so there's this girl who works at the hotel i'm living in. She's pretty cute and we've flirted a little bit but nothing major. I've lived here for a while so i know the other guys at the desk pretty well. I asked them about her and they told me to go for it; she's new to town and i should ask her out. one dude said he'd put in a good word for me. I walked through the lobby and he was like "tess! come here! she wants me to give you her number"

so i have ner number. she's off tonight and i have no plans. I'm also planning on moving to a new hotel after i get back from thanksgiving. She's a bit older than me and a friend of mine said i should wait a week to call her because "she sounds like she needs to be teased otherwise whe'll do whatevever she wants with you"

so do i say fuck playing games and man up by just calling her for drinks tonight?

or do i wait until after thanksgiving when i'm not staying here anymore and just call her out of the blue?

i dont know what to do.

just call her tonight and ask her to hang out. Good luck bro!

oh and I'd wear a condom, I've read that people who work in hotels sleep around alot.

thanks.

my friend who likes to give me advice always plays the 'game' angle. i dont like playing games. if she wants to have a drink with me she'll have a drink with me. i mean she gave me her number for a reason, right?

oh! the only other thing...

i was supposed to get paid yesterday and something got fucked up in payroll and i have exactly $100 to my name until i dont know when. and i'd like to pay for her drinks...so. ugh.

Call her! Mind games suck. If I gave a guy my number and he waited an entire week to call me, I would think he was either a: a mind fuck or b: a douche.

It's like you said. She gave you her number for a reason. So go out, have a drink and get to know her. Have a great time!

Why do you live in a hotel?

del

i live in a hotel because i travel a lot for my job. so instead of trying to find a new apartment every 2 weeks to 4 months, i stay in hotels. but i'm actually going to be here for good so i'll probably find a place after new years.

make sure you get those hotel points dude! I just cashed in a bunch of mine and got like $500 in gift cards

make sure you get those hotel points dude! I just cashed in a bunch of mine and got like $500 in gift cards

Is that what the kids are calling it these days? OH YES cash in your hotel points at my rewards zone kiosk and I'll give you like $500 in gift cards! OH YES OH FUCK YEEEEAAAH.






























































FUCK YEEEEAH!

CALL HER.

But don't take her to Krave. Go someplace stupid like The Frog or Haufbrau house!

Is that what the kids are calling it these days? OH YES cash in your hotel points at my rewards zone kiosk and I'll give you like $500 in gift cards! OH YES OH FUCK YEEEEAAAH.




I'm gonna thrust my Golden Saucer into your Northern Crater

CALL HER.

But don't take her to Krave. Go someplace stupid like The Frog or Haufbrau house!

i called her. she's busy tonight but will let me know if she's in my area.

i was gonna take her to the griffin hehe.

yeah but what about the hotel points?

Oh yeah get those points and take picture when you do!

yeah but what about the hotel points?


i'll see what i can do. i dont know how it works here.

what hotel?

candlewood suites. its not a big chain. nothing fancy, but comfortable. my new place however, the staybridge. is more like a fucking sweet swanky apartment. i'm very excited about it.

ask her if she does greek

you'd think being a girl yourself would make this easier.

Call her! Mind games suck. If I gave a guy my number and he waited an entire week to call me, I would think he was either a: a mind fuck or b: a douche.

Why do men play this... hard to get ....or make the girl wait game? Why pretend you are unavailable?

men who pretend they are unavailable = really sitting at home doing nothing, watching romantic comedies, playing wow, jacking off to porn, having sex in second life

Why do men play this... hard to get ....or make the girl wait game? Why pretend you are unavailable?
because we're confused as fuck.

del

If you treat romantic challenges with logic, not only will you be thinking clearly, but you will be approaching things in a comparable manner as women usually do.
Fear, worry, fretting, second-guessing, "mind-reading", two-stepping...bullshit we all do, and always regret. Illogical, too...coincidence?
Just be you, and Spock, mindmelded into one. That's all you need.

You heard the man.

http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e216/kakay_80/QUOTES/FRIEND%20AND%20GIRLY%20QUOTES/Be_Yourself.png

i'm convinced 'be yourself' is terrible advice purposefully spread around by nice, likeable people to keep people like me away from other nice, likeable people

how do you know if someone you like is gay too? is there some signal code you can send out or do you have ask or what?

so do i say fuck playing games and man up by just calling her for drinks tonight?

or do i wait until after thanksgiving when i'm not staying here anymore and just call her out of the blue?

i dont know what to do.

just suck it up and put it in.

so how did the date go / didn't go?

just suck it up and put it in.

Put what in?

doubledongs 4 lyfe, yo

here's some advice:

Just wait a few days to call or write. After she's grown tired of waiting around, and decides to ditch any idea of you......THEN you contact her. Always keep her guessing.

i was gonna take her to the griffin hehe.

*cue porno music*

i'm convinced 'be yourself' is terrible advice purposefully spread around by nice, likeable people to keep people like me away from other nice, likeable people

yeah

Tessa, I banged the office receptionist tonight. What do you think about that?

If I ever win the lottery I'm going to live in hotels for the rest of my life.

so she was busy or whatever last night. and so i go out with a co worker to tear it up all over vegas. and i'm in the middle of the dancefloor when she texts me. so we pretty much text all night. she even sent me a picture of herself.

but i'm still unsure if she's into me. logically, i mean. I'm just gonna do my thing. and this is hard because even though i am a girl, i dont think like a girl when it comes to this shit. i think like a ten year old boy.

and yeah. gay people just know when someone else is gay. i never had a doubt in my mind about her.

but she's working tonight. and i dont know if i should go say hi or what. i was walking down the hall with my laundry and the dude at the front desk was like, "tess, i think you should do your laundry around oh i dont know 230 or so...she's coming in" so he convinced me to do it when she's working so i have a reason to see her.

now i gotta look hot when i do it.

Tessa, I banged the office receptionist tonight. What do you think about that?


i think you're a liar!

Why do men play this... hard to get ....or make the girl wait game? Why pretend you are unavailable?

I don't know. I wonder about the same thing.

so she was busy or whatever last night. and so i go out with a co worker to tear it up all over vegas. and i'm in the middle of the dancefloor when she texts me. so we pretty much text all night. she even sent me a picture of herself.

but i'm still unsure if she's into me. logically, i mean. I'm just gonna do my thing. and this is hard because even though i am a girl, i dont think like a girl when it comes to this shit. i think like a ten year old boy.

Sounds to me that she's into you. Why would she contact you if she wasn't?

Good luck with this!

My ex lives in Vegas. I wonder if he still works at Walgreens.

/useless post

i think you're a liar!

no way! That's the person who I said I was waiting for last night. She S my D too bro!

Tessa, I banged the office receptionist tonight. What do you think about that?

Did she do the take-glasses-off-and-shake-out-hair thing like this?

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I wish!

no way! That's the person who I said I was waiting for last night. She S my D too bro!

high five!

fuck i'm hella nervous to do my laundry now

Be sure to put some cool underwear in there. Or don't you lesbians care about that sorta thing? When my sister had a girlfriend she didn't wear a bra for like two years. :)

i wear boxers/boxer briefs

my exgirflriend, though was very girly. she would get this sexy shit from victoria's secret. i loved that.

ooh la la.

OOH LA LA!!!

i wear boxers/boxer briefs

my exgirflriend, though was very girly. she would get this sexy shit from victoria's secret. i loved that.

Well, boxers on a girl can be very hot. Keep us posted!

tessa bring your laundry over to her and ask her to smell a piece for april freshness. of course really have some chloroform on it.