:

oh, and i don't mean in the pooper.

shannon
05-31-2009, 07:02 PM
well, for starters, definitely not one... but yeah

Mooney
05-31-2009, 07:05 PM
i should have made this a poll. the first few ladies i was with preferred no fingers, but now i am starting to realize that this is far from general consensus.

barden
05-31-2009, 07:07 PM
If I'm using any fingers while I use the tongue, I like to remind myself that my primary stimulation must still be focused on the tongue (working the clit specifically, but not exclusively) and that in this instance, fingers can be used to build up additional intensity (usually in waves) but should not be my main objective.
IE: I'm still going for a clitoral orgasm but using some additional vaginal stimulation to get there.

Mooney
05-31-2009, 07:08 PM
try and apply pressure to the g-spot with the fingers, i assume.

barden
05-31-2009, 07:10 PM
well, I guess a bit of that.
But I dont normally go for the g spot when I'm giving some tongue love cause I find too much of a good thing is distracting, and the female orgasm is a subtle beast.
I'll go for it if I'm just doing the finger action though.

barden
05-31-2009, 07:13 PM
And I've found that weird attempts at some boob stimulation at the same time is just not going to work for anyone. Plus we're guys and we dont own vaginas so we should probably focus on the job at hand.
My arms/ hands only really wander up that way if we're being specifically physical and I'm kinda like, holding her shoulders / chest against the bed while she grinds up against my mouth or some weird gym sex that happens now and then.

AndySlash
05-31-2009, 07:14 PM
And I've found that weird attempts at some boob stimulation at the same time is just not going to work for anyone.

Wrong.

shannon
05-31-2009, 07:16 PM
^

barden
05-31-2009, 07:19 PM
Wrong.

oh well, I'm basing that on my experience anyway.
I'm talking about how I personally operate. Your GF might not mind you fumbling around on her nipples while you gasp for air and try part her love curtain to attack the clit appropirately, but for me personally, I feel it's like cooling yourself down with a hosepipe while you're in the swimming pool.

barden
05-31-2009, 07:21 PM
besides, she has hands of her own, she can help out if she feels her mammaries are being neglected.

AndySlash
05-31-2009, 07:24 PM
her hands are usually too busy clawing my arms or back in ecstacy because I already got that shit taken care of

shannon
05-31-2009, 07:27 PM
besides, she has hands of her own, she can help out if she feels her mammaries are being neglected.

next time you ask some chick to get going on your balls while she's down there i hope she says that to you, that you have "hands of your own"

Mooney
05-31-2009, 07:30 PM
:)

barden
05-31-2009, 07:30 PM
i dont ask girls to get going on my balls!
if they decide too, well thats a pleasant suprise!

Sepiae
05-31-2009, 09:35 PM
during cunnilingus, do you enjoy having a finger or two 'up there', or not?
:embarass:

oh, and i don't mean in the pooper.

I'm not opposed to it once in awhile, but I don't necessarily want or need it in the standard repertoire. Too much stimulation.

agenda suicide
05-31-2009, 09:57 PM
fingers are good in my opinion, but then again it depends on the girl.

ATS
05-31-2009, 10:01 PM
grotesque thread

Shallowed
05-31-2009, 10:50 PM
Advice for life.

Sarcastic Smile
05-31-2009, 11:02 PM
grotesque thread

everything sexual is grotesque to you.. did you have an uncle that touched you? repression is unhealthy..

agenda suicide
05-31-2009, 11:13 PM
well he dated lauren... HIYOOOOO

jk jk

Thaniel Buckner
05-31-2009, 11:53 PM
hey mooney the girl you're fingerbanging might be a more reliable source for this information.

hnibos
06-01-2009, 12:07 PM
everything sexual is grotesque to you.. did you have an uncle that touched you? repression is unhealthy..

so THATS what it is

vanilla
06-01-2009, 08:01 PM
use your entire fist. that's what i prefer.

Mooney
06-01-2009, 09:11 PM
okay.

shannon
06-01-2009, 09:13 PM
meh, DEL

shannon
06-01-2009, 09:14 PM
delly del del!

barden
06-01-2009, 09:27 PM
aw break some hearts why dont you shannon.

shannon
06-01-2009, 09:35 PM
personally, i'm a fan of ****** while ***** on the **** while i ***** on the ***** after ******** the shit out of the ***** and then ****** myself while he **** then i like to put my ****** on the ****** and *******************

shannon
06-01-2009, 09:36 PM
i wish that made any sense

shannon
06-01-2009, 09:39 PM
kind of the opposite of what i was trying to do, though, so it's cool

barden
06-01-2009, 09:43 PM
its okay i have quite an imagination.

Mooney
06-01-2009, 09:46 PM
you lost me. :(