during cunnilingus, do you enjoy having a finger or two 'up there', or not?
:embarass:

oh, and i don't mean in the pooper.

well, for starters, definitely not one... but yeah

i should have made this a poll. the first few ladies i was with preferred no fingers, but now i am starting to realize that this is far from general consensus.

If I'm using any fingers while I use the tongue, I like to remind myself that my primary stimulation must still be focused on the tongue (working the clit specifically, but not exclusively) and that in this instance, fingers can be used to build up additional intensity (usually in waves) but should not be my main objective.
IE: I'm still going for a clitoral orgasm but using some additional vaginal stimulation to get there.

try and apply pressure to the g-spot with the fingers, i assume.

well, I guess a bit of that.
But I dont normally go for the g spot when I'm giving some tongue love cause I find too much of a good thing is distracting, and the female orgasm is a subtle beast.
I'll go for it if I'm just doing the finger action though.

And I've found that weird attempts at some boob stimulation at the same time is just not going to work for anyone. Plus we're guys and we dont own vaginas so we should probably focus on the job at hand.
My arms/ hands only really wander up that way if we're being specifically physical and I'm kinda like, holding her shoulders / chest against the bed while she grinds up against my mouth or some weird gym sex that happens now and then.

And I've found that weird attempts at some boob stimulation at the same time is just not going to work for anyone.

Wrong.

^

Wrong.

oh well, I'm basing that on my experience anyway.
I'm talking about how I personally operate. Your GF might not mind you fumbling around on her nipples while you gasp for air and try part her love curtain to attack the clit appropirately, but for me personally, I feel it's like cooling yourself down with a hosepipe while you're in the swimming pool.

besides, she has hands of her own, she can help out if she feels her mammaries are being neglected.

her hands are usually too busy clawing my arms or back in ecstacy because I already got that shit taken care of

besides, she has hands of her own, she can help out if she feels her mammaries are being neglected.

next time you ask some chick to get going on your balls while she's down there i hope she says that to you, that you have "hands of your own"

:)

i dont ask girls to get going on my balls!
if they decide too, well thats a pleasant suprise!

during cunnilingus, do you enjoy having a finger or two 'up there', or not?
:embarass:

oh, and i don't mean in the pooper.

I'm not opposed to it once in awhile, but I don't necessarily want or need it in the standard repertoire. Too much stimulation.

fingers are good in my opinion, but then again it depends on the girl.

grotesque thread

Advice for life.

grotesque thread

everything sexual is grotesque to you.. did you have an uncle that touched you? repression is unhealthy..

well he dated lauren... HIYOOOOO

jk jk

hey mooney the girl you're fingerbanging might be a more reliable source for this information.

everything sexual is grotesque to you.. did you have an uncle that touched you? repression is unhealthy..

so THATS what it is

use your entire fist. that's what i prefer.

okay.

meh, DEL

delly del del!

aw break some hearts why dont you shannon.

personally, i'm a fan of ****** while ***** on the **** while i ***** on the ***** after ******** the shit out of the ***** and then ****** myself while he **** then i like to put my ****** on the ****** and *******************

i wish that made any sense

kind of the opposite of what i was trying to do, though, so it's cool

its okay i have quite an imagination.

you lost me. :(